it's such bs that the whole guilt-ridden stoic self-sacrificing martyr thing doesn't work outside of fiction. repressing all your emotions and neglecting your physical wellbeing should make you god's most tragically beautiful morally unassailable little soldier of righteousness but all it does is give you bad skin and gastrointestinal problems
like what do you MEAN the number 1 sexiest character trait of all time is just kind of offputting and bad for you in real life. next you'll tell me smoking has consequences other than looking like a mysterious badass
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From "How to Respond to Criticism" by Daniel Laverty:
Run into a cave and break your ankle so that people have to come find you and they see you lying at the bottom of this beautiful cave and maybe thereβs a waterfall and the light from the crystals makes you look really beautiful and they say βAre you okay?β and you say βI think soβ and they say βoh my God have you been here alone this whole time with a broken ankleβ and you say βitβs okayβ and they say βyouβre so braveβ and youΒ areΒ brave and you look so beautiful surrounded by cave crystals and everyone stands over you and says βoh wowβ and βyou poor beautiful thingβ and βIβm so sorry we let you run into the cave but Iβm so glad we found youβ and let them carry you home and promise to be your best friends forever and that everythingβs their fault and also they named the cave after you and youβre prettier than all of your enemies and your enemies all died of jealousy while you were in the cave.
In case the link doesn't work: https://the-toast.net/2014/06/12/respond-criticism/#4tckqs4Z1hykkHR8.99

















