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I’m not doing the sorting anymore, but you can do it yourself:

Just count which house most of your placements show. If this doesn’t give a clear result, check your dominant element as an additional placement.

FIRE - GRYFFINDOR

EARTH - HUFFLEPUFF

AIR - RAVENCLAW

WATER - SLYTHERIN

the mum/mom friend - very loving - always worrying about friends - cares a lot - has a crush on brad pitt, probably

the dad friend - cares about friends but sometimes kinda distant - tells bad jokes - sometimes embarrasses friends but they still love them so its ok - the cool awkward friend

the sister friend - no one can pick on their friends except them - nice usually but can be deadly - embarrassing sometimes but loveable - surprisingly good with advice

the brother friend - annoying but loveable - has a rivalry with their friends - makes bad jokes - constantly has to be reminded that they can’t fight everything

the grandma friend - always has sweets with them for reasons unknown - makes things for their friends - loves hugs and friends to bits

venus in aries

how they attract others: an aries venus loves to flirt! they flirt by impressing whoever they want to pursue. they’re very confident when flirting. even though impressing may seem cocky, they still somehow show some kind of innocence inside of them. this innocence is very attractive to others! they love a good chase. they love to show off that they’re fun and adventurous. aries venus loves to grab the attention of the person they’re interested in and they definitely know how.

what they want in a relationship: aries venus wants spontaneity. the relationship has to be fun and adventurous! they want a partner that will be open, direct and honest. they want someone who is unpredictable and always has something new about them to show the aries venus. an aries venus wants to be the leader of the relationship, but doesn’t want a passive partner. the partner has to put in the same amount of adventure! they don’t want to feel tied down.

how they act in a relationship: they fall for people fast and tend to lose interest just as quickly. they are honest, impatient, and childlike (in a fun way). they are very affectionate. it’s like a best friend relationship! an aries venus is someone to have fun with! arguments will be a bit painful to hear but end quickly because the aries venus wants to get straight to the point and fix the problem immediately.

how the relationship can end: when their partner is “playing games”, it’s an immediate turn off for an aries venus. be straight up with them or else they will be turned off. “serious” and “mature” relationships aren’t enjoyable to them. an aries venus would much rather go on an impromptu adventure than sit down and talk about the future of the relationship. they have to feel like they can be their self around their partner. if they feel like they can’t act the way they want to act or do the things they want to do, the relationship won’t last any longer.

venus in taurus

how they attract others: venus in taurus “flirts” by simply showing how they would be in a relationship. they show that they are loyal and helpful. they don’t flirt very directly, it’s more like they try and grow a friendship to a relationship naturally. they show their appreciation for everything around them to whoever they’re trying to pursue and tempt them to join in the appreciation. taurus venus will touch the desired person in small ways- moving hair out of their face, touching their shoulders, etc.

what they want in a relationship: a taurus venus wants comfort. they like a relaxing, calm and sensual relationship. they want a dependable partner and they want a relationship with no sudden changes. venus in taurus likes physical contact and loyalty. they want a romantic relationship with dates such as painting, watching movies, going out to a nice dinner or having a “night in”.

how they act in a relationship: those born with venus in taurus are very committed to their partner. they are extremely romantic and nurturing. they love to shower their partner in things like chocolate and massages. a venus in taurus loves to share their interests and is interested in what their partner likes. they are very cuddly. sometimes they might be jealous or possessive. they are very, very devoted to their partner and want to always make their partner happy. they can be sensitive.

how the relationship can end: venus in taurus is immediately turned off when they don’t feel their partner is loyal or putting in an equal amount of effort. if the partner is fast-paced and bored by calm relationships, this is a big problem. the two aren’t compatible. a taurus venus hates to be rushed into a relationship and hates when their partner doesn’t find sex or quality time to be as meaningful. if there’s too much fighting or too many changes in the relationship then it will not work out. taurus venus takes excellent care of their partner, but that care needs to be returned. if they are the only one putting effort in the relationship, it will come to an end.

venus in gemini

how they attract others: venus in gemini people love to flirt. they use their quick wit as a tool to attract someone. they love teasing and making the person they’re pursuing interested in finding out more about them. they act playful and show interest and knowledge in many different subjects. a venus in gemini’s goal is to have the other person think of him or her as “cute” and “fun”.

what they want in a relationship: a gemini venus wants frequent change and spontaneity. they want someone who can hold great conversations on a variety of topics. they want someone who will show tons of interest in them. humor is very important to a gemini venus. every gemini venus’ goal is to always have something to smile about in the relationship. they want to be entertained by their partner and also feel like they’re “free”.

how they act in a relationship: venus in gemini people don’t care much about deep issues in the relationship. they don’t want to discuss them. they are always fun and full of life. gemini venus has lots of friends so won’t spend all of his/her time with their partner. they talk a lot and love sharing interests. they want to learn as much as possible and share what they learned with their partner. gemini venus closely analyzes the entire relationship. they keep the relationship stimulating for them. they make the relationship feel both comfortable and fun. venus in gemini wants to skip problems and emphasize the good aspects of the relationship.

