Making this so you watch my comfort drama!!! It’s on Netflix already 🤩🤩🤩

Hi! Recently, I’ve started working with planners to help myself with making my life easier to manage, and to start actually being able to really do the things I want to do. I’ve been working with a Diary, a Weekly/Monthly Planner, a piece of lined paper to write a daily schedule on and a notebook in which I write my activities that I had done that day. but I didn’t really have a good way to write down everything that I really wanted to do…

..until I accidentally came across an Etsy store that had ADHD Friendly Planner templates. Especially, this template:

The planner template is made by the Etsy store of the name IconicVision. You can visit the specific etsy page with the daily planner HERE. 

Now, I got REALLY excited about this template. It’s not free, by the way, but it’s REALLY CHEAP. And when I bought it, it was on sale. It’s a PDF download, so when you buy it, it’s yours forever. If you wanna know what it looks like filled in, here’s how I filled it in:

(yes, it’s in dutch..)

I’ve only had the planner for two days, but it has been incredibly helpful already. Filling it in for me has been really fun and I enjoy planning out my day. It’s very insightful, and it’s not overwhelming.

(also, when I bought it (as of 13 September 2021) they had a promo running where you could get another item of your choice on their store for free!)

the second episode is even all about addressing this ‘consent’, and that potential audience superiority: “so why don’t they just leave???? if they can??? why did they even do all this to start with?? it’s so extreme, to do all that just for money, i would never”

September 10 2021 | I have roughly 8 weeks of intense studying and working on my thesis left, and I’m trying to remind myself to just do it without thinking too much about it. Anybody else terrible with long-term projects and exams?

But honestly, it's so strange how readily we accept our partners within monogamous relationships to receive sexual gratification from someone outside of the relationship.

What degree of separation is okay?

A pornstar on the screen? Are you comfortable if he has a favorite? What is he goes to a meetup for an autograph?

What about OnlyFans? Where the girls are all the girl next door, often literally? Are you comfortable if he subscribes to his classmate? His coworker? Are you comfortable if he gives monetary gifts? Can he follow one of your friends? Or one of his?

What about cam girls? Are you comfortable that they talk? That he gives her money in exchange for her attention, her service? That she knows your lovers name? Calls him by it? That their relationship is purely sexual?

Its absurd that we accept this.

I remember when I was a teen, I joined a free streaming site to get male attention. I did little strip teases on there. I met my (now ex)BF on there. He was in his 30s, but I've told how that story ends...

I quit the site at his request, but it was obvious, like yeah of course I'm going to quit the site. I'm in a relationship now.

I remember a year later he brought up in casual conversation how he'd just met another young woman on the site who seemed cool. I was shocked. I hadn't even considered that he'd still be engaging with that site. That he was still masturbating to highschool girls in their childhood bedrooms who wanted male validation. Id told him how glad I was that he had "saved me" from that site...

When I asked him about it, he told me it was no big deal. It was only porn.

The erasure of women and girls.