The racism in Lotr really is the worstâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚ.likeâŚ..Lotr supposed to be this story about love that transcends where youâre from or who you are, about different people coming together at the end of the world, but that message ends up feeling so hypocritical when racism is embedded in the fabric of how Tolkien wrote Lord of the Rings, and in how Peter Jackson and co chose to mindlessly reproduce Tolkienâs racist coding in the films.
I do ultimately have the view that you can enjoy things while acknowledging terrible aspects of them. Â I donât believe we have to throw Lord of the Rings out, just that we should âunderstand the authorâs prejudices, and be mindful of how they affect his work.â But again Iâm white, so this issue isnât really as painful/visceral for me.
 But yeah itâs justâŚâŚ. Lotr is about the good quote âwhite-skinsâ from the English-coded countries of âthe westâ fighting the quote âleast lovely Mongol typesâ and âblack men like half-trollsâ and âslant-eyed foreignersâ and Asian-coded easterlings/African-coded Haradrim of the sinister âEastâŚâ I know people like to twist themselves into knots trying to explain how itâs Secretly Not Racist (even though it obviously is) but itâs horrible that thereâs clearly a reason so many people on the far-right see Lord of the Rings as something that validates their awful awful worldviews. Itâs ultimately a story about the Good White People from the West vs the evil POC from the East. The speeches about the glory of the West wouldnât be out of place in videos by vicious monsters like Jordan Peterson
And I know that some of the racial coding on the heroes is ambiguous in the book (like Sam) but I hate it when thatâs used as a way for people to pretend Lord of the Rings âsecretly isnât racist at all.â Like, Sam is described as brown, and you can make a convincing argument that Tolkien intended for him to be a POCâ but Sam is the pale white Frodoâs lower-class servant who literally calls Frodo his master. A couple characters possibly being POC doesnât fix the huge overarching problems with the insidious way Tolkien used racial coding (white/fair= good, hero, wealthy; brown= evil, villainous, lower-class, servant, shady). Itâs not a problem of a couple characters or just ânot enough representation,â itâs a problem with Lord of the Rings on a deep thematic level.
Side note: I do think the racism in the Peter Jackson films is different from the racism in the books, but I am also very wary of this Thing I occasionally see where people act like the PJ films were the ones that created all the racismâŚâŚ the PJ films deserve every ounce of criticism they receive on the way they handled race, but the books do as well, and Iâm uncomfortable when people bring up the racism in the pj films specifically only to downplay, excuse, or flat-out deny the racism in the books. Even if a lot is different the overarching problems with the horrible racist coding in the films have their origins in the overarching problems with the racism/racist coding Tolkien wrote.
Itâs a problem with literal racial cariacatures like Ghan-Buri-Ghan, and all the times when Tolkien uncritically portrays colonialism as a thing that was ultimately Fine while portraying the people who fight back against their colonizers as Deeply Misguided at best (the Wild Men joining Saruman because they donât understand that the Rohirrim who colonized them are Good Actually.) And thematic things like the way the book ends with the Shire closing its borders to anyone who isnât of their race, and this being portrayed as a good decision. earlier Tolkien says âthe wide world is about youâ you can fence yourselves in, but you cannot forever fence it outâ but in the end the Shire just fences the world out, fences out all the foreigners and immigrants, and this is portrays as the Right solution to their problems. (Honestly I HATE this plot point so much! It also is a clear example of what I was saying about how the racism/xenophobia is hypocriticalâŚthe plot point where the Shire fences the world out makes no sense with the overarching idea that âyou cannot forever fence the world out.â Tolkien was so busy being xenophobic he didnât notice it contradicted the themes of his own book)
I really hate how that hypocrisy really is at the center of Lord of the Ringsâ the hypocrisy of preaching love and kindness while at the same time coding the villains as POC and coding the heroes white, they hypocrisy of trying to be a critique of fascism/the industrialization of war while using imagery that fascists love and agree with.
