Most feminists would agree with:

'if men experienced periods there'd be mandatory education on it' 'no one would ever do this to MEN's genitalia (when talking about FGM' 'if men had to give birth it would be considered equal in sacrifice to war'

Because, the category of trans man is so incredibly erased from people's heads that they dont even register when making these statements. A lot of transphobes (specifically the tmen hating kind) use this against trans men by dropping the trans in 'trans men': 'We've already established in basic feminism that trans men dont have to' 'You want us to consider that trans men might experience misogyny in ways other groups dont?!?' 'Everyone knows the healthcare industry revolves around trans men why would you say that phalloplasty having three times the complication rate of vaginoplasty might be to do with misogyny?!?'

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"This is my version of episode X..."

"This is the ideal sequel we all deserved to have..."

Fanfiction. You wrote fanfiction. Just say you wrote fanfiction, because that is what you did. No matter how well though out it is, how many plot holes you covered, how much better than the original you think your work is, you did fanfiction.

I'd probably have called her my best friend at the time, though I very much doubt she'd have said the same, partly because having One Single Best Friend and being super weird about which of your friends gets this coveted spot is not something middle-aged people care about.

Chrisker Week day 2: Mind Control

I hope the lighting on this looks ok 😖

but I'm hearing there's a NSFW-friendly ko-fi alternative built on atproto that's actively in the works, and being vetted by lawyers right now. as torrent-princess (OP) says, you should be able to swap out payment processors while keeping your account intact. this matters since even if stripe removes support, you'll still have a shop and all of your links intact. (ATproto is an infrastructure that bsky is built on, but is far bigger than bsky with far more opportunities.)

additionally, the Free Speech Coalition is working on a credit union specifically for adult work (including kink art) - here's the link so you can add your interest & support. Since this will be built by sex workers, there'll be far less risk of being debanked for spurious and puritanical reasons.

on a domain TLD level, there's an initiative here for a .furry domain built from the ground up by seasoned furries; it's unclear whether they'll support NSFW, but it's yet another promising turn of events for a group that's been similarly affected by censorship.

I'm not dating or married or related to anyone I live with, and our household of four adults can't get any kind of financial or food or housing aid because we count as three separate households despite our semi-blended finances and living together for a decade. There are laws that have been proposed (at least, I don't know if any passed) that limit housing to nuclear families.

Here are all the relationship types we currently have built-in to fanfiction.lol