how the relationship can end: gemini venus doesn’t want a partner that is always stuck on the same thing. a partner that hates change is a partner that won’t work for them. a gemini venus hates not receiving attention and feeling too “tied down”. if the relationship doesn’t have intelligent conversations, the relationship will not work. they don’t want a “boring” relationship. if their partner is always trying to address issues, the two aren’t compatible. 

venus in cancer

how they attract others: a venus in cancer doesn’t directly flirt. instead, they try and show their desired person how nurturing they are. they make others feel at home, warm, safe and comfortable. offering help (even when it isn’t needed) is a form of flirtation for venus in cancer. their overall goal when pursuing someone is just to seem as secure as possible.

what they want in a relationship: a cancer venus wants a loving, romantic, secure and committed relationship. they are sensitive to sudden change and prefer for the relationship to be predictable. they want a loyal partner who will put in the same amount of effort. even though cancer venus takes on a very maternal role in the relationship, they want to feel cared for. feeling needed is very important to a cancer venus. they want relationships with relaxing and sentimental dates.

how they act in a relationship: every venus in cancer knows exactly what their partner wants or needs. this is one of the main reasons why they’re so good at caring for others. they are very sensitive and can be hurt easily. they love creating traditions! cancer in venus will shower his/her partner with creative and sentimental gifts. they love cuddling. they have a hard time forgetting about times they’ve been hurt and aren’t afraid to address any problems in the relationship. they generally don’t like group dates.

how the relationship can end: if a cancer venus doesn’t feel secure, the relationship will end. if there’s too much fighting or too many changes in the relationship then it will not work out. if the cancer venus’ partner doesn’t show loyalty, the two are not compatible. cancer venus works very hard to please their partner and are not satisfied when the hard work isn’t appreciated. the partner needs to care about addressing problems. cancer venus is sensitive, even though they are open to figuring out underlying issues in the relationship, they can’t handle any rudeness or extreme negativity. the cancer venus and his/her partner both have to want the same thing. if not, the relationship will not work out.

venus in leo

how they attract others: a leo venus flirts by trying to get attention from who ever they’re trying to pursue. they like to show that they’re entertaining and friendly. twirling hair or getting up to say or do something in class are things a leo venus might do. they love to show interest in whatever the person they’re trying to pursue enjoys. they also love to make sure their accomplishments are known and that they have a different personality from other people. leo venus loves to flirt by touching the person they’re attracted to.

what they want in a relationship: venus in leo wants to feel loved. they like the security of a “stay at home” relationship but they still want to have fun. that “spark” needs to always be present. they have high expectations in the relationship. every leo venus person wants to always impress their partner. they want a partner who will tell them exactly how they’re feeling. leo venus wants a loyal and fun relationship. they want the relationship to feel different than most. venus in leo wants to be treated like a king or queen. they want their partner to be just as happy as them. group dates would be great!

how they act in a relationship: leo venus is very romantic and affectionate. they love to brag about their relationship and show off their partner just as much as they like to be shown off. they are extremely loyal. if the relationship feels stale, a leo venus will do everything in his/her power to spark it up again. they can get jealous sometimes. leo venus will try as hard as they can to make the relationship feel and look as perfect as possible. even though it seems superficial, the relationship does matter to them very, very much.

how the relationship can end: the couple needs to be on the same page. a venus in leo needs his/her significant other to be open to fixing problems. leo venus needs to feel loved. if not, they feel insecure. reassurance is key. the relationship cannot be bland. though one-on-one time is important to a leo venus, they will not be happy if it’s only that. equal effort is very important. if the leo venus seems to be forgetting about his/her partner’s feelings, the partner has to bring this up in a calm, gentle way. the leo venus will do whatever he/she can to fix it. if this is never brought up, the relationship can end.

venus in virgo

how they attract others: a virgo venus doesn’t flirt. instead, they will show that they are clean, organized, attentive, reliable and logical. the person the venus in virgo is interested in will notice those qualities. usually they are attracted to a friend. no virgo venus attempts to pursue a stranger, they don’t know the stranger very well.  virgo venus will make sure to be helpful. they are shy and slow to enter a relationship because they want to be sure of the other person’s feelings.

what they want in a relationship: venus in virgo wants to be appreciated. they want one-on-one dates and preferably in a quite setting. they want to feel needed but not get taken advantage of. they want to fix any relationships issues that are present. they want to feel confident with the relationship, it’s important that they know their partner is loyal. because they are shy, they don’t want to be shown off too much. they would much rather have a quiet and dedicated relationship.

how they act in a relationship: virgo venus is extremely attentive. they love doing small things to make their partner happy. these things that they do are’t grand gestures of love, though. nothing flashy or showy, but very helpful. they are great listeners and will learn everything there is to know about their partner. sometimes they need space. every person with venus in virgo is pretty critical, but it’s just because they’re trying to help. their relationships are comfortable.