Iâm not going to throw Lord of the Rings away, because I imprinted on to it when I was a Child and itâs incredibly important to me. I especially need Lord of the Rings now, because it helps me get through times of stress! But I do think that part of adulthood is realizing that you canât love anything âpurelyâ and itâs okay to have complicated relationships with the things you care deeply about. I also think that if your love for something is so shallow that it shatters under the realization that itâs deeply flawed, you might not have actually loved it that much to begin with.
Idk if this is coherent but a major theme of Lord of the Rings is that stories are like language; they have to grow and change with the cultures that created them if they want to stay relevant. And if I want to end this essay on a somewhat hopeful note Iâll say that I think if lotr wants to stay relevant, it does need to change, and itâs capable of changing. And acknowledging the deep awful racism of the original story is the first step to allowing the story to grow.
This is all very important for fans of LOTR to keep in mind. We can love the source material while acknowledging how deeply flawed it is and do our best to understand how and why, and we can do what we can to make the fandom and our own creations more welcoming and accepting.
Maybe because I studied so much about colonialism in particular, but I start to think my head might explode every time someone tries to argue that Tolkienâs works arenât racist. LikeâŚtheyâre just so structurally racist, in a way that shapes nearly every aspect of the stories being told. And Iâve heard the argument too that, well, Tolkien was basing his works on all these old epics and poems and he was just reflecting those storiesâ racism, for cultural or historical purposesâand thatâs such a deflective, inane argument that it makes me want to start bashing in heads with a copy of Orlando Furioso.
But then some people on tumblr also recently got REALLY pissed at me for saying that Tolkienâs works were very obviously sexist, so I guess people will see whatever they want to see in the media they like.
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the "isolationist bigot thingol never allowed anyone into doriath" spiel being passed around again when doriath has two instances of taking in refugees written unambiguously and explicitly in the text. why can't people fucking read y'all wouldn't pass a grade school level quiz on a cliffnotes version of the silm
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âBut the Elves also had their part in that labour, and Elves and Dwarves together, each with their own skill, there wrought out the visions of Melian, images of the wonder and beauty of Valinor beyond the Sea. The pillars of Menegroth were hewn in the likeness of the beeches of OromĂŤ, stock, bough, and leaf, and they were lit with lanterns of gold. The nightingales sang there as in the gardens of LĂłrien; and there were fountains of silver, and basins of marble, and floors of many-colored stones. Carven figures of beasts and birds there ran upon the walls, or climbed upon the pillars, or peered among the branches entwined with many flowers. And as the years passed Melian and her maidens filled the halls with woven hangings wherein could be read the deeds of the Valar, and many things that had befallen in Arda since its beginning, and the shadows of things that were yet to be. That was the fairest dwelling of any king that has ever been east of the Sea.â
â J.R.R. Tolkien, The Silmarillion, p.93 (Of the Sindar).
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Thingol was not one who conquers. He was one who preserves. Doriath was his heart, the forest his eyes. He did not need victories. Victory is always in the past, but he lived for the present, created only by the shadow of his dreams. He opened his doors to neither fear nor pride, for he knew that true strength was to let others go, but to stay himself. Thingol was someone who never went forward, but never stayed behind.
Ngl, seeing how many people believe that Melian only cared about Thingol and Luthien really rubs me the wrong way. Itâs not even accurate according to the text. Sheâs shown to have bonds outside her family: she was besties with Galadriel, and sheâs also shown to care about many others as well, like Turin, Beleg, Morwen, Nienor, for example. Thingol is hated for "never listening to her" (which is an exaggeration, btw), but all of those characters ignored her advice too, and it ended grievously for them. Iâm sure Melian was more than upset knowing in advance that they were walking toward horrific fates she tried to prevent but couldnât.
And it's totally normal that she valued Thingol and Luthien above all else. Itâs her husband, for whom she left a paradise, and her beloved child. What exactly is so wrong about that? It doesnât mean she was a cold-hearted bitch toward everyone else. Tuor is said to have cherished Idril "more than all the rest of the people of Gondolin." Does that mean he dgaf about everyone else there? I donât think anyone would even think to say that.
