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ASTRO OBSERVATIONS

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Astro observations #2

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ASTRO STORY

Astro story #1

FYI

Soulmates or pluto obsession?

Lillith in a man's chart

Eros in virgo is not what you think

LILLITH

Lillith + Pluto synastry and progressed synastry

COMPOSITE

What is the composite chart?

Moon through houses part1

Moon through houses part2

Venus through houses part1

ASK

Ask #1 - Juno question

Ask #2 - 12th synastry

ABOUT ME

Hello my friends! Deepvelvet here! I love astrology, studying for 12 years now, i love helping people understand their charts! You can send me your astro story so i can help you! Do it because i love, i don't work with that.

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Please, do not send the chart in the same ASK box that your question.

Make an objective question about the matter, or just use the space to write about your experience and share with ALL of us.

- If you have questions, make it objective.

- If you just want to share your story, make sure you will tell us what aspects played out in the experience.

MASTERLIST

The composite chart is a chart made of the midpoints of two natal charts. It represents the energy this two people manifests together through their relationship, of any kind. It's like when we often say:

"This person makes me want to do certain things i wouldn't if alone"

"I usually don't share my feelings very often, but i can do this with this person"

"I just spilled out an intimate story and it was so natural i didn't even realize it".

"That's the chart of this two people as one. What they do together, how they do it."

A lot of people say that, since it's a midpoint method, you don't look at the signs or ASC, but to the houses. In my experience, that's not an opinion I share about the composite. I find the planets, ASC and MC really important to the interpretation of the whole and playing a great deal of the importance and meaning of the chart.

In synastry we find the planets talking about HOW, and the houses talking about WHERE. I believe in composite charts we have more of a mix of this things, so the house will talk about HOW we blend in the things of that specific planet, what we agree and what we don't. What we value in regards to the planet matter. The sign of the planet will give flavour and a more deep understanding of How this energy feels for them.

A couple who has venus and moon in 2th, will center they shared vales and feelings in the material world. But If this 2th is in, let's say, Pisces, we have a whole other world to take into account. Maybe they know they have those shared values but they float around If this is really the same point of view. They can change their mind a lot with pisces. And 2th+pisces is so cuddling in bed. Or even, on a more negative side, dealing with drugs. On the material world. Like a partner that smokes, and the other doesn't like it. One or both of them dealing with alcohol issues that will very much play a part in the relationship. That's a flavour we can't see just looking at the houses.

Composite sun: the relationship’s ego, vitality, identity and core focus

Composite moon: the relationship’s emotional expression and intuition 

Composite Mercury: the relationship’s mental processing and communication style

Composite Venus: the relationship’s love language(s), relationship/commitment style, aesthetic and financial mindset

Composite Mars: the relationship’s ambition, drive, sexual energy and fighting style

Composite Jupiter: the relationship’s journey, luck and abundance

Composite Saturn: the relationship’s restrictions, boundaries, maturity, long term goals and karmic lessons

Composite Uranus: the relationship’s innovation, uniqueness and instability

Composite Neptune: the relationship’s escapism, fantasy and spiritual essence

Composite Pluto: the relationship’s transformation, power dynamics and control dynamics

You can all expect me to focus on composite at the next couple of weeks. And edits in this post as well with your questions and doubts about the composite chart dynamic.

COMPOSITE CHART ON ASTRO-CHARTS

COMPOSITE CHART ON ASTRODIENST

Extended chart selecion > composite chart midpoint method

COMPOSITE CHART ON ASTRO-SEEK

COMPOSITE CHART ON ASTROTHEME

MOON THROUGH COMPOSITE HOUSES PART1

MOON THROUGH COMPOSITE HOUSES PART2

MASTERLIST

1th: Really common place in romantic partnerships. They appreciate each other physically. They think the other is beautiful. Combined sense of what we want to see in each other as physical qualities, the actions they are going to take about their preferences in general. The things that are appealing to each of them are very much in tune, so they can agree on good tastes, where they want to go out, what turns them on and what motivates them. Shared activities. That's a great placement to those agreements and not have fights around this. If this venus have some dificult aspects to pluto, saturn can have frictions but the agreements are still there. We can have these dificult narratives going on and still have the ease of this venus placement.

