♡ ｅｍｍａ ♡

THAT’S MY DJ

Step 14: reverse anything negative she ever says or thinks about herself.

Step 15: figure out what her little things are and surprise her with those from time to time.

Step 16: take her on ice cream dates.

Step 17: do not be afraid to be goofy and embarrass yourself especially if it means you can hear her sweet little laugh.

Step 18: hold her leg under the table at dinner. hold her hand while you drive. hold her hand whenever you can.

Step 19: give her a massage, help her unwind.

Step 20: reassure her to find peace in knowing that you are solely hers.

Step 21: don’t live your life acting like you aren’t afraid to lose her.

Step 22: watch her favorite movies even if they are your least.

Step 23: sing in the shower.

Step 24: leave random sticky notes in random places for her to eventually find.

Step 25: don’t listen to her with intentions only to respond. actively listen to her, just listen.

Step 26: take some weight off of her shoulders and take her struggles or burdens head on as your own. make her every day easier and memorable.

Step 27: encourage her to be her absolute true self. in general. and especially with you. (toots and all).

Step 28: don’t let a thing she does for you or for others go unnoticed. acknowledge her hard work or selfless giving.

Step 29: surprise her with almost anything. especially head.

Step 30: communicate clearly about your thoughts/feelings/emotions on a situation and encourage her to do the same. do not be prideful. do not be petty.

Step 31: make her feel protected and safe at all times.

Step 32: let her steal your shirts. even your favorite ones.

Step 33: don’t raise your voice at each other. don’t directly cuss at each other. do not ever say things out of spite. do not say things that you don’t mean.

Step 34: recognize when being territorial is needed or wanted. show her off. claim her. respect her. do not tolerate any disrespect towards her.

Step 35: if and when she sends you pictures… gas. her. the. hell. up. !!!! that’s YOUR. GIRL.

Step 36: don’t ever let her fall asleep upset or angry. resolve the issues beforehand. or at least come to an understanding of each other’s perspective.

Step 37: always tell her to drive safe.

Step 38: push her to her full potential. top shelf. bring attention to all of the amazing things you see and recognize in her.

Step 39: send her some suggestive texts while she’s with her family/at work/in class.