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its really not just an attraction thing that fandom is so focused on men because that is not at all how straight men treat female characters
bad art by and for straight men: the guy is the main focus who has a lot of thoughts and feelings and a character arc and the women are mostly defined by being moms, ideal girlfriends, or nags
bad art by and for fandom: the guys are the main focus who have a lot of thoughts and feelings and character arcs and the women are mostly defined by being moms or lesbian bffs and nags
really smart fandom person: we act like this because we're attracted to men
I mean I feel we are missing one category here.
Bad art by and for Fandom men: Hey do you want to see the female characters as sex dolls for the male characters? You just wanna see female characters as things for the male characters to stick their dicks in, right? Strong and interesting women are just the sexual play things of men, correct? Sapphic sexual encounters are just for done for the voyeuristic male audience, right? Futas - I mean trannies, should always have massive cocks and tits, and can be fucked by anyone, they're basically sex slaves.
Really smart Fandom person: if you disagree with this perspective you are a prude, a soulless, sexless kill joy, a fascist banshee. Porn is supposed to never have any critical eye placed on it.
Okay, real talk now. People love to tag male characters in posts about women, but this post is gonna take this seriously. Is there actually a canonically male character you believe is a trans woman? Or at least has made into a trans woman for a fanart or a fanfic? Excluding the ones canonically implied.
Sound off in the tags! Link to the fanart or fic if available. Do it. Give me the girls. Make more women.
So this is one I've thought ever since I finished the manga series, it's not as supported in the anime adaptation but I think it can still be read there as well.
But anyway, I believe with my whole chest that Legoshi from Beastars is a trans woman.
And I don't think it would take that much to basically allow her to crack her egg, literally I think if she saw a trans woman wolf walking down the street on her usual day to day she would probably start on the road to cracking her egg and unfortunately delaying estrogen thanks to her desire to have kids with Haru.
Like it's pretty read, especially in the Manga where he is explicitly described as being very feminine when trying to impress people (like Haru's family), he's got a habit of trying to understand women's perspective (he cross-dresses twice for this for some reason), he's cross-dressed 3 different times despite not needing too, before meeting Haru it could be said that he is basically trying to be ungendered and asexual, also his struggle with his body and desires are very easy to read as trans coded.
He affirms himself as a guy exactly once, and it's basically just him trying to conform to heterosexuality because that's how he thinks things should be (he thinks being attracted to a girl is proof that he is a boy/man). Like he explicitly states that he thinks that this (attraction to Haru) proves that he is a boy, which is weird for a male character to do, all things considered.
As for some fanarts of it, I really like these. Because yeah, she'd totally dress like a grandmother if she could.
Pic 1, Pic 2, Pic 3
And for some fanfiction, this is a really cute little fic
the whole idea of âgenital preferencesâ feels like a way to degrade women (including cis women) tbh.
like I remember being a young dyke who was closeted and wanted to date girls but being so scared I was wrong, because I was seeing constant jokes and media hammering the idea that you might Think you like women, you might like Kissing women, but until you taste a vulva then you can never know for sure (so you shouldnât risk it, since you donât want to lead anyone on, better to never have queer sex). all these narratives showing âstraightâ girls getting that far and then realizing with disgust and horror that they are innately, Categorically Not Into Women because they do not enjoy a specific sex act with a specific genital configuration (because obviously thatâs the only Real Lesbian way to fuck /s). and then returning to the âsafetyâ of dating cis men.
and like the exact same thing applies to women with penises too. this idea that, well you might Think youâre attracted to her, you might like kissing her, but until you go down on her (cause obviously all sex with trans women involves contact with her penis /s) then you can never know for sure (so you shouldnât risk it, since you donât want to lead anyone on, better to never have sex with trans women). thereâs an even greater volume of media and narratives, even more viscerally and violently, portraying peopleâs disgust at trans womenâs privates, and then returning to the âsafetyâ of dating cis people.
