if ur skinny and u get all sad and mopey like "ohhh im so fat )): im so ugly and fat ))): being fat is the worst thing i could possibly be ))): i shoud lose weight and quit being so awful and fat ):" you owe every fat person 1 million dollars and if you say this shit to fat people directly, 2 million, and if you say "oh youre cute though but IM ugly and fat, i dont hate fat people i just dont want to be fat" when said fat person is upset about you saying how much you hate yourself for "being fat" its 3 million
THIS! It doesn't matter if someone is or isn't actually fat this is something so many girls (and guys) go through and no one should ever think they don't have a right ta complain they should be able ta reach out they deserve help or ta just vent without being told they don't have the right
And I'm a bigger girl but if someone skinny I know was saying that I'd be trying ta see what help they need that I can give
Why can't we all hold hands and be friends
I find it very interesting that when someone struggles with the way their body looks, theres always people to come along and tell you that you actually must hate THEIR body too even though its not about them. Me struggling with an eating disorder and struggling with my weight has nothing to do with some random fat person on the internet that ive never fucking met. I dont care about your body dude. I just struggle with mine, it has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. Stop making other peoples struggles about yourself and your issues.
im putting this in the actual thread of people antagonizing me for the existence of skinny people with eating disorders while conveniently omitting that i have an eating disorder to make their point that skinny people should be allowed to be hateful to their fat friends as long as theyre saying "my body" instead of "your body"
your eating disorder does not mean that you get to trigger the eating disorders of fat people because you at best dont believe that fat people can have restrictive eating disorders, and at worse think that we should because itll "help us get skinny". genuinely go fuck yourselves. its been fucking days of this and people talking down to me because "skinny people are allowed to feel insecure and what if they have an eating disorder (what you have an eating disorder? well lets just ignore that)" and you believe that skinny people having eating disorders means that they get to trigger the disordered eating and relationships with food/body of fat people. ive talked about my eating disorder on this account very sparingly because i worry that me having anorexia while having the body type that i do will cause people to say shit to trigger my eating disorder because they want me to starve myself because im fat, and when i do mention it i have to say that i have a restrictive eating disorder because people will assume that i dont. ive had people tell me that only people under a certain bmi can be anorexic, i guess because they want fat people to get skinny before they stop us from starving ourselves to death
so fuck yall. if youre uncomfortable with my graphic depictions of anorexia maybe you should've fucking thought of that before weaponizing the existence of skinny people with anorexia while omitting and erasing the fact that i also have anorexia because its more convenient to your point of the big bad evil fatty weaponizing fat privilege over poor skinny people with eating disorders or whatever
Sometimes I wonder if people online are genuinely real like what do you mean you think someone being afraid of gaining weight means they hate fat people?
Y'all are so funny sometimes it's so dumb
