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One of the most heartwarming things Iāve ever heard a dog trainer say āA pushy pet who makes small demands and communicates their needs to you is a safe pet. It means they trust you and arenāt afraid of your reaction if they misbehave and push your buttons a littleā
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Able bodied people seem to be under the assumption that if they do everything right that theyāre immune to developing a chronic condition
Thatās not how it works.
I canāt count the amount of times Iāve tried to explain to people that their health isnāt a sure thing, one day you can wake up sick and just never get betterā¦.
being housebound and chronically ill is fucking wild because 99% of things people talk about have nothing to do with you. oh you're going out to eat? you're working at a job? you walk your dog? you fuck people you meet at bars? that's incredible. you are like an astronaut on the moon to me. oh you expect me to do these things? hahahaha die
one of the most frustrating things about being disabled and chronically ill is that everyone around you is allowed to be worried or scared for you. but the second you yourself say youāre worried or scared, suddenly itās āyou canāt be so negative, think positively, you might be totally fine in five yearsā
but i have to placate everyone when theyāre telling me multiple times a day that theyāre scared for my health??
health isn't a virtue.
people still go around acting like they've done something good in order to be able bodied and healthy. that they worked for it, that it's due to their moral fibre or good upbringing or self control. they genuinely, on some level, believe that they are a good person solely based on the strength of their physical abilities. they will resist the fact that it is largely down to chance that they were able to maintain such health. whatever they think they've built from scratch, the building blocks were already handed to them. not because they're more worthy of it, just by luck. and they really think they're worth more based on that sheer luck. i've met disabled people worth a hundred of the healthiest ableds alive.
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everybody: youāve got to advocate for yourself in medical settings!
medical professionals when a patient advocates for themselves in a medical setting (x100 if that patient is a part of any minority): damn. youāre a hypochondriac crazy bitch who has every mental illness and is seeking every narcotic in existence. thatās the only reason youād be disappointed in the care youāre receiving here. in retaliation, we will be even less helpful and less sympathetic. our jobs are hard. people are dying. we donāt have time to deal with anyone who is slightly inconvenient for us.
Yeahhhhhh. Whenever someone comes online to speak about a negligent, discriminatory or extremely unprofessional and uncomfortable experience they had in a medical setting, medical professionals tend to swarm them just to remind them over and over again that their job is sooooooo hard and patients are soooooo mean to them and that there are soooooooo many sicker people, like the sicker patients arenāt also being humiliated and abused, like hospitals do not stabilize people and dump them back on the street to die, like deaths due to medical errors arenāt a major problem, like racism, ableism, classism and misogyny isnāt rampant in the medical system from the top down, perpetuated systemically and individually by providers. So many doctors and nurses hate to admit theyāre wrong, they hate to admit theyāre complacent, they hate to admit that their patients are all people, often having the worst day of their life.
you are playing with an imaginary toy in an imaginary sandbox. fandom is all about having fun and letting your imagination run wild. canon is only a suggestion, not a rule. how much of canon you will follow, if any, is entirely up to you.
please stop trying to apply rules on hobbies and something thatās supposed to be your comfort place and a form of self-care.
āis it okay if I think thisā āis it okay if I imagine thatā itās YOUR little world that you create for yourself and your own enjoyment. you literally do not need strangersā opinions or permission when it comes to a hobby that doesnāt harm or affect anybody in real life. again, itās YOUR imagination, YOUR world, YOUR creation. you have all the power and the freedom to:
headcanon whatever you want, however you want
ship whatever you want, however you want
write whatever you want, however you want
draw whatever you want, however you want
create whatever you want, however you want
reject whatever you want, however you want
as long as youāre not harming anybody in real life, how you have fun with fictional characters and your imagination is no oneās business but your ownās.
last but not least: fiction is not, and will never be, a reflection of your real-life moral compass. what you like in fiction does not reflect who you are in real life as a person. kill that cop in your head.
I wish people understood that, at the end of the day, fictional characters are simply concepts
You could name a character in a room with over 100 people, and get over 100 different perspectives on that same character
It's okay to disagree on headcanons, characterization and even canon itself, it's not okay to bash others for their own perspectives and how they themselves handle characters, though
Either way, it's still fiction, different perspectives and interpretations won't hurt anyone
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"I don't like this thing so I'm gonna steer clear of it" -> totally fine, respectable, a normal response
"you should never write/draw this thing bcuz i find it disgusting/wrong and don't want to see it and you're a weirdo loser if you do" -> fuck you, piss off, who died and made you god of fiction
sorry but once you notice how often ppl use a southern accent as shorthand for being unintelligent you can never unsee it. classism is baked so deeply and why are you acting like anyone who talks the way my grandfather talks is stupid.
honestly, especially in the current state of the world, you all have GOT to kill whatever puritanical voice inside your head keeps insisting that if something is erotic it has no social, artistic, or intellectual merit.
stop acting as if someone canāt enjoy both erotica and literary fiction or classics. itās not some dichotomy.
stop acting as if erotic art canāt be poignant and meaningful. and that includes all erotic art - not just fine art.
stop insisting that sex scenes or erotic material ruin movies and shows just because you, personally, get icked out watching it.
no, not all erotic art is high art, and not all erotic art is meant to invoke deep intellectual discussion - but insisting that makes erotic art valueless, a disservice to intellectualism, or whatever else - does nothing but add fuel to a fire built on conservative ideology.
ābits to use in everyday conversationsā
I watched some videos by that guy who set up a fake ICE hotline to get people to snitch on members of their community. Not only is this very real and useful praxis- he's preventing these ghouls from reaching the real ICE- he also handles the calls in a really amazing way.
For the most part, he doesn't make accusations or insults people, he just repeats back the appalling shit they're telling him. And they get fucking furious. The example that went viral was him fielding a call from a kindergarten teacher who wanted to report one of her student's parents.
This absolutely disgusting piece of shit thought that the parents were "illegals" who were "taking up resources" because they weren't born in the US. The child was a US citizen because he was born here, but she wanted the "ICE" agent to "look into it."
So this dude just starts repeating stuff back like "so you want me to load the parents of the 5-year-old child you teach into a van and deport them, right?" and this bitch has the gall to say "you make it sound terrible š " in a self-conscious way. And then when he finally makes a more direct insult by nonchalantly saying that the 5-year-old "must be a major threat to national security," she demands to speak to his supervisor (which he agrees to and then makes no effort to change his voice for lmao).
This is far from the only call where the whole "repeat their rhetoric back to them" tactic pisses the caller off, too. As rotten, immoral, and disgusting as these ghouls are, I believe there's a tiny part of them that is aware of how fucked up their beliefs and behavior are. Being forced to confront that leads to painful cognitive dissonance and they'd rather lash out at the person who criticized them than look inward and do some self-reflection. Forcing people to confront their own cognitive dissonance of "I'm a good person" clashing with "I have objectively gross and harmful beliefs" is useful, even if it will never go anywhere.
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I think leftists need to refer to the United States as a slave state more often. It has the highest prison population per capita of any nation, slavery is legal as punishment for a crime and black people are disproportionately imprisoned and given longer sentences. The prison industrial complex is modern day slavery
I think the harm of denying people the right to control their own bodies is so, so much worse than the risk of people regretting the decisions they make. Regretting something you decided to do is a much healthier pain than the pain of regretting that you didn't get to have a choice.
