Discovering Demisexuality

so as you may or may not know i made a post showing off pan flags irl a couple days ago.

its gotten a lot of support and i’ve literally read all the tags

i’ve had people i dont even know me thank me and its the best feeling ever

but i did notice that there are a lot of ace pan’s who wished they had some ace rep

so here we have this post!

not just for pan’s also, but for every ace, aro/ace who felt broken.

i love you. literally i swear i do.

please share it because it really does mean the world to some people.

I'm the last mod here, and I'm not very active. Let's change that! I'm looking for probably 2-3 mods to join the mod team here at asexual-society.

Interested in joining our mod team? All you have to do is fill out this google form, and from there I will pick a couple of people to join the mod team.

https://forms.gle/jLgiEzWYDwEBPE8S6

If there are any issues/questions about the form or application process don't hesitate to send the blog an ask.

I am tentatively thinking wednesday, 12 may 2021 as a deadline, but I don't want to give a super solid date for a deadline yet. I don't know how fast to expect responses since the blog hasn't been the most active.

Thanks to anyone who applies, and thanks to all the followers of this blog. Hopefully we'll be seeing more of each other soon.

oh my god you dont know what pushing daisies is!!!! people dont know what pushing daisies is!!!!! oh my GOD anon strap in

okay picture this

Brian Fuller’s original 2007 magical realism romantic comedy with a dash of morbidity (after all, this is Brian Fuller we’re talking abt) & fairytale elements

as this review describes: “Characters & plot like Lemony Snicket, sets like Tim Burton, shots like Wes Anderson, rapid witty dialogue like Gilmore Girls, and costumes like uh, frickin’ magic.” 

everything is Super Saturated All The Time and the costume design is literally flawless

starring: asexual bakery man, very tall very kind and himbo-adjacent, has low-level necromantic powers named Ned

Ned is, for convoluted reasons, the accomplice of a film noir detective named after a fish (Emerson Cod) who looks like a hardass but secretly loves pop-up books and knitting

Ned the bakery man is a Piemaker and works in and owns a building that looks like this

(there are novelty cherry lighting fixtures)

he has a dog, who is undead, bc aforementioned necromantic bakery boy has the unique skill of being able to touch dead things and bring them back to life 

he and Emerson Cod touch murder victims, ask them who killed them, and then collect the reward. easy get-money-quick-scheme, UNTIL

Ned’s childhood crush and my life’s icon, Charlotte “Chuck” Charles, gets murdered on a cruise

he touches her once (ONCE) and is never able to touch her again, lest his necromantic powers zap her back to death. hence:

contact-free romance ensues.

 I highly recommend the show for: asexuals, demisexuals, dog people, people who like pie, fashion & costume design enthusiasts, anyone who’s a fan of film noir, people who like pie and dogs and mermaids

literally this show is my absolute all time favorite PLEASE watch it

you can watch both seasons for free here

Asexual Services and Resources

Greetings everyone! I just finished a list of community services, guides and resources directed specifically to ace spectrum people (asexuals, demisexuals, gray-asexuals, etc.).

There’s also a Google Docs version available.

Thanks to everyone who helped me out, and to everyone who is working on the projects here listed <3

If you’re looking for resources in Spanish, hit me up here on Tumblr or in the Twitter @asexualenbreve.

There is nothing wrong with not wanting to celebrate Valentine’s Day

Being in a relationship, no matter what type, does not invalidate your identity

Not wanting romance and/or sex doesn’t make you broken

It is ok if you don’t have a QPP

It is ok if you don’t want a QPP

Romantic and/or sexual relationships are not inherently any more important, valuable, or special than any other kind of relationship

You are valid

You are lovely

P is for Pride! Blues Clues' newly released alphabet song included an ace flag in their Pride feature. Check it out!

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I drew this ace rib cage...

What do you think?