venus in libra

how they attract others: venus in libra loves to impress whoever they’re interested in. because they are very charming, flirting is easy for them. sometimes they do it accidentally or just because they want to, even if they aren’t attracted to the person they’re flirting to. no one is better at flirting than a libra venus. when flirting, they show that they are sweet, sensitive, cute, and attentive. they love to tease and partner up in a project with the person they’re trying to pursue. they will also gently touch that person. 

what they want in a relationship: libra venus wants someone who will treat others fairly. they want their partner to try and fix any issues that may be present in the relationship. they love partnership and dates where they are alone with their partner. though they love one-on-one companionship, venus in libra men and women will still want to socialize with many people, bringing his/her partner along. they love the idea of love and want a relationship that can be viewed by others as “goals”. they want a relationship with romance, both joking around and being serious, adventure and devotion. they want the relationship to have intellectually simulating conversations.

how they act in a relationship: every venus in libra person is fair. they put lots of effort into the relationship. they can be sensitive and sometimes accidentally start acting more like the person they think their partner wants them to be. they are clingy and always try to compromise. libra venus falls in love easily and sometimes it’s not with the right person. because they love the idea of love, they can forget about how the relationship is in reality and focus on what it looks like from the outside instead.

how the relationship can end: libra venus needs to be treated like a king or queen. they want to feel loved and like they impress their partner. it’s easy for them to fall in love, so they might start slipping into that with someone else if the relationship isn’t 100% perfect. because every libra venus is so in love with the idea of love, they will ignore some problems to keep the relationship “happy”. this can make it easy to take advantage of them. they will notice, but not say anything. after a while though, it will tear the relationship apart. 

venus in scorpio

how they attract others: scorpio venus men and women don’t even need to directly flirt. there is simply something magnetic about them. they seduce more than they flirt. they are capable of seducing people accidentally, but when they do it on purpose, it almost always works instantly. they have a mysterious and powerful personality that they use to attract others.

what they want in a relationship: scorpio venus wants a strong, committed relationship. they want the relationship to last long. they want to have power in the relationship, even too much. scorpio venus wants someone who doesn’t run away from commitment, emotions, or intensity. they want a partner that is loyal and will be extremely focused on the relationship. scorpio venus loves a passionate relationship. they want to know everything about their partner.

how they act in a relationship: the partner of a scorpio venus receives tons of attention. scorpio venus is the definition of emotional intensity. they can get very jealous and are good at manipulation. they love to be very close to their partner, “staying in” dates are their favorite. because scorpio venus is so focused on his/her partner, showing off the relationship doesn’t matter to them. they don’t even think about showing off their partner. when they’ve been hurt, it’s obvious and difficult to earn their forgiveness. venus in scorpio people are not afraid to address any issues. they are romantic and sensual. they love physical affection.

how the relationship can end: if the scorpio venus does not feel like there is equal commitment in the relationship, it will be over. the scorpio venus’ partner needs to be dedicated to the relationship. if the partner is closed off or feels threatened when analyzed, the relationship won’t work out. when a scorpio venus is hurt, they take a while to get over it. so if there is too much drama in the relationship and if the scorpio venus’ partner is insensitive, it will not work out. it will also scar the two.

venus in sagittarius

how they attract others: when trying to pursue someone, sagittarius venus likes to befriend that someone and talk to them constantly. they show that they are adventurous, interested in many things, funny, and intelligent. they are able to be both care-free and philosophical. this mixture makes people very attracted to them. sagittarius venus may act more “free-spirited” than usual when flirting. they act clumsy and show off their very optimistic attitude. they show that a relationship with them is a “best friend” relationship.

what they want in a relationship: sagittarius venus wants to learn new things. when dating someone, they include their partner in this exploration. they want their partner to help them gain new experiences. they want a partner who will take interest in their beliefs, opinions, and goals. sagittarius venus loves freedom. they want a relationship that doesn’t have too much planning. they want to just have fun with their partner whenever they want. and when they do plan, they usually bail because that’s just not what they want to do at the time. a sagittarius venus person would love to have a partner that is intellectually simulating.

how they act in a relationship: a sagittarius venus doesn’t like commitment. they love to include their partner in their adventures. they might try and ignore any problems that there are in the relationship because problems just aren’t important to them- having fun is. they tend to leave when it gets too rough. it is noticeable when they are upset. they are blunt, social, entertaining, optimistic and wise. 

how the relationship can end: when the relationship doesn’t have much adventure or spontaneity, the sagittarius venus is unhappy. they will likely end the relationship because their happiness is incredibly important. they don’t want to feel too tied down so discussions about the future of the relationship can drive them away. because they are so optimistic, they are incompatible with pessimists. if the partner of the sagittarius venus shies away from intellectual conversations, learning, or deep thinking, the two are incompatible. if the partner notices every flaw in the relationship and constantly brings them up, the relationship will not work out.

