worst relationship status to have w someone is โobjectively theyโre a fine person who is nice but i donโt enjoy their company as much as they enjoy mineโ
second worst relationship status to have with someone is โobjectively theyโre a fine person but they Bother Youโ
secret third technically more harmless but in practicality more frustrating relationship status is โobjectively theyโre a fine person and they like so many of the same things i do but they like them in a fundamentally different way that is harmless but reads wrong to my brain and it has made attempts at forming an actual bond with them aggravating more than anythingโ
tbh i think stuff like this is why so many people, especially younger people, fall into this trap of โwell if i donโt like a person or thing, they must be badโ. it would be so much easier if you could dismiss them as bad and move on. but itโs like, no, Objectively Fine people or things can just not mesh well with you for totally subjective reasons. and sometimes when theyโre people you mesh much better with their brain than they do with yours. and sometimes you have to live with that.
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