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I don’t deserve anything terrible that I’ve ever been through, honestly neither do most people. Michael Distortion stole my Gender Forever mad at Bioware for imprisoning Solas, making him just Lucifer But Elf. He deserved so much better than Christianity. I AM AN ADULT AND MAY SOMETIMES POST ADULT STUFF.
I was here in 2012, back for a second round.
I’m Jayce. He/they/it/maybe xe I'm testing this one but if you feel iffy use the other three.
Assume if I'm talking about porn as a political standpoint over here and I say I support or view it, I'm talking about drawings and stuff posted voluntarily for fun by exhibitionists. Not the exploitative porn industry or things gotten through abuse or pressure of any kind. I don't believe that just being a sexually driven person in general and wanting to make pornographic content yourself is harmful and I'm never going to.
I am a grouchy motherfucker (sorry if I have accidentally upset you) but if I follow you assume I don't intend to just be mean to you. I will unfollow and/or block if I realize I'm not vibing anymore.
Deprivationist and militant anti-VHEMT longtermist and I need MAID for my mental illness to remain illegal, because in order to preserve my right to life I want to and may need to Ulysses Contract myself out of it, don't try to convince me otherwise I will not move for you and please tag suicide posts properly if you see this and I follow you.
I don't read bios unless I'm specifically remembering to look for pronouns to talk on a reblog/comment and I usually don't because I comment fast and block faster so if I'm on your DNI I do not know and don't give enough of a shit in the moment to check, and if you harass me because of that I will be mean. If you'd like me to delete my post just tell me calmly and without insults like a normal person.
On a related note, if I vaguepost about someone its because I'm angry about something and have likely already blocked them. Neutral "they" is just part of the post format and I don't care enough to find a different general-use for everyone I don't know non-"they" pronoun just in case they hate the pronoun "they" for personal reasons, because that's a lot of work and they shouldn't be reading my posts anyway. I remember enough about what made me mad to rant about it but I don't care enough about people who piss me off to remember enough about them to de-anonymize them in my head they are shapeless pronoun blank blobs forever. I block them so they won't be hurt by it unless someone sends it to them so don't fucking do that its not something I approve of, these posts are not for them.
I am explicitly "PRO SHIP/PRO FICTION" according to other people, because I ship humans with scary-ass gods and that age gap is literally unknowable. Deal with it. I do believe in the general ideas most proshippers talk about, albeit I don't like every ship type. I just don't think I'm ever responsible for any action anybody else's body ever takes and what I like in stories or violent video games isn't anyone else's business to have An Opinion about since it stays in my head/the violent video games and doesn't do anything to them. That being said, I’m not the kind to go on someone’s blog and fuck with them, at most I’ll get mad at a hate post that is crosstagged and argue with people who post hate on my posts, I don’t like… Chase them. If they delete their cross tagged hate post or get so annoying I block them I won’t then go harass them in their inbox, their blog is theirs as mine is mine.
Extra stuff under cut that might clarify more concerns people have tried to assassinate me with in the past so people don't do that shit anymore and will explain the random purple up above.
If I ever say I'm high on here its just THC or on a very rare occasion I may have had a little alcohol too, I live in a place where its legal and I use it instead of alcohol (for the most part) with the intent to not get too dysfunctional. I don't smoke full smoke products, I tend to stick to dry herb vape with a little foray here and there into vaping cannabis concentrates while trying not to be obnoxious in public about it. I'm safe.
This is a post containing a similar viewpoint to how I see being told to act palatable re: making any effort to seem any less autistic. I will not do it, I just am autistic forever and its not something I should have to change, fix, or lessen. If something I've said or done offends you, read this first before doing anything else. Especially if what you're upset about relates to me being a man. And if you're upset that the post mentions autism as a reason I'm tired of trying to look palatable to people and shouldn't I try to control my disability for the comfort of everyone else, the answer to "shouldn't I try" is "fuck no" and also go read this post and reconsider making your comfort MY problem.