& itâs like hm, so weâre never questioning whether the constant misogynistic messaging about womenâs genitals (literally no matter what they are!) is perhaps part of the reason people are socially incentivized to feel and express disgust towards them? no connection there? genitals are all just innately disgusting when theyâre On Women and thats just a normal biological thing that has nothing to do with any social influence. itâs just biology that queer & trans women are disgusting? thereâs no connection between people receiving constant messaging that performing oral sex on women is gross and the âorgasm gapâ and the statistical reality that lesbians (cis and trans) tend to come out later in their lives than gay men & are more afraid of sexual rejection? none of that is related. Okay đ
I'll also say that at least trans women, having professional and amateur media either being really against pre-op/non-op trans women's bodies or so into them that it'd just cut and dry fetishisation feels like it makes things so much worse.
At least with cis women's genitals there's been like multiple attempts to stop people from being weird about it since like the 70's and before, and generally is like something that feminism pushed back against as relatively standard belief for a long time.
This is mostly just to make sure my F/F goggles aren't strapped on too tight, because I really can and have seen sapphic potentiality everywhere.
But Sunni and Calla's interactions in the show scream "we're feeling something that could be romantic but we're currently too young/too embedded in a world where queer people aren't around to know that" right?
Like every episode that they're together they're like two magnetic needles pointing right at each other?
Based, I'd really love to see Sunni and Calla grow up and fall in love, I recently re-watched the episode where Calla and Sunni meet (the magic hat episode) and the quickness in which they embrace each other. Sunni already thought she was amazing because shes a princess, but i could easily see that interest as an undiscovered crush that sunni just treats as friendship because... well what else could it be! They're both young, and the gummis isolation from humanity isnt helping, but as time goes on they could absolutely make a lovely pairing
Don't you worry, the goggles are strapped tight against my head (after all I've already written two fics about them, Dreams and sleepovers and Burn Marks, with more on the way). Honestly the wild thing is that after the magic hat episode, Calla and Sunni are like "My best friend, best friend in the whole world, my bestie" about each other in basically every episode they share. Even the one where they get mad at each other has multiple times in it that both risk death to save each other, as well as keep the Gummi Bears existence a secret.
And it's not the usual girl best friends that you find in most kids cartoons. There's no times where they fight over boys affections, no times they're envious (besides Sunni generally wanting to be a princess) of each other, at best there's one episode where they get shitty at each other but like they get over it real fast.
Sure Sunni is supposed to like Gusto (but like, I really think it's mostly that Gusto is the only bear in his like 20's she's ever met and the only one she doesn't immediately think of as Family).
Anyway, glad I'm not alone in seeing the potential.

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a sapphic ask game for ur sapphic ask game needs
are you beating the uhaul allegations? (be honest.)
do you identify as butch, femme, masc, and/or gnc? or none of the above?
how did you realize you were sapphic?
who is/was your most intense sapphic crush?
do you consider yourself a dyke?
are you good at picking up on when people are flirting with you, or do you tend to be more oblivious?
have you ever crushed on a straight girl?
what's your relationship status? are you happy about it?
do you have a "type"? if so, what is it?
did you do anything gay as a kid that makes sense when you look back on your childhood?
what are some good sapphic songs/music artists?
good sapphic books/poems/authors?
good sapphic movies/shows?
list five things you look for in a partner, or five things you love about your current partner(s).
are you the gay cousin?
do you consider being sapphic a big part of your identity?
how many people have you dated? talk about them if you want!
thoughts on e-dating or long distance? have you ever done it? how did it go?
describe your fashion sense. do you "dress gayly"?
do you consider yourself to be a good kisser?
are you generally "out" to people?
how do you feel about valentine's day?
do you like being referred to with masculine adjectives, feminine adjectives, both, or neither?
thoughts on marriage?
have you ever gone to a pride parade?
do you read yuri manga?
do you fit any sapphic stereotypes / other stereotypes related to your identity?
what's a canon sapphic ship you enjoy?
how about a non-canon sapphic ship?
who's your favorite sapphic character?