venus in capricorn

how they attract others: venus in capricorn attracts others with their reputation. this can mean their job, social standing, or wealth. they don’t brag about it, they just make sure it’s mentioned once and leave it at that. anyone can easily see their responsible, mature and hardworking self. they use their wit when flirting. people end up very curious about the capricorn venus because of how “loner-ish” they are.

what they want in a relationship: capricorn venus is picky. they like to be certain of who they are dating. they are attracted to someone who is hard-working, mature, ambitious and goal-oriented. they want to feel safe in the relationship, so predictability is a must. they want a committed relationship. they also want the relationship to be very calm and peaceful.

how they act in a relationship: once a capricorn venus feels safe in a relationship, romance rises. even though they don’t seem like it, they can be very romantic. they just don’t show it in an extravagant way. they’re quieter about it, and the romance can be shown in small but very meaningful gestures. they love to learn about their partner and help their partner succeed. sometimes they aren’t very expressive about their love, especially not in public. it’s not because they’re embarrassed, it’s just that they simply don’t think about it. they are very dependable. 

how the relationship can end: capricorn venus doesn’t like dating someone who is unmotivated. this can turn them off. if their partner is unpredictable, loves activity and loves change than the two aren’t compatible. capricorn venus doesn’t like being pressured into doing things. they need to be comfortable. if the relationship has too much drama or fighting, capricorn venus won’t hesitate to end it. of course they’ll try and fix problems, but if they don’t get fixed, the relationship is over. they’d rather be focused on work or goals instead of relationship drama.

venus in aquarius

how they attract others: aquarius venus acts more quirky than usual when flirting. they like to seem more original than others, often talking about being rebellious. they make it known that they are free-spirited and encourage the person they’re interested in to just be however they want to be. aquarius venus loves to discuss their opinions and views on the world when trying to pursue someone.

what they want in a relationship: aquarius venus is attracted to “unconventional” relationships. they don’t want a traditional relationship. they don’t want a relationship that makes them feel tied down. they’d rather roam freely. they want their partner to be smart and intuitive, and they want to be recognized for their own brains an intuition as well. they want to be with someone who will join them in advocating for fairness. aquarius venus loves intellectual conversations and wants the relationship to have plenty. 

how they act in a relationship: venus in aquarius people never stop trying to impress their partner. they treat their partner like a best friend. they love to include their partner in adventures and share all of their thoughts with them. they love to be artistic with the person they’re dating. they are curious about their partner’s opinions and interests. rather than following the typical structure of a relationship, aquarius venus wants to redefine it. they may even start some new strange but fun traditions for their relationship. they are open to fixing problems in the relationship, but not if it’s gonna take away their freedom. they are quite emotionally detached. they want their partner to join them in dreaming and fantasizing about the world. aquarius venus loves to exchange knowledge with the person they’re dating. they don’t like to commit and will run away from talking about relationship issues.

how the relationship can end: every aquarius venus needs a partner that will have similar interests. if the two have nothing in common, the aquarius venus will feel discouraged. if they date someone that is very clingy and emotional, the two will not work out. aquarius venus needs to feel like he/she has freedom. trying to control them or constantly protect them does nothing but damage the relationship. the relationship needs to be fun, productive, active, and have tons of intellectual simulation. if not, then the aquarius venus won’t be happy and will most likely end it.

venus in pisces

how they attract others: pisces venus flirts playfully. they try to appear cute, playful, childlike and sweet. they’re very good at it. when flirting, the person they’re trying to pursue will immediately think of them as a very fun, loving person. they have an alluring look in their eyes that is very hard to resist. they make sure to offer help as much as they can to the person they’re interested in.

what they want in a relationship: pisces venus wants a romantic relationship. they want creativity and they want security. they want to feel needed and be appreciated for everything they do to help. the relationship a pisces venus has in mind is very peaceful. they want to be with someone who is sentimental and gentle. it’s very important to a pisces venus that the relationship is secure. they want to make sure that their partner loves them unconditionally. they love dates like painting, small “photoshoots” or going to the beach. they won’t flaunt the relationship around, but they do want other people to know how happy it is.

how they act in a relationship: a pisces venus person can be very sensitive. they look deep into their partner and fall in love with what’s inside. they don’t care what other people think about the relationship. because they try to be as sweet as possible, they bend the truth a little bit just to keep their partner happy. they are humorous and enjoy physical affection. it’s hard for them to commit. they love to try new things. overall, they want their partner to be happy, so it’s hard for them to say no. this can cause them to be taken advantage of. they are great at listening and don’t hesitate to help anyone out. they can be pretty moody.

aries venus: infatuated crush. their love is possessive and on fire. they want to spend every living, waking moment with you and when they aren’t, you’re the only thing on their mind. their heart is aflame and you’re the air that’s only making it grow.

taurus venus: cherished crush. they’re there for you! always and forever. if you need anything, they want you to let them supply it. whether it be safety, comfort, or support; your happiness is their happiness. let them take care of you, that’s all they want.