Why do people look at a female character and immediately assume the worst about her, instead of stepping back and considering that there might be reasons for her actions and decisions other than her being heartless and evil? Why isnât the fact that she was so overwhelmed by grief that she lost the ability to maintain the Girdle as she once did considered a valid explanation?
We have countless male characters who collapse after losing their loved ones, and fandom adores them for it and is ready to forgive deeds far worse than running away in grief. Yet Melian is the one weâre absolutely need to hate? Yes, she was an Ainu, but she also lived bound to her body for nearly 4k years, and that bond to the physical world was shattered after Thingolâs death. Why do yâall act like this meant nothing for her state of mind, as if sheâd be perfectly fine continuing on as a ruling queen?
Especially when it isnât even clear that sheâd be allowed to remain without Thingol, since the Ainur are explicitly forbidden from ruling over the Children of Iluvatar.
Why does this fandom insist on treating her like a robot instead of someone capable of real feelings and emotions?
I think it was more âShe was filled with grief at Thingolâs death, and was no longer in a position to rule as 1. a lone Maia over the Children, 2. alone, and 3. extremely shaken by the loss of her husband of 1000+ years.â
I think itâs worth noting that the ruin of Doriath is one of those parts of the story Tolkien never rewrote to it's final version, and what we have in Silmarillion is largely the result of Christopher Tolkien trying to assemble what he thought was the most logical outcome. In the drafts, depending on the variant, she doesnât necessarily leave Doriath immediately. In some versions she is forced to flee so she wonât be killed herself, and at first she goes to Luthien, gives the Silmaril to her directly, and even spends some time with her before going to Valinor.
That said, I also like the version published in The Silmarillion. I interpret it both as her being so shattered by grief that she can no longer maintain the Girdle, and as her being unable to rule over the Children without Thingol, something that was explicitly forbidden to the Ainur
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Thingol when he hears about the Union of Maedhros' defeat and he has to pretend to at least be somewhat dismayed as if their leader's brothers didn't openly threaten to murder him and destroy his kingdom if they did win
Nothing makes me cringe harder than Feanorian Elrond, while it's made abundantly clear that he prefers his Sindar heritage and is extremely proud of being Thingol's grandson.
Nice, succinct piece of reading books with your arse instead of your eyes.
Did Thingol confront Noldor about Alqualonde? Yes, and we have him confronting them right there on page. Expecting him to leave Doriath and go directly to the perpetrators is honestly weird.
Did Thingol deny Noldor asylum? No, he did not. On the contrary, those seeking asylum were cited as ones who are explicitly allowed into Doriath.
Feanorian fandom constantly downplays the Kinslayings and forgets that those were unprecedented, borderline unimaginable evils. That Thingol continued any contact with Noldor at all was a sign of his deep benevolence.
But yeah, let's put the onus on anyone but those who commited the crime.
the concept that thingol was oppressing the noldor and erasing noldorin culture with the quenya ban is truly funny as fuck and becomes increasingly so the more you think about it. quenya is the language spoken by the elves in valinor, the place lauded in universe and narratively as the most enlightened most sacred most hallowed location in existence within the created world. for elves to 'gaze upon the light of the two trees,' literal sources of light that exist only in said location, is correlated with increased greatness/wisdom/power/etc. those who have not done so are called motherfucking dark elves. an elf who was born and raised in valinor calls another elf not born and raised in valinor (even though said elf did gaze upon the light of the two trees and was his own grandfather's close friend) a 'dark elf' in a pointedly derogatory manner. in the first place he and his group came to beleriand bc they want to rule their own kingdoms and apparently thought nothing of the fact that people already live there. but this fandom cries about racist meanie thingol oppressing the impoverished refugees that are the noldor and does so unironically. what else can one do but laugh
Noldor fans being angry about the Quenya ban and acting like it was some kind of "cultural genocide" is so absurd. Because theyâre forgetting that Thingol literally had no power over the Noldor. He couldnât forbid them from anything, and they still spoke Quenya among themselves. All he did was forbid the SINDAR from speaking it, and they followed that order out of their own free will, because he obviously couldnât punish those who lived outside Doriath anyway.
