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"My ex can't stop thinking about me and is madly in love, but we broke up one year ago."

We started our relationship online, and we instantly get well and fell in love. We assume the relationship a couple of months later and we didn't met in person. So he came to where i live and stayed a week. A month later i went to his home and stayed a month. We had this type of thing going on for some months and then we decided to live together, since he would come to my city. The last visit before he move in, he started to dictate how things would be with us living together. I didn't like It at all, told him that, he Said he would change. He didn't. Só i broke up with him one year ago and he still try to contact me saying he is madly in love with me and i am ALL he thinks about. I was pretty clear i do not want this relationship anymore, since everything he did i can't erase, and the spark is gone. He is so spoiled and mamas boy. He wanted me to mother him sometimes. i think he says he is Sorry about things i told him because he knows i think its wrong. Not because he sees that. Why is he so obsessed over us?

Analysis: "a neptune illusion"

Well, you two have the same ASC so It can explain why you two get well so fast. His lillith is in your stellium. She makes tight contacts with your moon and venus. You are the embodiment of his lillith. Plus, his Juno ia opposing your stellium, touching It either. He feels Juno within you, even If you know at heart you are not. His pluto opposite your mars+Mercury indicating that his obsession with you talks about your witty, intelligence, knowledge. And your rawr nature. You are probably the best sex of his life. His Mars tho, do not touch your chart the way It supposed to be to do that. Since the two Mars are Air Mars, you do have similar tastes but something is missing for you. I can say, putting the house your Mars is in (4th) on the equation, that you miss making love. He likes rawr sex. BDSM vibes and lillith in Gemini is so role playing! You hook this one for good. His Sun and venus are in your 7th, you thought It could work. But his neptune is in your 12th, and your neptune in his!!! So lots of projections. When he showed what he was really about your 12th came clear as water (because your neptune is naturally there you are use to the energy to the point It can shift and shine back thru your higher (12th) understanding (conjunct Uranus). But he, on the other half, are in neptunes illusions. He still see you as this whole thing, but he can't see thru himself and make the actions that are needed to really be a different person at things he have to grow. He want you back. He says he is going to change. But he doesnt know where he is doing wrong because is something he have to understand, not thru what you say, but thru himself.

An important point here is that his neptune touches every corner of his chart.

His pisces Saturn opposing his virgo Mercury shows that he is naturally inclined to have these conscious oppeness later in life. (Saturn opp Mercury touches uranus). And since his jupiter is in 10th sagittarius he will probably get his Focus on "growing up" by taking responsabilities thru his career.

Well, i Hope i could help you understand a little more about this.