gemini venus: breathtaking crush. ‘love is a game’ has never meant more to anyone than these people. expect the unexpected with them, because you’ll never see anything coming. and if you find yourself getting too comfortable, they’ll shock you all over again. they’re conversations at 3am and the real laughter from your stomach. they’ll make you wonder what fun was before you met them.

cancer venus: first love crush. every time feels like the first to them. they’ll fall in love a million times and still want to give nothing but the world to that person. they’re blushing easily and soft smiles. they’re doodling hearts in a notebook and laying in bed dreaming of confessing their feelings.

leo venus: grand crush. in love with the idea of love, you may have a hundred and one crushes but you’ll always know when you really fall in love. they’re being on the top of the world and never wanting to come down. feeling like the only two people on earth and as if you’re constantly spinning in a dream. love may not exactly be forever for them, but they always make the most of it when it’s there.

virgo venus: devoted crush. very similar to taurus, these people are always there for you. even though their love is light like a breeze, their feelings are always very very real. they’re grocery shopping at 6am & starting a bubble war with the soapy dish water. love is supposed to be comfortable and like home to them.

libra venus: enchanted crush. crushes are easy to fall in for you but also easy to fall out of; and the other person would have never even known. you treat love as if it’s a unfamiliar reality with an infinite amount of things to be discovered and experienced. love is always a fairytale for you.

scorpio venus: intoxicating crush. they engulf you when they have a crush; similar to aries. they’re possessive and addicted to being around you. they want to break you down to your center and memorize all your scars and deeply hidden secrets until there’s nothing left except two souls. then you’ll be with them for life.

sagittarius venus: wild crush. you want nothing more than to see the world and break all the rules with the one you love. these crushes are impulsive and insane and they make you feel the true beauty in life and forget all the questions or unknown. they’re fast and they strike hard and then leave you wanting more when it’s all over.

capricorn venus: tender crush. these crushes are always a secret for the entire time they’re there, never even beginning to think of making the first move. they’re warm and innocent yet also very mature and serious. they’re talking about you to their friends and gazes across a room, devoted time and putting you first. they’re always one of the best because they’re filled with real loyalty and care; a type you can’t find any other place.

aquarius venus: best friend crush. they’re your best friends, because it’s hardly unlikely they would fall in love with you any other way. they’re intrigued and in love with all your flaws and differences from the world, admiring you like a star in their very dark sky. these crushes are unique and rare.

This will be categorized by the elements

Earth Signs want commitment and a lasting partnership.

Capricorn Venus: You can come off extremely aloof, but you know damn well what you want in a partner. Time is not a problem for you, because you can go the rest of your life alone waiting for the person that is up to fulfill your needs and meets your standards. While other Venus signs may battle with depression if they are single, you focus your energies on building your career or finances. However, if you have a water Mars sign, this can create a bit of an imbalance because while you are perfectly fine being alone, you might hear a voice in the back of your head that wants to be loved and partnered with. (Compatible Venus signs are: Capricorn, Taurus and Virgo. Wild Card would Scorpio & Aquarius)

Taurus Venus: The ideal partner is in your mind, you might feel as if no one around you is worthy. The heart of the Taurus Venus works a lot like the show, The Bachelor. You will have many suitors but none of them might meet the mark. Perhaps you have many and they are all eligible, this would be the time for you to test them to see who is willing to go the farthest in the name of love. Luxury and comfort are important to you, so those who want to win over a Taurus Venus should keep that in mind. Much like Capricorn, you can wait forever until you find the one. (Compatible Venus signs are: Capricorn, Taurus and Virgo. Wild Card would Libra & Pisces)

Virgo Venus: Virgo, you do not chase anyone, you let them all come to you. Those that are partnered with you might not understand you. You are the doting lover but will not reciprocate any warmth. Virgo Venus prefers to be practical in their relationships, including demonstrations of love. Do not expect them to shower you with compliments, text messages that are filled with lovely words or orchestrated performances. They will provide you with what you need. If your Virgo Venus partner sees that you need help financially to pay for a class, she will go out of her way to pay it for you. This Venus sign is practical and not emotional. Virgo Venus tests their partners covertly to see how devoted they are. If they feel betrayed, they will silently dream of greener pastures until they feel that it is the right time to move on. (Compatible Venus signs are: Capricorn, Taurus and Virgo. Wild Card would Scorpio & Cancer)

Fire Signs want the thrill and excitement. An intoxicating romance.