And because of this, Sindarin survived and became the most widely spoken language in Beleriand, since the Noldor were forced to use it if they wanted to communicate with the Sindar. Which is completely fair! If they wanted to speak only Quenya, they shouldâve just stayed in Valinor lol.
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Hello! I'm sorry,, I know I keep asking random questions lol, but I'm really curious about your thoughts on the Quenya ban; both within the narrative and [most of] the fandom's reaction (deeming it cultural violence, etc.). Thank you!
Ooooh the Quenya ban lol, that can of worms.
I honestly don't think this is a particularly complicated thing to explain & the fact that it has become complicated in fandom is a result of the highly individualist lenses deployed - which I will tackle in another post bc this is long as it is lol.
Re. the ban itself - there's a few bits of important political context to why Thingol makes the decision he does, chiefly the Kinslaying & its cover-up, the military might & political tendencies of the Noldor and the rumours that circulate before the discovery of the Kinslaying, which are only reported to Thingol by Cirdan. I'm putting the whole of this under the cut but the TL;DR of my thesis is that:
a) a careful reading of the text indicates that the Quenya ban's primary target is fellow Sindar, not the Noldor
b) a contextualised reading will recognise that it occurs in the context of the Noldor asserting their rights to the lands of Beleriand because of the might of conquest by sword
c) that this might of conquest by sword is not innocent, but is drenched in the blood of the First Kinslaying, and therefore might generate some pause amongst the Sindar, because if the Noldor are willing to seize what they're entitled to by force and by bloodshed - an attitude they haven't departed from viz. their assertion of entitlement over the lands of Beleriand which were previously occupied by the Sindar - what might become of them if they refuse the Noldor what they feel entitled to in the future?
d) a close reading indicates that Thingol's wording is very diplomatically and politically considered, despite his emotional response, that still seeks to maintain diplomatic ties with the Noldor while demonstrating a show of strength & power that soothes Sindar anxieties aroused by the news of the Kinslaying & its implications for them
e) the Quenya ban is pretty much bog standard political grandstanding and sabre-rattling that every single state & territory does as part of its repertoire of diplomatic tools and elevating it to "cultural" violence is ridiculous, because Thingol does not actually have material and structural power over the Noldor & therefore the capacity to enforce it in any serious way, outside of the power he holds over the Sindar as their still sworn liege lord. Tbqh I think it really muddies the water re. understanding what cultural violence, oppression & genocide (as I've sometimes seen it put in this fandom) is & how it works, but that's going into part II of this.
1 - The Kinslaying: at the point where Thingol insitutes the ban, he has just received information that the Noldor committed a Kinslaying where, and I quote canon, "a great part of their [Teleri] mariners that dwelt in Alqualonde were wickedly slain." Lots of ways that can be read but "great part" suggests the death toll is not insignificant, and based on my calculations re how large the Teleri fleet would have had to have been to carry Feanor's people + all the Noldor cargo across, that's an estimated 1000 - 2000 deaths at least. This puts this on par with some of the most notable pogroms of the contemporary Indian history, for context.
I realise this sounds incendiary to say (and to be clear I don't think they're 1:1 in terms of intent), but I think it's worth saying because I do think that we gloss over what these deaths mean & how they would have been received by the Elvish mind. Bear in mind that till that moment, the most violent act and Elf had ever committed against another Elf was to threaten the other with death. Thingol doesn't have this context, where the possibility of such violence occurring is a spectre haunting them all. Thingol and his people live in a land where Elf on Elf violence is unimaginable because the very possibility of it has never haunted them until this moment, when they are confronted by the existence of a mass slaughter that's been kept secret from them for fully 67 years since the rising of the sun and the ~30 years before that. Moreover, it's not a mass slaughter of unrelated Elves. It's specifically a subsection of Elves who were his people, who left under his brother, but who nevertheless as a result would have had kinship ties with the Sindar of Middle Earth (and I use kinship here in the sense that we would, of families with blood or marital ties viz. uncles, aunts, cousins, brothers, sisters, parents, children etc). It is not merely shared ethnicity, though that is part of it, but familial ties.
