Twelve Mother Effing Parsecs

Th problem I think is ppl don’t see misogyny as the systemic issue that it is. A man saying misogynist slurs and making threats of sexual and physical violence towards a woman - that’s not him being a misogynist that’s just him being an asshole or a shitty person. Intimate partner violence from a man towards a woman, that’s not a man abusing the power he has over women under patriarchy and the contempt he has because he has been socialized to see women as quite literally objects rather than human beings, that’s just an example of a “toxic relationship” and individual bad behavior that has nothing to with gender. All of these things are examples of individual failings rather than a culture that revolves around the dehumanization of women in every aspect of life, in ppls minds. It’s tiring

why did we as a society stop putting gargoyles on everything. what fucking loser looked at a building and was like no actually this doesn’t need a horrid little creacher

in the next batman movie selina is back in town to con bruce wayne which he knows but he missed her so much and obviously he can afford it so he just lets her

she reveals she's robbed him and he's like oh that's fine lol if you needed money you could have just asked :) and writes her a check for a million dollars and asks when he can see her again and she's like dang this guy is insane??

he was terrified she could never love him for bruce wayne meanwhile selina's like okay edgy badboys are OUT rich himbos are IN but its the same guy

she expects batman to try to stop her at some point but he never does so she concludes that he just really hates bruce wayne for some reason which makes him all the more attractive

batman realizes she's falling for bruce for real and he's not even jealous he's just like "you really like him? 🥺 that's great 🥺" and selina's like wtf

anyway she sneaks into bruce's study or whatever to crack the safe hidden behind the painting and it's full of roses, jewelry, bruce's blank checkbook and a little note asking her to dinner. he thinks that this is normal behavior btw