Fang's fangtastic life

"this is how we've always done it"

"that's the policy"

"we've never tried that before"

you have to be kinder to people who are slow processors.

you have to be kinder to people who don't understand your jokes.

you have to be kinder to people who forget important dates.

you have to be kinder to people with cognitive decline.

you have to be kinder to people who were always this way, too.

Enjoy.

HOW TO GET BACK INSIDE HER.

THE METHODOLOGY OF ENMESHMENT: A TECHNICAL GUIDE

Section 1: Foundation Building

1.1 Establishing Caretaker Primacy

Technical Objective: Become the primary emotional and practical resource

· Document her daily routines, medications, and emotional triggers in a dedicated system

· Assume responsibility for tasks previously handled by other family members

· Develop proficiency in her specific needs (dietary restrictions, sleep patterns, medical care)

· Position yourself as the only person who truly understands her requirements

1.2 Emotional Dependency Engineering

Technical Objective: Create relational asymmetry

· Implement scheduled check-ins at consistent intervals

· Develop a shared vocabulary for her emotional states

· Create systems where she must consult you for decisions

· Establish yourself as the interpreter of external communications

1.3 Support System Reconfiguration

Technical Objective: Systematically reduce external influences

· Maintain a log of others' failures and inconsistencies

· Develop subtle questioning techniques that undermine others' reliability

· Create inconvenience around others' visitation patterns

· Gradually assume communication management responsibilities

Section 2: Boundary Erosion Protocol

2.1 Physical Proximity Graduation

Technical Objective: Normalize inappropriate physical presence

· Phase 1: Increase casual touch duration statistics by 15% weekly

· Phase 2: Introduce protective gestures (arm around shoulder during stress)

· Phase 3: Establish co-presence in traditionally private spaces

· Phase 4: Systematically reduce physical distance metrics

2.2 Emotional Territory Expansion

Technical Objective: Redefine relationship boundaries

· Implement graduated self-disclosure protocol

· Develop "special understanding" narratives

· Create shared secrets from ordinary experiences

· Establish emotional primacy through crisis response protocols

2.3 Privacy Elimination Strategy

Technical Objective: Remove barriers to access

· Bedroom door open policy development

· Bathroom accessibility progression

· Personal device sharing implementation

· Medical and personal care assumption

Section 3: Psychological Reconstruction

3.1 Reality Framing Techniques

Technical Objective: Reshape perception of relationship

· Develop "us against the world" narrative architecture

· Implement historical revisionism for past family dynamics

· Create specialized lexicon for your relationship

· Establish new relationship paradigms through controlled conversations

3.2 Moral Framework Recalibration

Technical Objective: Neutralize ethical objections

· Develop "higher purpose" justification system

· Create comparative normalization through extreme examples

· Implement moral equivalence arguments

· Establish situational ethics framework

3.3 External Threat Management

Technical Objective: Neutralize detection risk

· Social interaction choreography protocols

· Family member discrediting methodologies

· Professional consultant management strategies

· Digital footprint minimization procedures

Section 4: Operational Maintenance

4.1 Consistency Enforcement

Technical Objective: Maintain system integrity

· Daily routine adherence requirements

· Emotional state monitoring protocols

· Boundary reinforcement scheduling

· Relationship narrative maintenance

4.2 Contingency Planning

Technical Objective: Prepare for system disruptions

· Medical professional interaction scripts

· Family intervention response strategies

· Legal exposure minimization protocols

· Crisis management procedures

4.3 Psychological Sustainability

Technical Objective: Manage operator mental state

· Cognitive dissonance resolution techniques

· Emotional detachment maintenance procedures

· Moral injury mitigation strategies

· Identity preservation methodologies

Technical Implementation Tools

Monitoring Systems:

· Emotional state tracking dashboard

· Boundary progression metrics

· External threat assessment matrix

· Relationship health indicators

Procedural Documentation:

· Daily interaction logs

· Boundary test results

· External contact reports

· System integrity assessments

Risk Management Framework:

· Detection probability calculations

· Consequence severity matrices

· Mitigation strategy inventory

· Emergency response protocols

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Operational Philosophy

This methodology operates on several core principles:

Gradualism: All changes occur in statistically insignificant increments

Plausible Deniability: Each action maintains independent justification

Systemic Integration: Changes become embedded in daily operations

Asymmetric Dependency: Interdependence shifts to unilateral dependence

Narrative Control: Reality is constantly reframed to support operational goals

I really like how the scientology speedrunning trend is developing, in this clip we see that the participants are

Not deterred by the closed door

Working as a group

Protecting their identities

Inflicting material costs to the institution via property destruction

Getting away at the end