LEAST favorite sapphic character?
tell a funny story about something really gay you've done.
do you get crushes/fall in love easily?
who's a sapphic person you look up to? they can be someone in your life, a historical figure, a celebrity, etc!
if you could tell your younger sapphic self anything, what would it be?
you see so much in the UK that the people who are most motivated in the communist movement get driven away from marxist parties by regressive attitudes within them. the two most notable ML parties in the UK are virulently transphobic and politely transphobic in turn. a quicky growing Maoist party collapsed entirely the other year after suppressing complaints of racism (amongst other factors.) anecdotally, I've also heard from women who left an ML party after always being given cleanup duty after meetings and being subjected to other constant low level sexism
uplifting the most oppressed within the movement isn't a distraction from "the real work" of the communist movement, it's an essential part of keeping oppressed groups active within it. if you think you can build the movement with only the least oppressed workers, and the handful of racialised, queer, women, and disabled people who can stomach constant prejudice, you're already sabotaging yourself before you've begun. the struggle for revolution doesn't only happen during revolutionary moments, where the mass of people is so dissatisfied that they revolt and the state's usual methods of governance have failed. the overwhelming majority of revolutionary struggle happens in the years, or decades, leading up to that, where we slowly and steadily build the leadership infrastructure, educate the proletariat, and sabotage the state where we can. when you ignore chauvinism within the party, you're hobbling your ability to operate through 99 percent of the revolutionary process
From my understand the most prominent troskist group in the UK had to deal with this problem nearly a decade ago, but it bares reminding.
You need to do away with regressive attitudes to build the movement.
You need to be anti-misogynist, anti-racist, anti-xenophobic, anti-queerphobic, ect and basically against the many forms of oppression the ruling class use to divide the working class. This cannot wait till after the revolution, it has to happen now, currently.
Marx and Engles were wrong to homophobic and paternally misogynist, and would fucking hate you sabotaging the movement towards communism because you were getting to hung up on their bigotry as somehow integral to historical materialism and the destruction of capitalism.
Trans people of Tumblr. If you could go back in time to when it all sorta started for you, that first time you went out in those clothes, the first time you had that moment of trying to be yourself and not just hidden away in your room, what would you say to yourself?
I'll start: "Don't let anxiety distract you from having fun" "Your outfit looks fine, stop worrying." "Your friends love you."
"You are gonna end up looking quite hot eventually, I know it seems impossible now, but you can actually look good."
"You dont realize how much of you there is, and how much happier you will be. Learn about yourself. For the first time in your life, you get to live. Enjoy life."
Sorry for posting your tags but I do think these things are important to share
You're not immune from your tags being posted with heartfelt words like that
"please enjoy this. You aren't going to be found out. Your friends are here to support you. The wig looks good on you, and one day you wont need it, you'll have gorgeous pretty curls of your own one day. Also stop tucking it hurts and it's just going to make you uncomfortable and paranoid. I love you "
"I know it's scary but it's so worth it in ways you can't begin to imagine" "you got this"
"Hey, I know it feels impossible to know if the grass is greener on the other side right now, and I know you're scared. That's okay. Here can be scary, but we'll only know something else if we keep moving. I promise there will be people who still love you, even when it doesn't feel like it. Do it scared. Do it knowing the only way to escape this kind of fear, this kind of shame, is change. Please know that you're worth it, and you deserve a chance at happiness. I truly mean that. Good luck, little gender terrorist. đ"
my first time wearing a dress in public felt like an impossible feat. it was scary and felt like i was doing something wrong.
the first time i used the women's bathroom was the same way.
but the first time someone called me "miss" or pointed me to the women's restroom when i asked made it all melt away because it was worth it. it's always worth it being true to yourself.