2th: Agreements in regards to money, where the money goes, how they will decorate their home, what type of house they will live in, what kind of arts they will buy or make together. It's a very natural place for venus. They agree on investments. They can share fashion sense and like the same beauty concepts. It's wonderful for people that work together and couple will feel that senses in common between them.

Edit1: it's a wonderful place for those who make art in general, because the other person supports their art and inspire them. Works so well in work and business relationships too.

3th: The shared pleasure seeking is very much centered in mental things. Shared opinions about the type of facts that they will focus on. It's a cerebral venus, not very common in romantic relationships. But there's a lot to share when it comes to world events, small talk, appreciate each other's point of view, even if it's diferent, It will be always intresting to learn about. They love this in this placement. They can feel their mind appreciated. Free will of opinions, thoughts and ideas.

4th: Same intimate preferences. Same needs for solitude or quiet. They love being REALLY close though. This couple love being home watching movies, sitting by the fire, cuddling and inviting friends over. They are more private in general about their life together.

MASTERLIST

PART 1

6th: This is a more difficult placement for the moon in composite, since it comes a lot of times with bickering and critisism of each other, keeping score, looking at the little things. So it tends to be more judgement of each other and feeling we are in service of each other, in some fashion. Its not the most romantic place to have composite moon but the two people can focus on tasks very well if we have the moon well aspected. Their ideas of improvement are not quite similar, when it has hard aspects to it. So the emotional energy this two people create it's based on how they will do improvement out of their individual lives, their couple dynamic and their response to the envoiroment. We can feel less accepted.

"Sometimes i don't understand your way of feeling things, but we can think through how to focus on getting common ground."

7th: Both people can feel deeply emotionally compatible. They feel assured by the other person. One of the most beneficial places to have composite moon because this two people relate with each other in a relationship context. They are looking for the same kind of environment within the relationship itself. It's easy to relate, to bond, to have support, to feel that the other person is looking for the same things in a context of a relationship.

"The echo moon - one of them send out a vibe and the other receives and send the same kind of vibe back"

8th: It's a very complex placement for the composite moon. So in that case, you will want to look at both natal moon as see how they are aspected and how their personal 8th house or plutonic/scorpionic difficulties exist there. The combination of the lunar dispositions of what's familiar to us, ups and downs, what's hidden from view, compulsions. So the two people are very driven by their combined compulsions. It can be a very obsessive placement. We can deal with a lot of fears, attachments, insecurities, pulling each other's strings, triggering each other. If they dealed with their own pluto stuff, their own eight house stuff, we have two people that have really evolved beyond being driven by their dark forces it can provide the climate for healing and transformation. For other people, is going to be obsessions, fear, crisis and challenges.

"It's hard sometimes, but we can heal together."

9th: There is agreement about their life views, philosophies, morality. Sharing of abstract ideas, there's quite a lot of conversation in this placement. Even if they have different backgrounds and moral views with this placement they will find a way to agree on each other's perceptions, or to have some kind of shared ideal, common ground. It's not a position that provides a lot of intellectual growth for the two people because we do tend to have agreement that's already built in. So there isn't a curiosity outside of what's going on between them. So they can enforce each other's beliefs, provide more of a concreteness to each other's philosophies or ideas.

" I believe in what you believe."

10th: The two people see the other person can provide what they need to build, in the outside world, safety and security. The moon is naturally opposite to the 10th house on the wheel. The other side of the same coin, moon and Saturn. So while the moon is our basic need for security and safety, the 10th is where those things happen. Where we go and do the things that the 4th needs. So in this placement we have two people joining their most subjective personal states and feelings in a context of getting ahead, public image, status, what's external to us. They can be prone to identify outside external circumstances as the problems, difficulties and the supportive things that are working within the relationship. Its not a really personal place for the composite moon to be. They relate emotionally in their thoughts about where they want to go, how they want things to go to achieve their goals in order to meet the moon needs.

"What we can become together? Where are we going? How our combined lifestyle can provide or be the vehicle for what we want to achieve?"

11th: Very fun and friendly relationship. The two people relate to each other as friends, they're Very accepting of the other person's weirdness. We get to be who we are. We invite the other person's unfettered natural expression. We get to fart in front of each other, eat too much in front of each other. We get to do whatever just happens and the other person Very much enjoys it. So, the spontaneity is similar. Very few expectations and demands made on each other. A great deal of forgiveness and tolerance. A free-flowing, exciting place. Cut down on resentments, score keeping

"I accept whatever it comes with you."

