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Alcohol is crazy. One small cocktail enters your body and fifteen minutes later, it has transmogrifie into like a gallon of piss

andhumanslovedstories

That is the drunkest way I could have spelled that

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the idea that restrooms, locker rooms, etc need to be single-sex spaces in order for women to be safe is patriarchy's way of signalling to men & boys that society doesn't expect them to behave themselves around women. it is directly antifeminist. it would be antifeminist even if trans people did not exist. a feminist society would demand that women should be safe in all spaces even when there are men there.

asneakyfox

btw this is maybe the single most key distinguishing feature of the terfy strains of radical feminism, the seed all the rest of it springs out of: they have absolutely no faith in the ability of feminism to actually destroy patriarchy. they do not think feminism can truly build a better world. they cannot really even imagine that possibility. they think patriarchy is an inevitable natural consequence of unchangeable biological facts, and therefore the goal of feminism can only be to mitigate the worst effects of patriarchy, not to get rid of it.

they can imagine a society where women get some designated safe spaces without men around. they cannot imagine a society where the presence of men is not inherently a danger to women.

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lowerroad

it's a good thing mensah is already married with kids by the start of all systems red because can you imagine trying to make a new longterm relationship work when you have to explain to potential partners that murderbot will be there. no not romantically or sexually. but it is there.

mollyjames

*inserting new RAM into my 10 year old motherboard* "Shhh... hey, hey! It's okay girl. I didn't mean to startle you. I know it's been a little while. I've got a nice little treat for you here, okay? It's going to help you run smoother. There now, see? That wasn't so bad. I'm sorry girl. I didn't realize how much stress I've been putting you under, streaming Elden Ring with only 8 GB of memory... No wonder you're having trouble with Baldur's Gate 3. You've been doing so good though. I know you'll probably have to go soon, but we still got a few good years left. Hopefully this will help ease any pain you've been feeling. I'm going to put the cover back on the case now, okay? I love you."

mollyjames

Girls are you okay?

starlinedsword-deactivated20240

addicted to overanalyzing music and applying it to my ocs

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theredjenny

Sort of jumping off of this post- it is something I have been thinking about a lot lately like. As a lesbian. The sheer dominance of f/m in fandom spaces like this and focus on male characters over women no matter what, even when the people playing the games and writing the majority of the fic are ostensibly, bisexual/pansexual, and I swear this isn’t me trying to be bi/panphobic or say that m/f relationships cannot be queer- I do not believe that. But I do believe there is an inherent misogyny reflected in the fact that so many people who are bi/pan just do not write f/f or romance any of the women while playing through the games. I cannot tell you the amount of times I have seen these people self report in the tags or replies of posts that were made complaining about this specific phenomenon. Talking about how oh they tried but then WhoopsieDaisy! They just tripped right into romancing their fandom fave #whiteboy again. Wow if only this female character wasn't Such A Bitch it would be easier not to hate her or care about her storyline or narrative or whatever but she's just sooooooo unlikeable. And you can tell like… reading their confessions that they think they deserve credit for… Thinking about romancing the female character once? Like that definitely counts as. Caring About Women. And it's totally not extremely misogynistic to bail out on that for the same exact male character they've romanced 7 times already and counting.

Like it's hard enough to get men to give a shit about women as people with interiority. But the fact that it is also so incredibly difficult to get bi/pan cis women and tme non-binary people to care as well is incredibly disheartening. I already knew this was a thing, nobody likes it when we point it out- but genuinely, it is So Often like pulling teeth to get people who are not trans women, transfems, and/or lesbians to care about characters who are women. (Though tbh I Would be interested to see the data break down here for race because this is not actually an issue I, personally, have noticed much with bi/pan poc, so it may just be a majority white fandom problem, or it might just be the ppl I hang out with in general and the fact that fandom is overall nauseatingly white).

theredjenny

Also this post demonstrates this really well, showing off more statistics in regards to fan works specifically, which I do find especially damning when paired with the survey results.

As a lesbian, I do not feel as if it is unreasonable, to ask that the people who claim to care about women, to be attracted to both men and women, to actually interact with fandom and the source material in a way that actually reflects that?