There's a million reasons you can come up with to stay in the closet, but once you come out the only regret you'll have is waiting so long
Ahh nothing heartfelt on this one but;
"The government isn't going to take away your benefit or student allowance because you start to transition (that's a silly thought in 2016 in NZ), You start now and in less than 6 months you can change your name and pronouns basically everywhere and in like a year and a half (going through the public system) you could be on estrogen"
This isn't trans related but "Fucking look up the dental school and go there - you need to start taking better care of your teeth."
a core part of being on tumblr is watching the site kick itself in the dick
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bring back tumblr ask culture let me. bother you with questions and statements
reblog to let people know it's ok to bother you with questions and statements
for $1 name your favourite fictional lesbian. and no "straight female character popularly fanonized as a lesbian" or "this male character is a lesbian to me" allowed
My latest fic, which is a sexting fic between aged up Octavia and Loona from Helluva Boss in an AU where Stolas and Blitz never meet up again after that one day as children is out, so Loona and Octavia never met each other as the daughters of their fathers, only themselves.
It's got smut, it's got a story within a story and it's got masturbation. As well as chat logs (also auto-fellatio, fingering and a cloaca for all you bird lovers).
An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works
It's also almost 9000 words long for some reason (the story within the story takes up nearly 3K worth of space)
Check it out.
I still don't know my purpose on this planet but I do love reading fanfiction.
trying to read an old discontinued leather dyke mag from the 90s and seeing an article describing trans misogyny within lesbian events/spaces was really refreshing. While she did not outright use the term trans misogyny, as this would be a term that would later come to fruition in 2007 (Julia Serano's Whipping Girl), what she was explaining was in fact trans misogyny.
She talks of a leather dyke event ran by trans men who's rule was that no trans women were allowed.
People today will say " x group has always been welcome in the lesbian community" and then fail to understand WHY that is. You can see the WHY with who they chose to exclude every time.
The mag I was reading was talking about a lesbian only conference and the event runners were saying they aren't going to police people's gender identity and never will, however quote, "if you can't slam your dick in a drawer and walk away, then the (kink events they were hosting) aren't for you." And the x group in question let that happen, happily went into these lesbian and women only spaces that openly excluded specific groups of women, and left trans women in the dust in the process. In fact, as told in this section of the magazine I was reading, when the few trans women would show up and try to speak, everyone would become hostile towards her despite listening so attentively towards trans men previously.
It's just crazy that in the big 2025 this still happens. Everyone wanna talk about "read queer history" "get offline and learn your history" until the history shows a very clear pattern of something that they were ignoring. Even as we have a better term to describe what this is today, that being trans misogyny + trans misongynoir, a certain group (you know exactly who. Hint: not trans women) will say that we should all just "stop infighting" when this part of our history is brought up, and even when it's brought up as an issue today. But what happened to learn queer history? Or is it only useful when it benefits you?
Lesbian spaces should always include trans women, these spaces are for them. They have every right to be here, they are more than entitled to these spaces. I don't trust any lesbian spaces or conversations around lesbianism that view trans acceptance as something only TMEs are entitled to.
I will leave this right here:
The autobiographies of MTFs are different from mine, but I still want to hear their stories. I do not believe they are simply "men dressed as women," as I heard someone contemptuously label them at last year's event. If someone has always felt intense discomfort in their body and is unable to meet others' expectations of "gender appropriate" behavior, to what extent was that person ever a "real man" or "real woman"? I think MTF dykes have earned the right to be part of my community. Not every MTF is my close personal friend or somebody I'd want to sleep with, but they certainly are not the enemy.
- Who is My Sister? Powersurge and the limits of our community. written by Pat Califa
the magazine in question is venus infers; volume 1, number 1 (thank you, internet archive user Michael Sonntag)
initially, i thought this text wasn't online anywhere. searches on jstor and google books and also regular google found me a number of citations, including in Zachary I Nataf's Lesbians Talk Transgender, and C. Jacob Hale's Leatherdyke Boys and Their Daddies: How to Have Sex without Women or Men, but not the text itself. it is lucky i thought to search the internet archive directly once i'd discovered what the magazine was
i would encourage people who want to improve the tumblr userbase's literacy of queer history to make it as easy as possible to find that history. that way they can verify your claims about it, and discuss it further if they want. it's really easy to lie in images of text, and it's suspicious to conspicuously avoid naming the publication you're reading from
anyway. in addition to the historical interest (of which there is much), here's another reason to read this article:
reading through the article there are a few points to clarify. (warning for outdated language from 1993)
(1) the event was not run by trans men. it was run by "leather dykes" though i would call them lesbian TERFs myself
(quote "As leather dykes we have had very little opportunity on a national or international scale to dialogue. We intend for this conference to facilitate that dialogue and to also increase our networking capabilities.")