12th: As well as 8th, it adds some complexity to the relationship. Often that's something very obscured about each other. We aren't completely aware of what the other person's deep needs are, how are we combining, what exactly is going on. Revelations tend to come though being stimulated to act irrationally. We'll have something that will come up that we will discover about ourselves. The two people learn about what they don't know they don't know about themselves as a result of How the other person triggers them or feels along beside them. Combined sansitivities, fears, mysteries, some of our dark side that they are combining and triggering in each other.

MASTERLIST

1th: this couple can be absorbed in each other. There is an ease in regards to the inner world of the other. Their reactions to the world and one another are relatable. Similar instincts. Compatible emotion expression. They suport each other and can turn to be very dependable of that dynamic. They can have a preference to deal with the world as a team. It can be hard to want to operate outside of the relationship. Creates a deep bond between two people. After separation one or both of them can feel desorganized in personal life and the act to become an individual again because of the habit of doing everything with the other person. The feelings are in the surface, they are visible to the other person and to people outside the relationship. They know you love them, they can feel it. People around you feel the love you two have for each other.

"I didn't say it yet, but i feel this person knows i love them deeply"

2th: the emotional, the sharing are happening in areas of life that we have material security. This couple has a sense of physical safety with each other and this connection. They can feel the emotional bond is getting deeper when they do physical activities together. Or when they do activities with long term goals. One or both of them may feel like money and possessives play a part in their emotional response. Buying gifts can be a form to show their feelings and the other one can feel the gifts as a love statement. Share pleasure in what makes them feel security and stability.

"what about we start a fitness program together and work in that for one year?"

"maybe i wouldn't do it by myself, but i want that for a long time"

3th: shared mental activities and hobbies. They can have similar opinions in a lot of topics they found important. They learn things in similar ways and have similar meanings to things that are happening around them, How they interpret the world. They love to have conversations and in order to achieve the emotional security this couple will need to really know the other in every aspect of them. They understand each other well and its a Very happy placement in every day life, because they will, If the moon is well aspected, have an easy time organizing their daily hours and mastering the companion ability.

"hey babe im not in the mood of going out tonight i hope that's ok..."

"me neither, i want to stay home and watch movies with you, too"

4th: Shared background experiences that makes life seems more familiar. We can depend on each other, they find easy to settle in a domestic routine. In to agree at what home life should be like. We are looking to experience similar things together. If this moon hás hard aspects it can actually increase them between the chart and the other planets involved.

"i think we could start our reform by the kitchen, its a place we use a lot and i feel it's not ideal for us right now"

"i was actually gonna tell you the same"

5th: Very casual and enjoyable place. They love make each other laugh and have fun together. One or both of them can find It hard at the beggining to make the relationship serious. They love each other companies. If we have a more serious undertone about the relationship its that party on couple, really playful. They can want to have children together or being in company of children. A couple with moon in 5th house can raize children together very well, they have compatibility in that area.

"i think our daughter needs us to act that certain way right now, as parents"

"I think you are right, she needs it, let's do it"

MASTERLIST

When lillith touches pluto in synastry of natal charts, we can have a good idea on how she'll play out in this connection regards to lillith energies (see Lillith in a man's chart here).

When we talk about her in progressed synastry, we can see what we are dealing with right now. At this time period within the relationship.

So what can come to us when those two dark forces are match with each other? Whatever this energy goes, it will always be intense.

Pluto is known for being a cold planet, kinda like the ice planet, the outcast, distant from the sun. But science actually discovered that underneath this ice shield it has running water. He has depth under the darkness. When with lillith, we have a dark marriage bringing transformation (soulmate or pluto obsession? Here). As they are being outcasted and denied, they have a lot in common.

