I've been meaning to do this for some time now, so here are my jars with my preferences.
💜 I am not Submissive, so if you're someone who is strictly dom, pls don't dm me.
💜 I'm a bit shy when talking with people so I apologise in advance, my responses might be late or somewhat awkward 😭
💜 my name is Sofia, 03 is my birth year
💜 I consider myself a fat admirer or encourager. I would say a feeder as well but haven't had actual experience with a feedee nor have I sponsored anyone
💜 I speak Spanish and English fluently. I know some French and Korean as well
💜 not really into humiliation and being rough, but might role-play
💜 I am heterosexual and identify as a woman
💜 I like reading, dancing, playing video games, writing and watching anime
💜 I am a disabled person (not severely but it is still something that I must let people know). I can't bend my left knee (there's a little more but it's too tedious to explain, and I do everything normal people do anyways)
💜 if you support MAGA, Israel, or don't support women's rights or don't respect or support the LGBTQ+ community pls don't DM me (also counts if you're misogynistic)
💜 if you like to make racist jokes or jokes against disabled people, also don't dm me
I've liked feedism since forever, since I was like 5 years old lol (though at that time I had no idea what it was), and for years I thought I was crazy and did not know there was a community like this, so I wanted to share this. I've talked with many nice people here, it kinda motivates me to post more 😝.
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I hope everyone who had a very specific fetish before they even knew what sex was has a very good day. The isolation you embody as a child because of some innate sense that there's something in you that is Wrong and Gross and Different is deeply traumatizing but I promise you are a full human being deserving of love, healing, and happiness.
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i hate the way fat antagonists have their weight moralized and used as a metaphor for greed and corruption and i hate the way it's overcorrected into fat people being "soft squishy friend-shaped cupcakes who look like they give incredible hugs" and i long for the day we have nuanced, interesting, and complicated fat characters and most of all i long for the day people are normal about fatness
Nothing feels better than this. Indulging my gluttony, eating lots of big extra fattening meals. Enjoying fresh, new, doughy soft fat piling onto my body. Outgrowing my clothes and feeling myself getting softer and rounder by the day. Sinking my hands deeper and deeper into the warm buttery blubber covering my chest, belly and thighs.
Eating and get fatter consumes me. The ecstasy of stuffing myself and rubbing my growing belly is intoxicating. I love giving into my inner pig and eating to my heart’s content. Knowing that the next time you reach for my tender overhang, the softest part of me, that you’ll be greeted by a bigger handful of fat than ever before is my biggest turn on.
Getting fatter and fatter so that I can watch your face the next time you reach out to feel how much bigger I’ve gotten. The look of surprise and lust when you realize how much of a pig I really am and how much bigger and fatter I’m going to get only makes me hungrier. The best part is, that this is only the beginning.
What do you want in a feedee? I want to be the next
Controversial: I don't want a feedee.
I want a partner. I don't know how to do casual in real life - I want a real relationship. With someone who actually loves me. With someone who cannot fathom the idea of being intimate with someone else. With someone who thinks I have value as a whole person, someone who wants to be loved and looked after and supported (and who is willing to tolerate needing to do the same for me.)
I want someone who is excited to tell me about their day. I want someone who remembers my friends' names. I want someone who smiles when they see my number on their phone.
I want someone who wants to build a life together, work toward sharing a home, plan for something that looks future-shaped.
And if at all possible, I want weight gain to be a mostly organic result of that - of date nights, overindulgence, weekends spent snacking and cuddling and having silly little adventures...and yes, plenty of kinky play in between, but real gains don't happen during one sexy stuffing.
I guess I want what I thought I had and maybe I should stop talking now.
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Being here is so awesome. Despite my shyness, it’s really nice to find a community of people who ACTUALLY blow themselves up, lol. Like, I had such a crazy amount of shame about it for the longest time, hahaha! But now I’ve found my people, and it’s just like, plain old HOT lmfaoooo
people saying “don’t use your full government name for your ao3”, “create different emails for work and personal use” but personally I think it’s both sad and dystopian how capitalism/companies/even schools think they have the rights to cross your personal boundaries and insert themselves into your personal life. like, I get it, safety wise, why checking digital footprints can be important sometimes. but a gay fanfiction is not a fucking threat that could ever cause anybody harm. it’s funny (not really, it’s still sad and dystopian) how they now think they can control your personal life and prevent you from having hobbies
Potential trigger warning for: death feedism, ableism, fatphobia, eating disorders, emetophobia, body image, body checking, sex negativity, self harm, mentions of grooming/human trafficking/prostitution, zoophilia, necrophilia, raceplay (these mostly apply anecdotally to the write-in sections, which you can skip)
The canva charts are fully interactive, so you can mouse over different categories to view the labels (on some sections where they didn't fit). This presentation was designed on a laptop and is best viewed in landscape mode. You could view it with your phone on landscape but some of the text might be small. (Also I'm sorry some of the data reads as "sales" or "employees", I was using presets lmao)
Tl;dr version: feel free to skip the "write-in" sections. I tried to make this as visually appealing & legible as possible, so if you just want a brief overview of the charts, you don't need to read all of the pages in full (73). If you're interested in the entire .csv sheet, it's linked as a canva document for you to see. (Don't worry about the canva account doxxing me, it's one of many throwaway accounts, it was just convenient for the login)
Everyone who said thank you about conducting the survey, you're so welcome and I love you!! I spent hours working on this over the last week, and I read through every single result. Everyone who said this survey helped inform their opinions and came to deconstruct their internalized fatphobia, I am so glad. I'm so grateful to every one of my participants, even the one person who told me they hope I die <3
I wanted to be able to present my results in a visual, accessible way, and although I wish I didn't have to link outside of tumblr, there was no way for me to be able to embed that many images/charts in a post, so I decided on canva because of their chart features.
I had so much fun doing this and I learned a lot in the process!! I got a lot of feedback (both positive and negative) about the answers I provided for each question. My next survey project will be a survey for feedists; I'm just not sure of the precise topic. Next time I will have a more typical 1-5 "Strongly agree" to "Strongly disagree" range of answers, with less write-ins lmao. I received a lot of offers for help from professionals with statistic/analytic experience, but I feel like because my scope was limited (due to the participants being largely tumblr-based) and biased (because of the leading questions or biased phrasing) I had to do the best I could with the data. I still think I got really high quality results overall. I chose to keep write-ins as their own page for each question rather than omit them entirely or add them into other categories, which took MUCH longer than I was expecting, but I think allows for more nuance and in-depth analysis.
Feedback is more than welcome! If you have any ideas/questions you'd like to see implemented for my next survey (for example... a thesis heheh) let me know!
Also anyone who rbed the original survey post for your followers to take, please rb the results so it can reach them, as most people who took this probably aren't interested in following me!
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Not too big on healthplay....but when they're GENUINELY wheezing and panting from being out of breath from simple tasks. Like especially tasks they used to do when they where smaller or athletic...fuck me thats so hot. Especially if its average human things like walking up the stairs in your home, getting up from the coach, picking up objects on the floor and they're acting like they just did a hard workout...that turns me on sm 😵💫😵💫💕💗💓