My parents went to a state school for both their undergrad & Masterās degrees and paid no tuition. None. Zero. It was a state school, they were residents of the state, they paid no tuition. They paid for books, housing, and activity fees, and they could do that on their college jobs. (My mother had to, because her father refused to pay for any of her schooling since āgirls only leave school and just get married so it would be a waste.ā)
My dad worked for the federal government after he and Mom both got their Masterās degrees. Mom had all three of us and stayed home with us full-time. We lived in a 3 bedroom house in the suburbs and when my brother was a baby, my mom started going back to school at night. I remember pretty clearly my dad heating up the breast milk from the freezer for Jakeās dinner because Mom was at classes.
In 1988, my mom finished her Ph.D. in mathematics. So, to be clear, my dadās job ā just a rando mid-level federal job ā covered food and clothes for 3 kids, the mortgage, the bills, and Momās college expenses. We were broke as hell when I was young ā Mom made our clothes, grew food in the backyard, and did everything she could to stretch every dime ā but at the end of it, Mom got her job as a college professor, got tenure (almost impossible today), and did it without piles and piles of inescapable college debt. We moved to Northeast PA, they bought their house, which was 4 years old when we bought it, for about Ā¼ of what itās worth today.
When I had @mistresskabooms 23 years ago, we were able to rent a townhouse & cover our expenses so that I could stay home, and on what? MKās dad tending bar and both of us working at the Renaissance Faire in season. I was able to stay home and take care of MK for the first three years of her life, which means she got the advantages of spending a lot of time with her parents, she got to be breastfed (which is better for kids immune systems if possible, and kids who are in daycare tend to stop breastfeeding sooner), she wasnāt exposed to tons of germs from being in daycare, etc. Now, for part of that time we had our partner living with us, but not the whole time ā some of it we did fully on our own. Itās next to impossible to do that now, if not fully impossible, for a family to survive like that.
Even ten years ago, it was possible, if difficult, for Emet to cover our mortgage and living expenses on a job that she got with a āsome collegeā education when I had a tumor in my spine and was getting and recovering from surgery. Thereās no way we could do that now with what mortgage processors make.
For all the āthis is what they took from youā white supremacist bullshit, this is what was actually taken from you. Economic stability. A fucking economic future.
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