If we were to imagine the Sindarin reaction to such news, I think we could agree that their response would have been shock, horror, grief, anger (latter two straight up named in Thingol's response to the news) and also, I think, fear and paranoia: Elves who have killed kin once, have been willing to lie about it and appear otherwise unrepentant, may very well choose to kill again if denied what they see as their entitlements. There is no reason for the Sindar to believe themselves safe from the Noldor if they refuse them desired aid - unless they can demonstrate their willingness to retaliate if need be, and demonstrate a show of strength. There is no reason for the Sindar to identify with the Noldor as kin and therefore safe, because the Noldor have already disidentified from considering them kin, in having killed the Teleri for their ships.
2 - The military might & general political approach of the Noldor so far: crucial to this aspect of showing strength is the fact that the Noldor very much do look on themselves as the military saviours of the Sindar, for having pushed back Morgoth's forces at a time when they were besieged and having delivered Cirdan's people, especially, from total annexation by the Orcs. They look down on Thingol as a two-bit king with little control (Maedhros' infamous a king is he who holds his own continues: "Thingol does but grant us lands where his power does not run.") Tolkien himself explicitly points out what Thingol's worry is:
Now King Thingol welcomed not with a full heart the coming of so many princes in might out of the West, eager for new realms
i.e. Thingol knows perfectly well that the Noldor are hungry for new territory, that they've already claimed territory where the Sindar used to occupy - which they fled only because of Morgoth's assault - and that they do look down on him as a ruler, rather than see him as equals. This is reflected very much in his response to the first diplomatic sally by the Noldor:
elsewhere there are many of my people, and I would not have them restrained of their freedom, still less ousted from their homes. Beware therefore how you princes of the West bear yourselves; for I am the Lord of Beleriand, and all who seek to dwell there shall hear my word.
This is a basic diplomatic response of reassertion of both power and territoriality, but also specifically in aid of ensuring the continued freedom of the Sindar outside of Doriath rather than their annexation under the Noldor & their military might. As inward political symbolism, it is a demonstration to Thingol's people that he will continue to look after their interests and will continue to lobby for them and represent them politically, even if they don't live within his borders - and crucially, that he isn't bending the knee to the Noldor and taking them as overlords just because of their military might, and therefore, that neither are they obligated to do so; the Sindar can and will remain a separate and independent peoples in the face of what seems to be a superior occupying force, barring a couple of hold-out territories.
3 - The rumours already floating around amongst the Sindar, that Cirdan brings to Thingol's attention, that finally prompts the confession:
It was not long before whispered tales began to pass among the Sindar concerning the deeds of the Noldor ere they came to Beleriand. Certain it is whence they came, and the evil truth was enhanced and poisoned by lies; but the Sindar were yet unwary and trustful of words, and (as may well be thought) Morgoth chose them for this first assault of his malice, for they knew him not. And CĂrdan, hearing these dark tales, was troubled; for he was wise, and perceived swiftly that true or false they were put about at this time through malice, though the malice he deemed was that of the princes of the Noldor, because of the jealousy of their houses. Therefore he sent messengers to Thingol to tell all that he had heard.
Lots of implications packed into this single paragraph. Its important to keep in mind that these tales and rumours exist within the context of the Sindar speculating why the Noldor have come to Middle Earth when they did - especially since they first believe that they come as emissaries of the Valar to deliver them in the time of need (Ch. 13, The Return of the Noldor), only for a) another group of Noldor to turn up after having crossed the Ice, b) to be seemingly at odds with the first group and c) both groups largely tight-lipped about the Valar in a way that would be surprising for "emissaries". It becomes very easy for Morgoth et al to get a foothold in there by asking whether this is "deliverance" or "occupation". If it isn't deliverance, if the Noldor clearly aren't there at the behest of the Valar, and if this is occupation - why and how? Why are these princes at odds with each other? What happened to drive such a wedge between them?
