Buddy

Rape Escape

Easy and very effective

Requires nothing but your body

I don’t think I made it very clear but last month I was sexually assaulted by someone who I thought was my friend (I don’t want to talk about it don’t ask), and it’s… really fucked with my head. 

Had I known this a month ago I would have been able to get away. 

So, essentially, I’m really pleading with you to reblog this so everyone who follows you doesn’t get stuck in the same position I was with no way out. 

It took me about a half hour to get down with practice, but once you get it, it’s an intuitive movement.

A little video we all should take a moment to watch and think about. 

I went to my doctor after the er discharged me with “stress” and said “help my face is numb and I’m scared. He looked at me in my face and said “well what do you want me to do about it?” I had to beg to see a neurologist. The neurologist refused to let me speak and told me I was just stressed and refused to schedule me for an mri. Had she done that they would have found lesion on my brain.

4 years later I have now 2 lesions on my brain consistent with MS. I only found a doctor willing to take me seriously by happenstance after being hospitalized and refused a surgery that I would need anyway a few short months later. While on the hospital I was dismissed and refused pain medication unless I was literally screaming.

If a doctor refuses treatment or tests, say “I would like your refusal to treat documented in my chart.”

Then wait about 24 hours. (Partly for computer processing time, partly so if they think they’re being smart and saying yes but not actually doing it they’ll think they’re in the clear.)

Then call the doctor’s office AND SAY YOU WANT A COPY OF YOUR MEDICAL RECORDS.

If the refusal to treat isn’t in your records, you now have a malpractice suit.

Very, very few doctors are going to risk that possibility. They’ll bitch and moan when you ask for documentation, but they’ll run your tests.

As a comparison, by the way, here’s a doctor who had nothing to hide: my mom’s eye doctor when her eye started getting to the “It’s going to have to be physically removed” stage. He met us at the office at 9pm, long after close, with his date, to give my mom an injection to try to relieve the pressure in the eye. (Luckily said date also worked at the clinic and completely understood why he was doing this. He’s a great guy, he deserves a great lady.) I asked if he could note the exact time in her records, because the time needed between these injections was speeding up immensely. His reply:

“Actually that could give us an idea how fast this is progressing. Yes. What time is it? I’ll look up her earlier visit when I’m done.”

Norwegians consume 9% of all Pepsi max produced

Norwegians eat the second most tacos in the world, just after Mexico

Norwegians drink the second most coffee in the world, just after USA

Norwegians read the second most comic books in the world, just after japan

How this email finds me:

Thank you! ❤

it doesn’t start immediately

in fact it takes quite a while until the word “dude” slips over his lips the first time

Tony is showing Peter something in lab (the first nanobots, a cool update, explains him the arc reactor in detail, take your pick)

and Peter says “dude, that’s so cool!” in awe

he doesn’t even notice that he said it

Tony notices it immediately and he doesn’t know how to feel about it

like he’s happy that Peter isn’t that intimidated by him anymore

but he also feels kinda too old to be called dude

(however, he will forever deny that he called himself “too old” for something)

so, Tony ignores it, thinking it was a one time thing because Peter has been hanging out with Ned before they met in the lab

but it keeps happening

again, Peter isn’t really realizing that he calls his idol “dude” and “bro” and every other variation of it

it just feels natural

because that’s what he calls his friends, and Tony and Peter are friends now

(which Peter still can’t really believe)

Tony keeps noticing, of course

and one day when he feels especially old because he woke up to back pains and he found a record amount of grey hairs in his beard and a kid on the street described him as an “old man”, Tony kinda snaps

“I’m not your bro, child” he says (pouting a little bit)

Peter stares at him. “What?”

“You keep calling me dude and bro. I’m not your dude, I’m not your bro. Stop calling me that.”

“But... I call that all my friends. Does that mean you’re not my friend.”

Tony sighs. “Of course, we are friends, but I don’t like being called those nicknames. They make me feel... old.”

and Peter, instead of being hurt and feel insecure about this, decides to be a little shit.

“Oh, my apologies, sir! It won’t happen again, Mr. Stark, sir!”

Again, Tony picks up on it immediately. He squints his eyes at him. “No. Bad intern. Stop that.”

“Sir, I don’t know what you’re talking about. I’m only treating you with the kind of respect an... elderly person like you deserve, Mr. Stark.”

Peter continues to be overly polite and to drop as many adjectives and names that basically say old person into his conversation as possible

Peter’s texts to Tony look like this

Dear Mr. Stark, I hope this text finds you well. My name is Peter Parker, I am your personal intern who spends three afternoons a week with you and every second weekend. I am writing you in regards to your inquiry about my preferences for dinner tomorrow evening. I am happy to say that I do agree with your choice of Italian food, and I would be absolutely delighted to have pepperoni pizza for dinner. Thank you for your time! Sincerely, Peter Parker (personal Intern)

Tony hates it (okay, not completely, he is quite amused by it but he can never let the kid know)

which, of course, makes Peter go to even more extremes

he spends more and more time formating those text

eventually he writes a real letter and and faxes [sorry, but is that the right form of this verb? like, the verb to fax but I have to add an s to it because Peter is doing it. Is faxes really correct? It looks so wrong] it to Tony’s lab

Tony didn’t even know he had a fax machine in his lab

he’s convinced Peter secretly placed it there for this joke

Tony regrets getting attached to this teenager