Sagittarius Venus: Love is a game and people are here for entertainment. You will point to your partner with your invisible bow and arrow and then hope that they are captivated with you. It is hard for a Sagittarius to understand what love means, especially when they can fall in love with multiple people (or so they think). When the Sagittarius falls hard, they truly understand the meaning of love, the problem is that even if they are in a comfortable scenario, the ache to find something better will always fill the back of their minds. If a partner is able to provide them with the right amount of freedom, they will not feel restricted and will flourish in the relationship. Boredom, like Gemini can creep in and make them want to vanish, which is why they are drawn to the most creative and the most unattainable. The more impossible the prospects of the relationship are, the harder the Sagittarius falls. It all boils down to balance. (Compatible Venus signs are: Aries, Sagittarius and Leo. Wild Card would be Aquarius & Libra)

Aries Venus: Aries loves the chase because they love going after what they want. It is easy for fire to fall, but keeping that flame alive is the true battle. This sign is no different from Sagittarius in that they need to be stimulated physically and mentally in order to stay in love. Aries, you are the spark and you will easily go after you want, the issue will be that once you’ve won the person, the game is over and you might get…bored. You enjoy being in love, you enjoy being paired up but your lack of commitment can make you seem selfish. Do not be surprised if an Aries Venus promises you the moon and the stars on Monday and disappears on Tuesday; chances are they have promised the same thing to someone else. (Compatible Venus signs are: Aries, Sagittarius and Leo. Wild Card would be Aquarius & Scorpio)

Leo Venus: Leo loves the glamour and the grandiose declarations. They will choose their partners and show them off to the world with genuine pride. Their partners are an extension of them. Unlike Aries and Sagittarius, Leo is a fixed sign, so they will be a bit more…loyal. After all, Leo is ruled by the Sun and their ego is tied to their partner, so they want someone committed and loyal to them, someone who will stick by them and make them flourish. The lion needs a lioness that will rule with them. Leo Venus, you like to give your lover the attention they need. You go out of your way to send loving messages and make them feel special. You also want your partner to reciprocate every once in a while, as well. The Leo Venus partner can get overwhelming when they become self-absorbed (more so than the norm) and it is up to their partner to bring them back to reality and learn to be a bit more humble. (Compatible Venus signs are: Aries, Sagittarius and Leo. Wild Card would be Capricorn & Libra)

Water Signs want the beautiful fairy tale romance.Searching for a Prince or Princess.

Pisces Venus: Venus is exalted in Pisces, so it is not surprising that you are the best match for everyone. Shy Pisces Venus will rarely chase after someone that they are attracted to, but they will make cute gestures to be closer to those they have their sights on. Not all elements will value or understand your great worth because they see you as weak due to your affectionate nature. You are devoted to your partner, sometimes to the point where you lose yourself in the relationship. Pisces Venus must learn that they should occasionally be more selfish in relationships because they will go above and beyond to satisfy and please without expecting anything in return. This is how Pisces gets taken advantage of, your natural loving nature gets used to the point where it makes you doubt yourself. Hold your greatest gift, which is love, and wait for the person worthy of you. (Compatible Venus signs are: Pisces, Cancer and Scorpio. Wild Card would be Taurus)

Cancer Venus: The mother in the relationship. Cancer will not pursue you, she is already magnetic and alluring, so everyone will gravitate towards her. She will love and care for you, she will be there for you but she will fight if she is being used. Unlike Pisces, who throws themselves into the relationship, the Cancer analyses and evaluates. If someone is taking advantage of you, you are going to push back. Security is important to her, like Taurus and harmony in her home will take precedence over any tumultuous partnerships. The Cancer Venus will give you the boot if she deems you unworthy, she will cry and be in pain but once she has recovered, she will be cold as ice and out of your life. (Compatible Venus signs are: Pisces, Cancer and Scorpio. Wild Card would be Taurus & Virgo)

Scorpio Venus: When the Scorpio wants someone, they go for it. Scorpio loves a challenge. This Venus sign embodies the sensual, alluring and mystic qualities we all wish we had. There is something about him that pulls everyone to his direction. He gives off the aura of chaos and harmony and he will bring the boisterous times for those that are ill prepared. Scorpio Venus is the detective and he will test you to see if you are worthy, but these tests can become psychologically painful since no one can read the Scorpio or know what is brewing in their mind. Scorpio, you do not trust anyone and it does not matter how perfect your partner may be, you will never feel content. However, once you open up and give yourself to their love, the wave of emotions might dissipate. (Compatible Venus signs are: Pisces, Cancer and Scorpio. Wild Card would be Aries, Capricorn & Virgo)

Air Signs seek the innovators. A romance on the intellectual level.