Its in this context that the implied existence of the Kinslaying begins to circulate amongst the Sindar specifically outside of Doriath i.e. the Sindar existing in closest proximity to the Noldor. If the princes of the Noldor are not from the Valar, are an occupying force, are at odds with each other and have killed fellow Elves in the past, what does this mean for the Sindar? Are they about to become "collateral damage" in a Noldor civil war? Are the Noldor about to annex them in competitive pursuit of individual power? Have they got rid of one threat, only to be visited with an even more dangerous threat? What happens if they refuse the Noldor? What happens if they choose the "wrong" side in what seems (to them!) to be a simmering Noldor conflict that could break out at any moment? Does their king know about this and not care? Is Thingol kneecapped and unable to respond to this because he's surrounded by the Noldor on each side? Is Thingol hiding this from them? I imagine these might have been some of the questions and rumours that might have been floating around at the time.
Its a politically tense and fraught situation that requires an immediate and decisive response that both reassures the Sindar that Thingol is not impotent, but also which demonstrates to the Noldor that Thingol is not impotent as well - that he still commands power in these territories even if its not obvious to them - and therefore, that if they so much as think about repeating such an act here, it will invite retribution. I wrote a little about this previously and what it symbolises in more modern political terms: i.e. that the expulsion of Finrod et al is very clearly an expulsion of Noldor diplomats much as modern states will engage in sabre-rattling by expelling each others' diplomats before coming to the negotiating table and hashing out a middle ground.
In that context, the Quenya ban, has symbolic value as an act of embargo to denote escalations & a breakdown of diplomatic relations between their people. It is first and foremost, an outward means of displaying displeasure. But no less important is the fact that it demonstrates to the Noldor that Thingol commands the loyalty of the many Sindar who range through their lands, and on whom, presumably, the Noldor are still somewhat dependent on for a) agricultural supplies and supply chain logistics for their huge armies and b) navigation through the unfamiliar terrain of Beleriand.
Its the first step in escalation against what can easily be read as an act of hostility/deception on the part of the Noldor, demonstrating to them that Thingol wields not insignificant soft power that has the potential to kneecap the Noldor. It is executed in the face of a) the scope of Noldor military power, b) the seeming intent of the Noldor to occupy and rule lands without much interest in the sovereignty of local populations and c) the cover-up of what is clearly considered one of the most awful crimes in Elvish law - but not just one murder, but mass murder.
However, the Noldor are not the primary target of the Quenya ban.
In fact, given that the Kinslaying targeted Sindar kin in Valinor, it is a very measured response and its primary target is internal i.e. the Sindar. It is a reassertion of Thingol's authority, a reminder of his strength & that he means to resist Noldor dominance, but it is primarily a reminder of kinship and ethnic grouping, loyalties & of the violence that has been committed against kin - not just in the sense of Elvish kinship, but specifically in the sense of blood & marriage. It is therefore, also a caution about what it will mean to swear full fealty to the Noldor:
But Thingol was long silent ere he spoke. âGo now!â he said. âFor my heart is hot within me. Later you may return, if you will; for I will not shut my doors for ever against you, my kindred, that were ensnared in an evil that you did not aid. With Fingolfin and his people also I will keep friendship, for they have bitterly atoned for such ill as they did. And in our hatred of the Power that wrought all this woe our griefs shall be lost. But hear my words! Never again in my ears shall be heard the tongue of those who slew my kin in AlqualondĂŤ! Nor in all my realm shall it be openly spoken, while my power endures. All the Sindar shall hear my command that they shall neither speak with the tongue of the Noldor nor answer to it. And all such as use it shall be held slayers of kin and betrayers of kin unrepentant.â
Now, we can take a very high-minded approach to this and suggest that Thingol should have seen the Noldor as allies in a fight against Morgoth. I want to stress, Thingol does just that BUT ONLY re. Fingolfin & Finrod's people: in our hatred of the Power that wrought all this woe our griefs shall be lost. He explicitly takes time to recognise that Morgoth is the originator of all these griefs. What he does not do is absolve the sons of Feanor of the Kinslaying - and frankly, neither does he have reason to.