Lillith conjunct Pluto in synastry -

"love the shadows"

Along with the square, the conjunction is the most intense aspect between lillith and pluto. It's instant pull and magnetic drawn. It's gonna feel like you're mirroring each other in your parts that are repressed because of shame, guilt or simply because they are not openly accepted, or you think they wouldn't. So you Will feel like meeting your dark counterpart for the dark things that you may like, or having similar traumas. It can be a love to slasher movies or the same weird kinks in bed. This compatibility in sexual manners can be quite intense, a lot of times at the edge of passion/obsession. If you or the other person has a heavy natal pluto already, it can play out as "i am obsessed with doing this with this person". Your have to let yourself experience this dark side along with this person because if you don't (because you are afraid, or because you don't think that's the right thing for you), the conjunction will push this thru your interaction with this person. So if that's not what you want don't go further. Learn, grow and move on, because it will become overwhelming. If you are ready for it, prepare yourself to the hard times in that path too, since the intense feelings don't make a perfect relationship, and if the other parts of synastry do not match, you can see yourself in a dificult situation. It's the nature of pluto when found a lustful object, wanted to merge and have lillith for himself. But lillith can't be tamed down. So that's the negative in the conjunction, or whatever lillith pluto interaction, actually. So work to integrate the shadow side to make the relationship stronger. You can see who they truly are.

Lilith conjunct Pluto in progressed synastry

At this time period you can discover things you both have in common that you don't show to everyone. Things that are kept underneath, sometimes things you feel that no one else get it. This person can understand this. But when this shadows are showing themselves its a moment that things can be really scary. Being vulnerable that much with someone is scary. So in order to maintain some control over this, you have to be aware that you can, even uncosciously, try to control the other in some way. But when It comes to pluto and lillith they will both want to control and not being controlled. So let things flow and make sure this is someone you can trust. Work to integrate the shadow side to make the relationship stronger. They can see thru you at this time.

Lilith trine/sextile Pluto in synastry -

"i understand because i can feel it"

The trine and sextile are the aspects where the interaction between lillith and pluto are "smooth". Smooth, because you still have the intensity but things are easily in harmony. You can understand each others needs and flow with that. And you will like to be seen, as this person as well. Even if the synastry has a lot of breaking points, sex will be amazing and the connection be "diferent". You can stay long periods without talking or interact with each other, but when you do, it will be like nothing changed at all. You Will likely want to open up, and how this will be you can discover watching the other planets around pluto. (Mercury - thru conversations. moon - thru emocional moments....). So by knowing this person on a deep level, you will understand where they came from and why are they like that. You can point it out to them, and they will appreciate it and see this in a new perspective.

Lilith trine/ sextile Pluto in progressed synastry

At this time you and/or your partner Will want to be seen for who you are. You Will want to show this person your true colors. And its a time to be vulnerable and let it flow. You can have insights thru their perspective of yourself.

Lilith opposite Pluto in synastry -

"The pain buddy"

In the opposition, the intensity we see in the conjunction need some alone time. So it has the push and pull dynamic, like 'go away, now stay here, go away i don't know you, come close i see myself on you" kinda vibe. But unlike the conjunction, this dark parts you can see in each other are similar but opposites in some way. So its not the parts you "hide from the world", but the parts of you that you hide from yourself and you don't want do acknowledge. This person will show them to you. So if you don't want to see this in yourself you will likely feel threatened. "Why is this person acting like this?", "Why are they like this?". Use your complementary pain to discover yourself. And remember that this can play out in collective issues as well, like roles in society, feminine x masculine dynamic. The sex is awesome.

Lilith opposite Pluto in progressed synastry

At this time in the relationship this person may have an opposite way to do the same things you does. You have to try to understand that different type of action and remember that its for the same goal. If one of you don't do this, you two can have power struggles at this time. Lots of sexual chemistry.

Lilith square Pluto in synastry -

"i wouldn't, but i will"

The sexual chemistry here is out of charts because there's lots of tension and passion between you and this person. Sex is likely to be at the forefront If this is a romantic relationship. If it's not, the tension can play out as love/hate feelings, but always intrested in each other. This person can easily rob you in the wrong way, so It can be some repulsion feelings but the magnetism is high. So you can be fascinated to your own fascination with this person that you see as so diferent from you. So, unlike the other aspects that can be smoother, you can feel like "i see this person and i have something in common, but they do it in a way that i would never do". So in the negative, you can resent each other for it, or resent yourself for thinking this and still wanting to be with this person, because here, the shadows can be exposed in a way you don't like it. It is hard enough them being exposed in a smoother way...right? So you can imagine...How hard it must be if you are not ready to face some parts of yourself. Don't forget that you can use this for your own growth, which is likely why you feel such a strong pull to this situation. But every person is diferent, and you have to see that this person wants a good outcome like you do.