Aquarius Venus: You are fickle when you are courting people. She will court the person she wants and she will captivate them with her eccentricities. This is the sign that enjoys technology and aesthetics. The Aquarius Venus wants to take lots of pictures with their lover. They enjoy showing them off on social media sites and they are the types to amass countless photos of their previous relationships. She lives in the past, the present and wants to eagerly see what the future has in store for her. A partner that is able to give her freedom of expression, loyalty and stability will be someone she admires. Aquarius will run free, her logical façade will shatter, and she will feel depressed if her partner does not make her feel valued and cherished. Although Aquarius will never express these thoughts, as a fixed sign they crave stability and loyalty. (Compatible Venus signs are: Aquarius, Gemini and Libra. Wild Card would be Aries & Sagittarius)

Gemini Venus: Much like Sagittarius, the Gemini is hard to catch. He does not want to be controlled, he needs his freedom and independence. Geminis will make the first move and they will be shameless about it. Communication drives them, so expect endless hours texting or talking on the phone. As long as you can mentally stimulate the Gemini, they are yours to command. What pushes them away are ignorant people. If you are not the intellectual type, they might lose interest fast and their eyes will wander. The Gemini Venus needs to have a partner that bounces information to them constantly. The more you know, the better. They have a short attention span, so someone spontaneous and intelligent will always keep them glued. It is also easy for Gemini Venus to use people for sex, even if they do not have an intellectual connection. However, they will use the person temporarily until someone else can captivate their minds. (Compatible Venus signs are: Aquarius, Gemini and Libra. Wild Card would be Aries & Leo)

aries: the warmth and smell of campfires in the summer, drinking coca-cola from a cold, glass bottle; walking downtown on a saturday evening, wearing blush, red and orange sunsets, cigarette smoke, the feeling of laughing so hard your stomach hurts.

taurus: mementos you want to throw away but have too much sentiment, the smell of linen, pearl earrings, blurry photos, silver jewelry, drawing a smiley face next to your signature; ballet shoes, coconuts, the taste of homemade cookies, faint smiles.

gemini: fountain pens and bullet-point journals, the cold breeze in early spring, the spaciousness of a big, quiet library; marble pillars and greek architecture, graceful movement, long, glossy nails, mint gum, the smell of green tea, loud laughter and sparkling eyes.

cancer: soft, fluffy pillows and silk bedsheets, seeing the flowery trees in spring, peach iced tea, the salty smell of the ocean and collecting seashells, soft eyes, dewy skin; chandeliers, taking a peaceful snooze to wind down, warm hugs and care for the ones you love, summertime air, the taste of sweet fruit.

leo: fields of tall sunflowers, summer tans and freckles, old black and white movies, singing as loud as you can in an open room, the smell of guava juice and sunscreen, tap dancing and smiles worn only for the camera; brightly colored hair and walls, leather jackets and sneakers.

virgo: the smell of clean laundry, singing softly to yourself; calligraphy pens and wool sweaters, gold necklaces, calmness in solitude, vanilla milkshakes, the hum of moving bikes, writing poetry about the changing of seasons, sitting in a meadow in the early morning to clear your head.

libra: talking so much your throat gets raspy, giggling about your crush, drinking fruity iced tea, wearing oversized clothes, getting your nails done, palm trees and tropical flowers; the smell of makeup, wearing bikinis and pushing your friends into the pool, face masks, red or pink lip gloss.

scorpio: listening to synthy music late at night, streetlights, dark colored clothes and staying up until sunrise, doc martens; plaid skirts, dancing like nobody’s watching, the smell of chlorine, disco lights, the clicking of high heels, quiet downtown streets late at night.

sagittarius: big coats, polaroids, taking random roadtrips to the southwest; 70’s music, red lipstick, arizona tea, comfortable silences, cracking your knuckles when you get nervous, getting up early enough to watch the sun rise, hiking through the mountains, glittering smiles, golden retrievers.

capricorn: earth tones, grassy meadows and rushing lakes, cocker spaniels, picnics under an old tree; planting your own vegetables and fruit, owning a sunhat, painting with watercolors; drinking black coffee early in the mornings, loving and thriving off of your routine.

aquarius: looking at saturn’s rings through a telescope, going to art museums; the smell of lilac, riding your bike through an unfamiliar part of town, old maps, vintage telephones, listening to music with the windows down, buying your clothes at thrift stores, bubblegum, cool tones.

ARIES: firecrackers. will blow up in five seconds and be calm in two. actually incredibly sweet, just also incredibly naive. somehow has their own sort of shady wisdom. will hold the door for people unless they’re walking slow.

TAURUS: soft like silk. does not care about what you’ve done even if they look like they’re judging you. cares about the small things in life. will call you just to talk about whatever. typical green thumbs.

GEMINI: will read past their bedtime. will do anything past their bedtime. actual sweethearts, but with moodswings. so damn funny. always down to go see a movie with you.

CANCER: doesn’t cry at sad movies. internalizes everything. won’t reveal anything about themselves, unless it makes them look good. enjoys a wide variety of food, at all hours of the day.

LEO: high key the most dramatic, but they’ll deny it. wants to talk about themselves all the time, but also the best listeners because they really do care. big hair.

VIRGO: really cares about the aesthetic. will make jokes to ease tension. big huggers, even if they’re awkward about it. notices the details. will win you over with their charm.

LIBRA: will deny they’re upset. organizing as a way of relaxation. wanting people to laugh at them or interact with them. changing their schedules to fit other people in. holding hands as an art form.

SCORPIO: always thinking they’ve found “the one.” highkey romantic. will call you out on your bullshit. doesn’t care if they come across as rude. acts cold but is really very soft and sensitive deep inside.