Every instance of their recorded actions so far shows a disdain for the Sindar, a clear sense in their minds of "us" and "them" which they then attempt to enforce on Finrod et al in "choosing" the "right" side of their heritage. Between their high-handedness, clear drive for domination of territory and their willingness to conceal the Kinslayings, their actions only kind of hammer home a kind of entitledness driven by the might of the sword. The ethnic divide between the Noldor and the Sindar is born first and foremost out of the Kinslaying & its continued at least 67 year cover up. The us and them existed at the point at which the Noldor seized the ships at the end of a sword, came to Beleriand and then suggested they had the right to the various lands because of the might of their sword - something that containts the implicit threat of slaughter if not obeyed with.
The Quenya ban reinforces this divide, but it exists only in the context of the Kinslaying. It is not unprompted retaliation, but a considered reassertion of both authority and a reminder of kinship. At the end of the day, its primary actionable target is not the Noldor but fellow Sindar. It calls for, primarily, disidentification from the Noldor and Sindar unity, for the development of a Sindar national identity that stands oppositional to the Noldor identity. It does pre-emptively threaten those who are too close to the Noldor with the accusation of disloyalty - and there's a lot to be said about the classic "pick a side" rhetoric on display here & Thingol strategically using it in this moment against the Northern Sindar whom he distrusts, which is rarely if ever said :) - but at the same time, to do a reparative reading for a hot second, since we're VERY fond of reparative readings elsewhere: it equally serves as a warning that to get too close to the Noldor will eventually force them to choose between their kin & their sworn affiliation, and that when the time comes to make such a choice, they may no longer be in a position to refuse the Noldor and be free from being implicated in another devastating crime against people even more nearly related. And you know, in that regard, Thingol pretty much was right!
As for whether or not this is cultural violence or suppression or "genocide" (as I've seen it put sometimes): no it is not. To be very blunt, the fact that we are debating this is frankly ridiculous & I highly recommend everyone read the text more closely before running their mouths. Thingol himself recognises the limits of his power and only targets his fellow Sindar in this ban. The Noldor are only targeted insofar as he bans them from entering his realm, which he is perfectly entitled to do as absolute monarch of his realm, especially considering, you know, the murders. If we were to take any kind of political analogue, it would be the relationship between Edo Japan and its ban on foreigners, except through very specific channels & only with specific states e.g. the Dutch traders, during the European age of sail - i.e. a regional power putting in protectionist measures against clearly conquering powers with significant military might. Thingol does not hold structural power over the Noldor, except insofar as he can command the soft power of Sindar unity & kinship. The Noldor recognise it; Thingol recognises it. His ban is even phrased in a way which recognises it (and therefore pre-empts humiliation if the Noldor fail to comply). There is nothing Thingol can do to make the Noldor toe the proverbial line and the fact that the Noldor do end up giving up Quenya is solely because they have to communicate with the Sindar they depend on - and they were doing this anyway because this is what the Silm says about language use in the context of the Mereth Aderthad (F.A. 20):
it is told that at this feast the tongue of the Grey-elves was most spoken even by the Noldor, for they learned swiftly the speech of Beleriand, whereas the Sindar were slow to master the tongue of Valinor
(h/t to folks at the House of Mirdain discord for finding the exact reference)
So the Quenya ban really must be understood in terms of diplomatic and political symbolic value, than anything that has material enforcement. Because again. Both the Noldor and Thingol know that in a game of force alone, the Noldor would win.