"You blog about transandrophobia a lot that must mean you hate all trans women!" No. Not all trans women are transandrophobic, for one, and you trying to say they are is an insult to most trans women out there. If I talk about transandrophobes in a post, or a post I reblog talks about transandrophobes, I am only talking about people who decide to act transphobic toward trans men in particular no matter what the transphobe's personal identity is. I fully support women who are also trans that's like basic shit.
If you're feeling like this because I've criticized someone's fashion or something, its because I don't like her fashion and maybe don't like her as a person, nothing to do with her gender. I do criticize personal choices in a mean manner if someone is also a bigot and I will not apologize for being mean to bigots. (That being said sometimes I word things stupid on account of things described in the drug warning section, so if I word something in a way I thought sounded right and it fucked up due to my wires getting tangled... I can't just apologize preemptively for that kind of fuck up bc it feels disingenuous but that's probably what happened.)
"Yeah well transandrophobia doesn't exist its just transphobia because you can't be horribly discriminatory to someone for being a MAN, only for being TRANS or something else, the man part just doesn't factor in at all ever because I said so." Setting aside the fact that no category is ontologically protected from discrimination just because of what word its called, that's not true at all. Hatred of men is part of all kinds of marginalization, and its disgusting to ignore that fact.
If you're radqueer (or a paraphile relating to children, animals, bodies, or other non-objects that cannot consent and are capable of being harmed either physically or socially no I'm not arguing with you about why the rights of the dead will always be more important than your dumb ass) don't follow me this is a requirement not a request. I went and dug deeper and after seeing the label 'transharmful' using your tags a lot and yeah fuck all of you, abusers need to go die, I'm anti radqueer now. If you think its valid to want to abuse someone or be abused fuck off and if you want to be an abuser and cause someone harm, eat glass, if you want to enable an abuser, institutionalize yourself before you cause someone else's abuser to get worse. None of you are trans anything (unless you're just transgender) and trans-bad-shit will never be a valid identity.
Finally re-found my PFP again so I can credit it, it's by tumblr user organhound. Idk who they are as a person but the art was cool and I saved it.
By the way, I'm not a fucking transmed. I do think being trans always has a basis in materially evident, peer-reviewable science that does not need religion to explain any of it and we just haven't discovered all causes yet, which makes people think I am and I use it as shorthand for my frustration with myself by saying "fake trans med" if I'm hating myself. But what we won't do in this house is tell people they have to fucking spend money or meet specific attractiveness standards in order to be a real trans person, and we're not going to just discount the idea that people can feel gender euphoria or gender apathy without needing to feel dysphoria either. People are allowed to self determine whether they are trans or not, and nonbinary people are not any less valid than binary people. Real transmeds need to fuck off.
Sometimes I use the word "they" where it makes more sense for me to use "I" or "we", for example calling trans men as a group "they" even though I am one, this is likely just dissociation. I do it out of attention issues exacerbated by my habits, most likely, I don't usually actively feel distressed when it happens. Just insert "we" if you think I should be using it, I'm lazy about grammar sometimes and don't always bother going back to fix it.
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I hate this saccharine, cloying, infantilizing way trans men are talked down to by their own community when speaking about the words they choose to describe their experiences and oppression
‘Oh yes, you do experience a valid intersectional form of oppression - but you’re just so fucking stupid, that you’ve chosen a terrible word to articulate your experiences. So we aren’t going to listen to anything you say! You’re just so silly and stupid, you can’t possibly be trusted to articulate your own thoughts and experiences, let alone be trusted to do your own research. In fact, don’t even think or talk at all! Leave all the thinking and talking to the smart people whose suffering actually matters.
