One advantage of not really having a strong sense of gender identity is that you’re very [shrug emoji] about how people gender you. Sometimes people call me by she/her pronouns and sometimes they go with he/him pronouns and on the internet people often default to they/them, and neither option is entirely right but also, fuck if I know what would be right, and I don’t particularly care. Therefore I’m perfectly happy to outsource my gender identity to the people around me who actually need to figure out which box to put me in. I don’t need to talk about myself in third person, so really my pronouns sound like a you problem.

My pronouns are I/me and the rest is for someone else to deal with because I have better things to do.

Very fond of macrolabels, like “queer”, that provide zero extra information. Is it genderqueer? Is it romantic/sexual orientation queer? Is it queer as in “none of your fucking business what’s in my pants and what I do with it and with whom”?

This is actually probably the first time I’ve ever read something that accurately describes my relationship with gender--ie, ‘my gender is me and my pronouns are a you problem’--so thank you for that!

#you cannot gender me in a way that matters

[Redrawing of The Hermit tarot card as… The Kermit.]

This is one of those posts that I scrolled past, but then I reconsidered my life choices and came back.

do kids these days know about little talks by of monsters and men.

[2 photos of a tree standing in a misty meadow. The meadow is dotted with orange and white flowers.]

listen this isn’t rat related but I’m going off the walls right now this is literally so fucking funny

[ID: art of a bear standing in a small patch of flowers; the bear has the coloring, small wings and antennae of a bumblebee. /end ID]

[Image description: Art of a small white possum sticking their tongue out and wearing a cape. They sit in a chair with blue light casting cool shadows throughout the room from a small blue orb. Art by Jim Bee. End ID]

[image description: a simplistic gif of naruto doing the naruto run in a wobbly way.]

[Image description: Two images, both featuring a fluffy ferret. The image on the left is a drawing, showing the white and brown ferret with a small smile on their face. The image on the right is a photo of the same ferret. End description.]

[ID: Simple line drawings of three North American opossums/possums. One is standing and drawn facing head-on, one is crouching and drawn from angle, and the third is drawn from the side. Their bodies are drawn without smooth/solid lines, but instead with many short lines, which give the impression of being very fluffy. End ID]

Image description: art showing a tiger sitting in clouds looking up. The sky is full of stars. end Image description

[ID: Glittery Naruto gif with a speech bubble that says “don’t give up bitch!” in glittery pink text. /End ID]

i get hostile in environments

[Image description/ video clip of a rooftop where a group of pigeons are clustered along the edge, sleeping, watching, and grooming, while behind them a sole pigeon is standing on a spinning air circulation fan for the building and riding it like a merry-go-round. /end description]