(2) the article not only describes observing bigotry towards trans woman but also bisexual woman, non-binary people, intersex people, and yes also trans men.
(quote "POWERSURGE is open to and welcomes women born women leatherdykes (chromosomal [XX] females only). If you canât slam your dick in a drawer and walk away, this conference is not open to you. Just a reminder that leatherdykes come in various forms. You may see butches with shaved legs or femmes with facial hair. Please keep an open mind.")
lets break it down slowly
biphobia
(quote "Do lesbians behave differently when they know bi women are around? Probably. But you canât really make bisexual leather women stay away from a conference. You can only force them to be silent about their true identities. Bisexuals are active in every level of our community, and we have a common cause with them. Bisexuals are not closeted homosexuals or heterosexual spies in queer mufti. Even the March on Washington got over their biphobia (well, some of it, anyway).
My lover identifies as bisexual. On the street, she gets called a dyke at least as often as I do. Her family disowned her for being queer. Do I have to leave the woman I love at home before I can come to a lesbian event?")
(quote "Iâve had less straight sex than many women who call themselves dykes today. But some women have told me that my history disqualifies me from admission to Powersurge.")
exosexism
(quote "[The state, the medical] establishment, my family, and my community have absolutely no right to tell me how I should feel about the body I was born with, whether or not I can change it to be more comfortable with it, or whether I want to be called âher,â âhim,â or both/neither.")
intersexism
(quote "Itâs been estimated that 10% of babies are born with anomalous external genitals. That does not include the people who are born with hormonal or genetic differences that make them hidden hermaphrodites. Doctors decide whether these babies will be perceived as and raised as little girls or little boys. Sometimes they surgically alter the child. Our society literally does not permit gender-ambiguous people to exist.")
bigotry towards trans men
(quote "are [FTMs] aware that the Outer Limits' policy implies that they can never make a transition to their gender of preference?")
(quote "Why is the lesbian community solely responsible for giving FTMs a refuge? Many FTMs claim they would prefer to occupy the gay menâs leather community. So why arenât leathermen being confronted with this issue? Why arenât the gay boys being told they have to get over their bigotry about transsexuality and welcome gay-identified FTMs as brothers? Is it because gay men are even more rigid about gender than dykes? If so, I want FTMs to stop bitching about how awful the lesbian community has been to them."
(quote "Some of the FTMs who spoke chose to soft-pedal their current gender identity and label themselves as being âin betweenâ or âexperimentingâ with a male image when in fact they are living and working as men full-time and intend to get as much surgery as they can afford. This is hard to say because many of these folks are my friends, but I felt I was being told some lies.")
(3) the author is a trans man but op refer to him using she/her pronouns.
(Wikipedia article titled 'Patrick Califia' reading "Patrick Califia (born 1954), formerly also known as Pat Califia and by the last name Califia-Rice, is an American writer of non-fiction essays about sexuality and of erotic fiction and poetry. Califia is a bisexual trans man. Prior to transitioning, Califia was a lesbian and wrote for many years a sex advice column for the gay men's leather magazine Drummer. His writings explore sexuality and gender identity, and have included lesbian erotica and works about BDSM subculture. Califia is a member of the third-wave feminism movement.")
