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finally searched for a solution and there IS in fact a giant hand-curated list of sites containing this content. it can be imported to ublock origin on desktop or mobile, and even can be used on iOS via the ublacklist extension in the safari app. it's updated regularly, and importing via the link as described should allow those updates to go into effect automatically.

i've only tested it a little bit, but after importing the list and repeating my duckduckgo search for backpack recommendations, my top results now lead to websites that appear to be linked to actual organizations in some form, with an "about us" page and the name of a founder and everything. the text is still often a bit wordy and SEO-optimized, but it now has actual recommendations that are relevant to the query. BIG IF TRUE???

No shirt, no bra, completely bare torso, just like cis men are allowed to

It's about desexualizing breasts and "female presenting nipples" and not being criminalized for our bodies if we want to go topless because it's a million damn degrees out. This was a popular growing movement that was still widely known a decade ago!

I’ve had sketches get censored on this platform that suggest a boob and a femme form, and literally the next page down is the chest of a guy, way more detailed, and that’s fine.

I also got yelled at for wearing a mid drift to work (which was very nice it was just short), as this wasn’t “business casual” and was deeply inappropriate. I got written up for this and talked down to by my boss, who loves to extol her progressive beliefs. All the while my male coworker was told his distressed zip up hoodie was fine when he asked about it.

Some leaders chose to highlight the cruelty of their oppressors by remaining calm or peaceful when encountering abuse (like mentioned in the post about sit-ins), speaking directly to the audience of the general public, while others chose to highlight their strength and defense of their communities, speaking directly to those that wished them harm (like the BPP open carry demonstrations) or to communicate that support and defense to their own communities (like the famous BPP free breakfast program, or free sickle cell anemia testing programs).

it's okay to not flag black people's selfies as mature 💕

you don't have to reinstate that kiwifarmer 💞

you can leave that trans woman alone ❤️

you don't have to make the most horrendous ui updates possible as soon as people's muscle memory starts to kick in 💓

you can leave that trans woman alone 🩵

it's okay to give a human reaponse to people's ban appeals in a reasonable timeframe 💗

you don't have to ban that mother from gaza trying to fundraise for her family 💝

it's okay to ban blogs dedicated to stalking that trans woman online 💛

yes you can leave that trans woman alone too 🩷 no her selfie isn't sexually explicit content

you can bring back the fast queue button. i believe in you 💜

it's okay to *cough* replace your ceo 🤍

please remember to leave that black woman alone 🧡 yes and her girlfriend too, it's okay 💚

i promise you don't have to reblog that genocide apologist on the staff account 🩶

trans and intersex education isn't sexually explicit content 💛

you can leave that trans woman alone 💖

you can leave that black person alone 💖

The Rodeo Rule: you only have to do it for the first time once.

The Rohan Rule: if you are at a social function full of new people and you want to be liked, find someone doing important work like setup or food prep and offer to help.

The Tutorial Mode Rule: to navigate an unfamiliar situation where you fear you will mess up an interaction, preface the interaction by mentioning that you've never done this before, and let them know if you have a specific concern or question.

The Rocket Science Rule: most new things you want to try seem very complicated but are simple when taken step by step.

The [X] Will Remember That Rule: if you need to make small talk with the same person on a regular basis, try to save one fact or current event in their life from a given conversation and bring it up next time you talk.

Call me whatever names you wish, but I think this is a much better (and healthier) attitude than “anyone under 18 should never be allowed to see any sexual imagery ever”

(For reference: this was at the Tom of Finland exhibition, containing actual, queer, kinky af pornography. There were definitely some young people there, perhaps in their late teens. There was even a parent with their baby who was probably too young to understand anything at all. And guess what, all those people are probably going to be fine.)

my daughter cannot, through action or inaction, harm a human or allow a human to come to harm

a daughter at rest or in constant motion remains at rest or in constant motion unless acted upon by another force

daughters are never created or destroyed, only transformed

always treat every daughter as loaded, even if you know she isn't

7. You can fold my daughter through any two points.

10. When two or more daughters are offered for a phenomenon, the simplest daughter is preferable.

11. Any sufficiently advanced daughter is indistinguishable from magic.

12. Without a clear indicator of intent, it is utterly impossible to parody my daughter without someone mistaking it for the genuine article.

15. As internet discourse grows longer, the probability of a comparison to my daughter approaches near certainty.

16. Anything that can go daughter will go daughter

Pops across decades..

Why might someone from a group of people that historically have been denied access to wealth, now brag that they have it?

“Rappers only talk about sex!”

Why might someone from a group that have historically been denied sexual autonomy now brag about their sexual escapades on their own terms?

“Rappers only talk about drugs and crime!”