Even if youâre monogamous. This is not just for polyamorous people. Your partner is allowed to have fulfilling friendships outside of you. Your partner is allowed to turn to other people to help meet their needs. Demanding that they only come to you is unrealistic, toxic, possessive, and an unhealthy dynamic. The narrative that your partner should get everything from you - and you get everything from them - is a harmful product of bad rom coms. Donât fall for it.
Absolutely even if youâre monogamous. Maybe especially then.
Your partner should have fulfilling relationships outside of the one they have with you. This isnât just something you should tolerate, itâs something you should encourage, for your own emotional well-being as well as theirs. If your partner doesnât want to have any relationships outside of the one they have with you, something is terribly wrong.






