Overall the article read as anti-TERF while talking about the broad range of bigotry present in the 1992 queer community (with a focus on lesbian spaces as that is where the author frequented)
The authors stance (at the time) was that trans men should not be allowed at lesbian only events (but acknowledged that gender can be blurry and it would be best that trans men identify themselves rather than other people policing them), trans women should be included as they are women, bi woman should be included as they are WLW, and non-binary and intersex people who are WLW should be included.
after reading the article i concluded that Patrick seems like a cool guy and i'll probably be reading more or his work

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actually making this a post on its own because im tired and pissed. stop treating Fucking Trans Women like itâs the holy bible of transfem sex. i do not want to be treated like a vaginaless sub bottom and i DEFINITELY do not want my balls shoved around and fingered carelessly. that zine is great for lots of reasons but many of you have simply traded one narrow and incomplete view of transfeminine sex for another.
many trans women have bottom dysphoria so bad they cannot even get naked. many trans women do not want their genitals acknowledged At All. many trans women are post-op, whether thatâs one of multiple kinds of vaginoplasty, or nullification. many more trans women do not like bottoming, or anal at all, or subbing, or perineum play, or arenât on HRT and lack the estrogen-induced nerve reformatting that you seem to assume of every trans woman. you simply CANNOT condense sex with us into a few narrow views, whether itâs transmisogynistic comptop or muffing mania. i am sick and tired of seeing people treat us as sexual monoliths no matter what.
âpenetrate her anally!â âno, finger her taint and call her equipment a clit!â SHUT UP. YOU ARE GOING TO ASK THE GIRL DIRECTLY WHAT SHE WANTS TO DO AND HOW SHE WANTS TO FUCK. IF SHE CANNOT GIVE YOU A DEFINITIVE ANSWER DUE TO LACK OF EXPERIENCE, YOU WILL BE ASKING HER AT EVERY. FUCKING. TURN. WHETHER OR NOT SHE LIKES WHAT YOU ARE DOING. AND IF SHE DOES NOT LIKE IT? YOU STOP. FUCK ALL OF YOU.
trying to read an old discontinued leather dyke mag from the 90s and seeing an article describing trans misogyny within lesbian events/spaces was really refreshing. While she did not outright use the term trans misogyny, as this would be a term that would later come to fruition in 2007 (Julia Serano's Whipping Girl), what she was explaining was in fact trans misogyny.
She talks of a leather dyke event ran by trans men who's rule was that no trans women were allowed.
People today will say " x group has always been welcome in the lesbian community" and then fail to understand WHY that is. You can see the WHY with who they chose to exclude every time.
The mag I was reading was talking about a lesbian only conference and the event runners were saying they aren't going to police people's gender identity and never will, however quote, "if you can't slam your dick in a drawer and walk away, then the (kink events they were hosting) aren't for you." And the x group in question let that happen, happily went into these lesbian and women only spaces that openly excluded specific groups of women, and left trans women in the dust in the process. In fact, as told in this section of the magazine I was reading, when the few trans women would show up and try to speak, everyone would become hostile towards her despite listening so attentively towards trans men previously.
It's just crazy that in the big 2025 this still happens. Everyone wanna talk about "read queer history" "get offline and learn your history" until the history shows a very clear pattern of something that they were ignoring. Even as we have a better term to describe what this is today, that being trans misogyny + trans misongynoir, a certain group (you know exactly who. Hint: not trans women) will say that we should all just "stop infighting" when this part of our history is brought up, and even when it's brought up as an issue today. But what happened to learn queer history? Or is it only useful when it benefits you?
Lesbian spaces should always include trans women, these spaces are for them. They have every right to be here, they are more than entitled to these spaces. I don't trust any lesbian spaces or conversations around lesbianism that view trans acceptance as something only TMEs are entitled to.
I will leave this right here:
The autobiographies of MTFs are different from mine, but I still want to hear their stories. I do not believe they are simply "men dressed as women," as I heard someone contemptuously label them at last year's event. If someone has always felt intense discomfort in their body and is unable to meet others' expectations of "gender appropriate" behavior, to what extent was that person ever a "real man" or "real woman"? I think MTF dykes have earned the right to be part of my community. Not every MTF is my close personal friend or somebody I'd want to sleep with, but they certainly are not the enemy.
- Who is My Sister? Powersurge and the limits of our community. written by Pat Califa