My husband is dead. I don't want to remarry. I onl

OP do you still have the original image. Would you be willing to share it.

oh and another thing that devastates me about Obsession is how much nikki is judged and blamed by those around her. sarah and ian repeatedly telling bear that he shouldn’t have to deal with her, that she’s not his responsibility, that they’re worried she’s taking advantage of him. as if they aren’t also her friends, as if they shouldn’t know her well enough to notice something is off. there’s no concern for why nikki is behaving the way she is, there’s just distain towards it. she starts acting out of character and so it must all be intentional. but bear doesn’t get questioned. bear isn’t gossiped about. nikki loses all her agency and autonomy, and all she gets for it is judgment

in europe "anti-immigrant riot" is what they call attempted pogrom these days

if you don’t want to change then you won’t change, except that’s not really how it works. you don’t change for the better, but you aren’t exactly the same person as you were the day before. (you don’t change for the better, but you change nonetheless). maybe you’re a little more bitter; maybe your bark and bite get a little harder to distinguish; maybe you care a little less. (you don’t care about changing, so you change anyway and your don’t care enough to notice, so you think that you aren’t changing, but you still aren’t the same). the world thinks the same thing. it can’t see that it’s changing how it holds itself together, but it change nonetheless. the sofa didn’t look like that before; the window has melted into the wall; the carpet isn’t where it used to be. (that face is not the same face that it was). the world didn’t mean for that to happen, but it’s what happens when you don’t realise that you can’t not change. clark changed. the world changes. they didn’t mean to

I lowkey hate when programs talk to me in a friendly way. "don't worry, nearly there!" Shut up. It should say "loading 64.3% completed. Do not turn off device" and absolutely nothing else. You arent my friend you are computer. Act like it

i think every publisher should have to institute a ban on books that fail what i’m calling the “little life” and “what else?” tests

I need him

WHY THE FUCK DOES EVERYONE WANNA BE LITTLE GIRLS ITS PISSING ME OFF BE A GROWN WOMAN. NOW