BOOMSHAKALAKA!

Stop allowing people to pop in and out of your life as they please; one moment they want you, next moment they don’t. If they can’t make up their mind whether or not they want to be your friend or not, whatever the case may be; you need to make up their mind for them. Tell them what it is..tell them another time may not exist next time ~ because this push and pull technique is dismantling.

When you are there, they don’t respect you or your time, they treat you like trash... and do anything and everything to push.

As soon as you walk away and start to know your worth and love yourself, they say the right things.. because they know the voids in your life. They know exactly how to secure your insecurities; they say they miss you ~ they know how to make you feel loved. So they say all of this to pull you back and as soon as you get back what happens? they push you away. 

You loose yourself in the process. Now you look yourself in the mirror and you don’t know who you are. You became who they wanted you to be instead of who you needed YOU to be. 

Never feel guilty for cutting someone off. Never feel guilty for not giving another chance. Some people deserve a second and even a third chance. But remember this, the more chances you give someone, the less respect the other person will have for you. They know no matter how they treat you or what they do, another chance will always exist.

Sometimes you have to tell them that they would never have to be afraid to  loose you but also that you are not afraid to walk away. If they keep treating you they way they do, another chance may not exist. And you have to stand by this. Because if you don’t, people will never take you seriously.. people will never respect you.If there are no consequences for treating you like trash, they will keep treating you like that.

Current 3:

- photography

- gym

You got out of bed today.

You did your dishes or dirty laundry.

You finished some homework you’ve been putting off.

You cleaned up around your home/apartment/dorm etc.

You found a reason to smile.