lover of all things pasta

LAUGH (nothing wrong with me)

Do you think that people really had money to go buy 5000 different pieces of equipment and ingredients? Nah.

Grow what you can. Buy your supplies in affordable ways. Reuse things you already have. And fuck anyone who tells you your craft won't work.

Obviously this doesn’t apply to all people, but for some trans people they were fine being their AGAB until they weren’t.

I used to follow an enby who proudly identified as a woman for years before one day they just went “actually… it changed. I’m not vibing with that any more. I was a woman, but now I’m not and I’m ready to open a different chapter of my life.”

Sometimes people who are genderfluid don’t have fluctuating dysphoria, and just have a changing gender.

Sometimes non-binary people will find that their masc/femme alignment changes.

Sometimes people who were binary feel more non-binary, or oppositely binary.

Are we ready to normalize this too?

EDIT:

Something that I have noticed is that many people read the first bit of my post and shut their brains off for the rest of the post. What I was trying to articulate wasn’t just relating to your AGAB as a child, but ALSO relating to your AGAB as a child.

I was trying to say we need to normalize gender changing in ALL stages of life in ALL forms. I’m really glad that this post gave some form of comfort to those who needed it, but what I’m trying to articulate that a changing gender doesn’t disqualify you from being trans or from retransition.

Several people have pointed out that, as of now, AFAB people feel the safest relating to this post and commenting on it. This is true. So if anyone is willing to have a conversation with me abt this please message me or send me an ask because I want to know how to adequately include all people in this conversation.

one wants to wear a suit on your wedding day

one wants to wear a dress on your wedding day

1) Pheobe Bridgers, just her whole discography really

2) Dylan Thomas by Better Oblivion (a Pheobe/Bright Eyes collab)

3) Black Sheep - Metric (the Brie Larson cover because it's superior)

4) (Dont Fear) The Reaper - Blue Öyster Cult

5) Kokomo - Beach Boys

Sun Goes Down - Lil Nas X.

Cheeseburger Family - Jack Stauber.

Anti-sea Shanty - Louie Zong.

Ghost Duet - Louie Zong.

hm

Square Hammer- Ghost

DEVIL- Shinedown

Wasteland- Seether

Sober- Tool

Vultures fly- Avatar

“Baby, You’re a Haunted House” by Gerard Way

“This Ain’t A Scene, It’s an Arms Race” by Fall out Boy

“Give Me Novacaine” by Green Day

“Too Much Too Soon” by Green Day

“Skylines and Turnstiles” by My Chemical Romance

“Baby, You’re a Haunted House” by Gerard Way

“Skylines and Turnstiles” by My Chemical Romance

“Fake Your Death” by My Chemical Romance

“Love Like You” from Steven Universe

“happy to be sad” by Ben Platt

Malibu Nights- LANY

Little Moon- Mackenzie Bourg

Michigan- The Milk Carton Kids

Bright- Echosmith

-July: Noah Cyrus

-I’m Not Okay (I Promise): My Chemical Romance

-Alpha: Guapdad 4000

-Trauma: NF

-Behind Blue Eyes: Limp Bizkit

And these are just from the past two days lol

I dont care fall out boy

The light behind your eyes my chemical romance

Gives you hell all American rejects

Dance, dance fall out boy

Coraline by Måneskin

Addict with a pen by twenty one pilots

I want to be with you by chloe moriondo

All of cavetowns songs

Surrender the night by my chemical romance