Lilith square Pluto in progressed synastry

MASTERLIST

Virgo is often a subject of misuderstanding. But when we talk about Eros (sexuality) in virgo, things can be easily treated as a "purity" vibe. Sexuality has nothing to do with purity. At least, not literally.

➡️ Eros in Virgo has a large difficulty in early stages of sexually development to embody their sexuality. They know they like kinky stuff, they search for perfection. So they can really be their purest sexual self after a lot of practice.

➡️ They are harsh on themselves. They want to be the best lover of your life. They will do every wish you have if they feel comfortable with you.

➡️ They often emerge pretty good with Aquarius Eros.

➡️If the partner is satisfying them, they can have sex anywhere, anytime. If not, they can actually brake up a lovely romantic love because sex is not perfect.

➡️ When not in a relationship they can often be overly sexually active or stay long periods without sex, by choice. Because they want something perfectly amazing.

➡️ The way they will flirt with you will be revealed in Mars. But any Mars signs aside, they want to make sure that skin touching and eye contact is on the table.

➡️ Air Mars signs combined with Eros virgo match for the blowjob master.

12th synastry is complex asf

MASTERLIST

The reason why everybody gets stuck in 12th synastry is because It can play out in so many different ways. But something is always present: it's foggy, you never know what truly is that you are looking at. So that can easily turn out to curiosity and fascination towards someone and what the hell they are thinking or why tha fuck they are acting that way? Why are they like that? Why they act a certain way and you feel they are feeling another?

When it comes to 12th every details and aspect can change everything you and the other person feels. So its hard to apply or resume to just a meaning. We have to enlight that:

A person with 12th placements in their birth chart can have more attraction towards 12th synastry. They can unconsciously seek this interactions. That's specially true when personal birth planets are in 12th or the high 12th planets like uranus and neptune.

ASC in late degrees makes your 12th house mostly in the sign of your ASC. So It speaks about this part of you that is hidden on such a seen point as the ASC. So what you project unconsciously. A personal planet of someone touching this point can certainly speak about an area that you two have lots in common. But 12th can't touch it.

No, you don't know what they are thinking. It is probably the opposite mostly of the times.

"they think i'm weird, i can see that in their eyes" - probably you think they are weird, even If you like this. Its a projection.

12th moon aspects can create a mirror effect. Like you see your shadow side in that person, so you project in them your darkness. You can see their flaws but you know deep down that what bothers you so much in this is that you have the same flaws and you don't know How to handle this in yourself. At times you can act a certain way around them that is the opposite you wanted to. And you don't understand why. Its the mirror effect. You can't Just act the way you feel. And you wonder if they do the same.

Are they feeling the same?

You have to step up your feelings and thoughts about the situation and coldly watching it's the only way to know something tangible about this connection. Don't lose yourself. The wonder is part of this energy.

MASTERLIST

♂ Cancer mars are quiet people. They can have talkative placements but always will have that quiet aura about them. They like spending time alone in home.

♀ Gemini venus deny when they are in love. They would not admit how much they care about the person 'till they get jealous.

☽ Sag moons avoid DTR's.

☉ Pisces suns don't trust easily.

It sounds kinda obvious but its definitely true that Leo rising loooooooove having attention. They can be shy even, but love being praised.

I observed that neptune in 1st a lot of times have drug addiction.

Ask #1

MASTERLIST

Hello dear, deepvelvet here to ask your question!

Juno doesn't have to be at the same sign, and doesn't have to make contacts as well. Every situation is different.

My dad's Juno is in libra, and my mom is a libra Sun, but her Juno is not in libra and even If It is at the same sign, my mom's Sun doesn't make any contact with my dad's Juno.

So, her sun is what his Juno was searching for.

A friend have his Juno in aries and is married with a woman that has 0 planets in aries. But her moon makes a tight orb Trine his Juno.

My coworker has cancer Juno and his wife has no cancer placements and his Juno don't have significant placements with her planets too! 😱 But then you see... Her moon and venus are in 4th. And they make strong contacts with his 5th. They have four kids, lol. 😋

MASTERLIST

Hello my darlings, deepvelvet here .

Lillith can be quite different in men or women charts. I see a lot of intresting and insightful posts about lillith in a woman chart, but it's more rare find a post about men. So, shall we?

If you are willing to reaserch about this specific subject, the most common meaning you will find is that:

"Lillith is the woman he truly and deeply desire but, at the same time, the woman he is afraid of. The woman he falls head over heels with."