SAGITTARIUS: spontaneity. will always say thanks. total sweeties. just down for the ride. will make you laugh harder than you’ve ever laughed, for no obvious reason. they’re not even that funny.

CAPRICORN: more of a relaxed, chill attitude about life than expected. will take you “shopping” but spend everything on themselves. will smile at strangers. wants people to respect them.

AQUARIUS: literally the biggest goofballs ever. you probably won’t ever see them cry — they cry, just not around you. really wants to trust others and be trusted in return. they feel responsible for the future.

Aries IC/Aries Moon: needs independence from loved ones, so isn’t always present. this need isn’t obvious though. quick to react. privately wilful and sexual. wants to explore all things and all desires and not hold back. inwardly feels separated from everyone. intense feelings dominate but this is not obvious, feelings often kept hidden. secretly wants to be alone, might feel bad for admitting it so just does things alone anyway. not afraid to act by itself.

Taurus IC/Taurus Moon: privately very stubborn and resistant, and privately needs comfort in all things. wants to have beautiful things and comfortable things, but in private, comfortable settings (i.e. they might pretend that comfort isn’t a priority for them to not seem like babies, when really it is). privately lazy and loving. rarely change their lives once it is in a settled pattern. emotionally blunt.

Gemini IC/Gemini Moon: wants to have an intellectually stimulating open house system. inwardly feels bipolar and changeable. cleverness is kept private, as are all their thoughts. interested and observant of everyone but doesn’t make this known. usually do not express emotion and tend to intellectualise just about everything.

Cancer IC/Cancer Moon: whatever they own will be held very closely. wants to belong to a close-knit circle so close that they consider themselves family. tends to protect and take care of. inwardly is an emotional mess and nostalgic but this is kept private. feel a lot, but rarely express a lot. sensitive to anything from their past. easy to express simple emotions like joy, but not easy to be vulnerable and show anything deep.

Leo IC/Leo Moon: wants to be the entertainer but in private, comfortable settings. inwardly feels special and creative. ego can dominate but is kept private (i.e., you’ll deny that feelings or ego dominate) the full extent of your creative gifts may also be kept private, but you inwardly feel very creative. needs to feel regal and august.

Virgo IC/Virgo Moon: very helpful and competent, but privately. domestically refined, secretly critical. very perfectionistic and usually doesn’t express emotion. wants to be of use to people but in private, comfortable settings. inwardly feels inadequate or that there is always more they should be doing.

Libra IC/Libra Moon: strong desire for companionship and tend to not enjoy being alone. ask people constantly for advice on what to do. wants to share and be relational, but in private, comfortable settings. inwardly feels sensitive and indecisive. needs to feel equal, i.e. the woman who must feel equal to a man, and vice versa. secretly diplomatic and a peace-keeper. struggles with comparing themselves to others.

Scorpio IC/Scorpio Moon: when emotions hit they are powerful and they feel chaotic. often emotionally dramatic. wants closeness and intensity but pushes people away at the same time. inwardly an emotionally troubled person, tends to hold onto intense hatred. struggles with emotions and whether to act on them or not. despite this, their intensity is only shown to their loved ones.

Sagittarius IC/Sagittarius Moon: feels like they are able or wants to travel and leave home in the blink of an eye. needs to feel free. emotionally irresponsible and will reject whatever does not give them freedom. wants to explore cultures and the world, but in private, comfortable settings. inwardly feels rootless and lost. constant searching.

Capricorn IC/Capricorn Moon: dislikes being shown affection unless they initiate it. needs to feel respected. emotionally responsible and capable. wants recognition but in private, comfortable settings. ambition is strong but can be kept private. inwardly feels serious and does not find it easy to spontaneously express joy or sadness. usually this does not bother them as they prefer to keep to themselves.

Aquarius IC/Aquarius Moon: often feels pressured to express emotion but just can’t fake it. needs to feel free and respected for their knowledge and unique traits. wants friendship and kinship. platonic love dominates over romantic. inwardly feels rootless, empty and fiercely resistant. wants to be open and ridiculously funny and eccentric, but in private, comfortable settings.

Pisces IC/Pisces Moon: no emotional boundaries. wants connections that feel special and glamorous to fulfil their own need for something that is so otherworldly. often escapes reality. compassionate and sensitive, but in private, comfortable settings. inwardly feels like a lost soul, so clings to fleeting things that allow them to escape.

I’ve also found that planets in the 4th house, and Moon aspects to planets can apply here too. i.e., Neptune in the 4th house can relate to the Pisces IC/Moon. Jupiter in the 4th can relate to the Sagittarius IC/Moon, Mercury for Gemini and/or Virgo, etc. Moon-Pluto aspect can relate to Scorpio IC/Scorpio Moon. Moon-Uranus aspect can relate to Aquarius IC/Aquarius Moon.

Examine your IC, 4th house and Moon to explore who you are deep down.