Why is it that the focus is so constantly on the male characters? Even when the people writing fic are bi/pan and supposedly also into women! Why is it so difficult to get broader fandom interested in female characters and their storylines? Many of the romance options who are women in Dragon Age aren't even hetlocked! You've got Leiliana, Isabela, Merrill, Sera, & Josephine if you still want to play as a woman! You've got Bellara, Neve, and Harding in DATV if you'd like to play as a woman or non-binary character.

I know there's bi mods for Morrigan because I've used one. I'm sure there's also bi mods for Cassandra!

I do recognize that it's work to unlearn the inherent biases we were raised with, and that centering men comes naturally because that's what is most common in the world we live in. But we've got to do better than this. It's so worth it to practice decentering men. It doesn't have to be this way.

Please.

Take my hand.

Let's decenter men together.

Appreciate women with me. Appreciate the depths and nuances that these characters have- there's so much to dig into here if you'll just give women the time of day.

theredjenny

And to be so so clear I Do think everyone should be doing this REGARDLESS or whether or not you are attracted to women. I just find it extra demonstrative of how accepted misogyny is on a broader societal level when people who claim to be attracted to BOTH men and women still only ever talk about men, write about men, make fan content about men, theorize about the men, write meta analysis about the men, engage in a thoughtful way with the characters who are men.

And then when it comes to women, it's just shit like "She's the one with the brain cell!" "She's the mom of the group!" "Ugh she's such a nagging bitch" "She's so Annoying" "Wow I can't believe [female character] did [thing that's not even nearly on the same level as atrocities committed by beloved white boy] I just hate her!!"

Like, I know I'm just saying shit that's been said many times by many other tired people, but. Well we're going to keep saying it until broader society starts Caring About Women!!!!!!

Your misogyny isn't cute or funny!

Throw your white boy of the week out!! I am SO tired of seeing him. The world does not need another white boy of the week. Go care about a woman!

beemovieerotica

adults love seeing a small child or teenager who is so visibly anxious and uncertain of themselves and quiet so they can tell them "HEY!! 👹 YOU BETTER GET SOME CONFIDENCE RIGHT NOW! 🗣 AND SPEAK UP! 🤬 YEAH YOU! 👊 SHY KID 💥 EVERYONE LOOK AT THIS SHY KID 👈 WHO I'M GOING TO FIX 🙏 WITH THE POWER OF LOUD !!! 😤 YOU'D BEST BELIEVE IT! 😱 NOW SHOUT, SHY KID!!! 🤯 SHOUT AT ME!!! 👽 HUUAAHH&HHH 🗯 NOW TEAR ASUNDER THE HUSK OF YOUR FORMER SELF ☠️ YEAH RIGHT NOW 👇 WHY DON'T YOU FEEL CONFIDENT 💣 I AM GIVING YOU THE CURE" and the shy kid has to pretend like this isn't the millionth time they've had this exact conversation

#Ripping and tearing #Who could have guessed that the solution to shyness #Would be not a self aggrandizing public humiliation ritual #But would be Treating The Shy Kid like their words mattered #Fun fact! Making the shy kid stand up in front of everybody then telling all the kids that Shy Kid was named after someone who killed a guy #And that if anyone was unruly during a camping trip he'd make them share a tent with Shy Kid.#Is not!! Gonna make them!!!! Less Shy!!!!!

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*does this to you*

xrd

Frankly beautiful way of phrasing it

good-dogs-play-dead

if your love for butches doesn't include transfem butches then you don't love butches. hope you get better soon.

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Mute swan (Cygnus olor)

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Clefairy dancing in the shadows of the Moon 🌕🩷✨️

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Lurantis & Fomantis

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loveridden1999

you can have multiple most gorgeous looking women giving performance of their lifetime in a movie or show yet people will still come out obsessing & wanting to fuck a white man with the personality of a wet cardboard

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oh because we were all wondering

On the one hand, dozing off in the middle of conversations and chores is. Deeply frustrating. On the other hand its a little funny to be fighting for my life trying to stay awake long enough to listen to arrow to order toilet paper. Asked them twice. Fell asleep like 3 times in the process. And then 5 hours later realize that we dont. Actually need toilet paper right now. Like we're probably good for another month tbh. The spare rolls were just in the linen closet.

#Bat chatter #Sleep study in 2 weeks to see if I have narcolepsy lets goo

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