But deepvelvet, what does this mean, anyway? Is he able to have a relationship with her?

I will give a practical exemple of how this goes. She's a Gemini Sun and he has Gemini lillith. He enjoy movies. And is totally in love about the fact she seems to know everything about the 7th art! But at the same time, sometimes he feels she knows so much, that he feel dumb. Like he has nothing to add.

So he feels threatened about the same thing he admires.

A capricorn lillith man i knew, was a cap Sun and ASC too. He is the most practical person i've ever met. He admires independent and hardworking women. But, at the same time, he is threatened about his place at the family, in traditional sense. He wants to be the provider, right?

In other scenario, he has a hard time understanding his feelings and he need his "patience time" getting to know a woman before commit with her. But if she takes more time to decide than he does: holy crap! He's annoyed and mesmerized... But is weirdly sexy either.

He is threatened by women who are like him. (Lillith in 1th)

Sure thing is: he can't forget the impact lillith made on his ego.

Will Gemini lillith stay with this intresting and intelligent woman? If he put his ego on the side, he can have the girl of his dreams.

Is cap lillith ever going to not pee in his pants everytime a powerful, organized, independent and strong woman smiles to him?

As lillith in a woman chart can show her dark side, lillith in a man chart talk about his limitations as a man. Yes,

Pure sexism.

If you two are just getting to know each other, or even if this guy has great amount of interest in you...its lillith calling. She shines above the moonlight so then she can go deeper in the dark side of his ego. Is he going to survive? Is going to wait and see?

Even when he runs, even when he tries to block her power over him, he will be sorry lose her. Regret.

MASTERLIST

1 Don't look for pluto synastry if you are seeking sexual chemistry. Look at pluto placements within the birth charts at the day you met chart.

2 libra sun + scorpio venus are art lovers. They like going to the city museum and love architecture.

3 pisces moon + virgo venus have a hard time in love. But their sensibility is really great, they are great musicians.

4 Sun or ASC in capricorn + virgo venus will never start a relationship. They will not tell how they feel or how they think things are going, they will let It "flow naturally" until the other person is tired of waiting for some action towards a serious relationship with them.

5 aries sun + pisces moon fall in love easily.

6 cancer moon + scorpio venus can be stubborn and suffer a lot of anxiety. That's specially true If It has fire Mars in the combo. They live in the future and in the past and have a hard time enjoying the moment without thinking in what they have to do next.

7 Mars in 1th people can't be quiet and don't do anything. They will clean the house, the garden and then make dinner to everyone. If this Mars is in aquarius in a woman chart, she Will Love doing things that are traditionally "manly", like have a motorcycle, build a house with her bare hands, and everything people will say she would not do well because she is a woman "tha hell i can't!!"

8 venus in 10h are popular in high school and have an easy time being noticed.

9 pluto in 10th Get things done. Period.

10 Gemini Sun + sagittarius moon can't stop talking as a child.

11 Leo Sun + Gemini moon has an artistic aura. And can be rebellious in puberty.

12 Aquarius rising, they will always do things out of the box. They can be the weird kid everyone secretly admires because they have the courage to be who they are.

13 pisces and aquarius placements often enjoy drawing and animes.

14 cancer moon is a loving and cuddling kind of parent but in the dark side, it can be manipulative thru that if has lack of character.

MASTERLIST here

Soulmates are there and we get confuse when it comes to this A WHOLE LOT. just don't forget, tho:

1 soulmate relationships can be or not in regards to romantic love.

2 Its actually more common for them to come in your family and friends group.

But when we see how much we have in common with this other person, and even the ethereal way you two met and make the other feel. The feeling of knowing them already. All of this emotions came across us thinking "am i crazy?", "is this person feeling the same?"...and passion comes along.

You might have to pay attention with illusions at this point.

Pluto is obsession, its not logical, tender or easy going. If you believe in the twin flames concept you can think pluto obsession is the chaser and runner dynamic. And you are the chaser, right?

I'm not telling you to not believe in what you already believe. I am telling you to be careful and see if its not a pluto obsession.

But deepvelvet, it can be both? yes it can! you can have heavy pluto synastry with your soulmate. But every relationship has its break point. if you are destiny to meet someone and learn things from that relationship, it doesn't mean you will, or they will learn. it depends on every person. Destiny brings us opportunities, we have to grab them. And they can be different than we expected or wished for. Sometimes letting go is all you have to learn. So you can be prepered for the next great things. And if its to be, it will be. You don't have to obssess about it. It's hard, i know.