Also, no your experiences aren’t unique at all, negating the previous statement of you experiencing a valid intersectional form of oppression’
The tone of voice is no different than when people try to manipulate trans men into detransitioning - overly sweet, infantilizing and concerned while also being incredibly backhanded and demeaning
Nothing will ever be good enough. I just roll my eyes at this shit now
God forbid women do anything omfg. When transfems try to explain delicately and nicely they’re being “infantilising”, when they’re direct and serious they’re “rude” and “aggressive”.
Nothing will ever be good enough. I just roll my eyes at this shit now.
Being told we aren’t smart enough to speak on our own experiences and should just shut up, but with a tone of voice that’s overly sweet and familiar, is in fact infantilizing and demeaning!
You’d know that if you actually listened to anything I said
The reason why so many of y'all's feminism sucks is because you still believe deep down in your hearts that there are only two kinds of people in the world: precious, ethereal, fragile dollthings called "women", and violent, lustful, rage-fueled apes called "men". Until you throw that idea away, 3rd-grade-tier "girls rule boys drool, girls are princesses and boys are stinky :(" is as feminist as we'll ever get-- and I hope it's obvious that that's lightyears away from the bare minimum of where we need to be.
I think before you're allowed to argue about whether trans people who can get pregnant are vulnerable to state-sanctioned violence in ways that trans people who can't get pregnant are exempt from (even if they are vulnerable to different forms of violence! they are still exempt from this one thing), you should be required to watch a vaginal delivery as well as a cesarean delivery. on video. full video. there are plenty of educational videos online where you can do so. if you have never seen a birth, I do not want to hear about how trivial of a violence you think it is. I really don't.
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sorry to be a broken record every month but christ menstruation is a stupid concept. oooooh excuse me for not getting pregnant, why the fuck is there goo falling out of me about it? grow the fuck up and reabsorb that shit for nutrients.
you don’t realize how important lunch is until you’re wandering around thinking about how unloveable and untalented and uniquely cursed you are and then it’s 4pm and you finally eat lunch and you go Oh. oh right.
roald dahl was antisemitic and misogynistic. george orwell was openly homophobic. edgar allan poe married his 13 year old cousin. dr seuss cheated on his wife (and was racist as well as antisemitic!). hp lovecraft was racist as fuck.
anyways they’re fucking dead it’s not like you’re enabling their behaviors in the afterlife or something. then again I think they bleed into the books so uh keep an eye out for that
the difference between these old white guys and jk rowling is that the former group is all dead. jk rowling is alive and using your money to oppress trans people
This pride, it would be really really nice if we could stop insisting that transphobic policies and environments only ever affect trans feminine people. When we've had trans men doxxed, harassed, marked mature and banned from here simply for existing, it becomes rather tonally dissonant to see 'Tumblr is so transphobic towards trans women' over and over as if those are the only people that are impacted by rancid site culture
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I’m a bit worried about pro shippers because some say fiction doesn’t effect reality but it does and some pro shippers ship things like adult x child and sibling x sibling and other things I’m not anti censorship but some things shouldn’t be normalized
I promise you if game of thrones and all those gothic literature haven't normalized incest — if slasher and horror movies haven't normalized murders or psychological torture, if hot villains haven't normalized manipulation or toxicity by now — then silly fanfiction isn't going to normalize shit.
if someone ever lets fiction affect them enough to the point they think bad things in fiction are good in-real-life because they're portrayed as such, then chances are that, with or without the fiction they consume, they are already troubled and they need help.
there are things you can worry about that are actually worrisome, but what type of fanfiction someone writes or reads is not one of those things.
you can, of course, find some things in fiction unpleasant. you can choose not to engage with fanfics that make you uncomfortable. but you have no right to tell other people what they can or can't create and/or consume. that is not your business.
and to my fellow writers, write whatever you want, however you want. no matter how messed up or morally questionable it is. you have all the freedom and power to write whatever you want, however you want forever. don't let strangers tell you what you can or cannot write.
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God fucking damn its like a psychic radar at this fucking point. "Pink or yellow PFP, likely either a pro censorship asshole or a transandrophobic asshole, better check for one or the other."
