Domestically Disciplined Hillbilly Hubby

…and it’s time i show you how much, love…

Since then she has asserted her own system and authority over my behavior, but when we started, she just knew I needed my behind tanned good and hard…and she made sure I got it.

I think she understands the psychological benefits at this point, but by now I am her good boy… she got me all straightened out! Right Wifey? Haha

One of those is no “silent treatment” or such things. When I mess up, I know I will be held accountable. I also know I will not like the very real consequences, but I know it will be addressed. I do not spend time worrying that maybe I upset her, what did I do… etc.

While the reason for my fears were unfounded… I was right to be scared. My Wifey takes responsibility seriously, and she is very serious about my discipline. So for serious offenses, I can expect serious consequences.

Like last night, where I was openly defiant in public. She let me know, immediately, out loud and in public, that I knew what that meant and I would be dealt with. Sure enough, at bedtime she absolutely wore my behind out with her heaviest paddle. I deserved it, and I know she does it out of love for me. But Wow did it hurt! I knew better, but this is how I learn, and she seems happy to “provide guidance” when I need it. Behave yourself, folks!

Behave yourself, folks!

If you have questions about how or why we do what we do, or are just curious about our particulars, feel free to reach out. We are here to help others and normalize domestic discipline if it’s the right choice for your relationship. If it works, it works!

Through a series of unfortunate circumstances, it has been about 2 full weeks since Mama has tanned my behind. There have been a few very, very good reasons however. With today being Sunday, I suspect my luck is about to end.

Focusing on the positive right now. Haha Discipline and accountability are the best thing for me, and that comes with consequences. If I want the positive outcomes on my life, I’ll just have to take my punishment as well.

I don’t know that I have a great answer to this. They are hard enough to be effective and long enough to be memorable. The goal is consequences for misbehavior and those consequences are relative to the transgression. I’m going to use the example of being late because it’s something important to me, was one of the first rules I implemented, and is always a really good illustration point.

I had to tell her. She has cultivated these rules for my benefit, so that I can be my best. But now I was not forthcoming when asked and have to answer for that. Not looking forward to facing the consequences tonight… wish me luck!

So last Wednesday I ended up making a serious of minor bad decisions and oversights that led to a major thrown off schedule for my family. Add to that fact that I was then three hours late getting back from my activity for the day… and you have one furious wifey. Being late is her ultimate disrespect, she hates tardiness. Naturally, she had to discipline me.

I have not been late without her foreknowledge in a very, very long time. I thought maybe that would grant me a little grace. That was not the case. Wifey put me across her knee and paddled the living daylights out of my poor posterior. 4 nights later I can still see a little bruising on my finely formed fanny.

I appreciate that she loves me and wants me to improve. I love that she cares for me enough to take action and correct my behavior. But… a real deal punishment spanking will never, ever be fun. I get it, I respect it, but that does not mean I like “it.” Wifey spanks with love, not with mercy. I need to take her discipline with an open heart and learn. This dynamic has changed a great deal for me. Very much for the better. But I “ better” behave. 😊

It has been exactly what we needed, and done more for us than I ever suspected. If you think this kind of relationship is for you give it some serious thought, I highly recommend it. If you have any questions for us please reach out. I am happy to share.