Pluto is intense and passionate. But above ALL, pluto is TRANSFORMATIONAL. What a beautiful and sometimes painful way to learn grow and transforme yourself in that strong person you were destined to be.

We can deal with this together, look for support. Keep strong and contact me if you are in the hardest days.

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"My ex can't stop thinking about me and is madly in love, but we broke up one year ago."

We started our relationship online, and we instantly get well and fell in love. We assume the relationship a couple of months later and we didn't met in person. So he came to where i live and stayed a week. A month later i went to his home and stayed a month. We had this type of thing going on for some months and then we decided to live together, since he would come to my city. The last visit before he move in, he started to dictate how things would be with us living together. I didn't like It at all, told him that, he Said he would change. He didn't. Só i broke up with him one year ago and he still try to contact me saying he is madly in love with me and i am ALL he thinks about. I was pretty clear i do not want this relationship anymore, since everything he did i can't erase, and the spark is gone. He is so spoiled and mamas boy. He wanted me to mother him sometimes. i think he says he is Sorry about things i told him because he knows i think its wrong. Not because he sees that. Why is he so obsessed over us?

Analysis: "a neptune illusion"

Well, you two have the same ASC so It can explain why you two get well so fast. His lillith is in your stellium. She makes tight contacts with your moon and venus. You are the embodiment of his lillith. Plus, his Juno ia opposing your stellium, touching It either. He feels Juno within you, even If you know at heart you are not. His pluto opposite your mars+Mercury indicating that his obsession with you talks about your witty, intelligence, knowledge. And your rawr nature. You are probably the best sex of his life. His Mars tho, do not touch your chart the way It supposed to be to do that. Since the two Mars are Air Mars, you do have similar tastes but something is missing for you. I can say, putting the house your Mars is in (4th) on the equation, that you miss making love. He likes rawr sex. BDSM vibes and lillith in Gemini is so role playing! You hook this one for good. His Sun and venus are in your 7th, you thought It could work. But his neptune is in your 12th, and your neptune in his!!! So lots of projections. When he showed what he was really about your 12th came clear as water (because your neptune is naturally there you are use to the energy to the point It can shift and shine back thru your higher (12th) understanding (conjunct Uranus). But he, on the other half, are in neptunes illusions. He still see you as this whole thing, but he can't see thru himself and make the actions that are needed to really be a different person at things he have to grow. He want you back. He says he is going to change. But he doesnt know where he is doing wrong because is something he have to understand, not thru what you say, but thru himself.

An important point here is that his neptune touches every corner of his chart.

His pisces Saturn opposing his virgo Mercury shows that he is naturally inclined to have these conscious oppeness later in life. (Saturn opp Mercury touches uranus). And since his jupiter is in 10th sagittarius he will probably get his Focus on "growing up" by taking responsabilities thru his career.

Well, i Hope i could help you understand a little more about this.

(with some kinky ones...)

1. Capricorn and Gemini can work really well as lovers If the Gemini has personal planets in 10th or 4th, or the capricorn has Gemini or sag ASC.

2. Synastry of birth charts can show primal connection and challenges that can be in the way for understanding. But things that are going on, and can influence as much as the birth charts are in the progressed. So you might see how the progressed synastry goes, since its going to show you how you are in sync right now, and not the day you born.

3. Aquarius rising have large shoulders and are curvy.

4. 4th placements and lillith in cancer can show a kink for breasts, and in case of women, really sensitive nipples.

5. Synastry with 10th house stellium, If your Mars are not in sync, doesn't matter how you try, the relationship Will never be sexually fulfilling.

6. Leos are drama queens. Leos with cancer moon can be the most manipulative people thru drama. Leos with pisces moons are childish but do not do things to hurt people on purpose.

7. 7th house in virgo people can be on and off people. The ones that dont know If they are extroverts or introverts, they change over life.

Virgo venus + cancer moon difficult combo, it can be manipulative. Felt not seen as a child. Emotional trauma, lots of maniatic treats.

Gemini 4th placements if its personal planets is detached from their partners in love, having trouble to really lose themselves in the relationship and trust. But don't mess with their family unless you want to know their violent animal side.