*1st Month-ish of Dating*
Me: so like I don't know it just...doesn't click with me? Like I think I'm a wall where most people are doors, like that whole "swinging one way" thing and I...don't think I even have a door.
Bf: are we...are you still talking about sex?
Me: But everything's been kind of confusing since I started liking you.
Bf: Huh...okay. Well we don't have to talk about it now.
*Four Months Into Dating*
Bf: so can I ask something?
Bf: That wall thing from a few months back...?
Bf: Are you still a wall, or..?
Me: I...don't think so? I think I'm more of a door, with a lock...and you've got a key?
Bf: Huh...okay. I was just thinking about it, we don't have to talk about it so soon, especially if you aren't completely sure yet.
*Now, six months into relationship*
Me: So yeah, about that, I'm like 99.99% certain I am a door with a lock and you've got the key.
Me: ...Yes. How did you..?
Bf: I did like a shit ton of research when you first told me. You were explaining asexuality, but you said you weren't sure then, so I looked up other parts of asexuality. You're demi, is what you're saying, right?
Me: Yeah...you okay with that?
Bf: I'm okay with anything, so long as you're okay with it.
Me: Huh...well...okay then...how long have you..?
Bf: Mainly it was just a guess, I didn't want to ask if you were and upset you and seem like an idiot.
Me: You're not an idiot. But...wow, okay...You sure you're okay with that?
Bf: I would've been okay if you thought sex was disgusting. I love you, duh.
MORAL IS: It's okay to be dating someone and confused about your sexuality. If they really love you, they'll accept you no matter what.
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