1. It sucks so so so so bad but it’s worth it.

2. You can’t make the change overnight. This was a lifestyle commitment I made over several years (initiated by a dramatic conflict in my life that made me realize I hated the way most people behaved around conflict).

3. Prioritize your mental well-being in times of peace so you can be rational and calm in times of conflict. Practice listening. Practice breathing. Practice doing it scared. Practice clarity. Practice sincerity. Do those things in little ways so you’re ready to do it in a big way later.

4. You have to leave behind passive-aggression, sarcasm, clever retorts, and irony. (In favor of clarity; sincerity.)

5. Know your boundaries so you can hold them. Remember, a boundary is not “YOU can’t speak to me like that,” a boundary is “If you continue to speak to me like that, I’ll end the conversation here.” (About what you do, not about what they do.)

And restocking of old favourites! (You can check out the whole selection here!)

Azazel Perfume Oil!

Azazel:

An ancient script of scents, resinous and heady, floral and grounding. The Watcher himself, keen eyed, disciplined, and haughty does relaxes just as far as this scent would allow. Permissions are granted, only if one follows through with their oaths. This blend abides by sacred scents to this noble Watcher. 

Base Notes of Honey, Sweet Tobacco, Myrrh, Benzoin, Musk and Galbanum

Heart Notes of Nutmeg, Bay Laurel and Passion Fruit

Top Notes of Osmanthus, Rose and Cardamom

Drunken Scholar

Drunken Scholar: The rich aroma of coffee, leather, tobacco, and vanilla and old books, this simple blend is a rich aroma that finds you where stacks of books gather and sound of parchment turns beneath the keen eyes of scholars. What better way to settle into an evening than with the rich presence of coffee and a tobacco packed pipe. Perfect for the Dark Academia.

Oracle of the Morning Star

Oracle of the Morning Star: A quiet brilliance before the dawn. Sacred resins linger beneath luminous white florals while cool air carries whispers of tea and distant waters. Ancient knowledge rests beside impossible beauty; warm amber and dragon's blood offering a steadfast foundation for blossoms that seem almost celestial. There is no demand to kneel here—only an invitation to seek, to question, and to step willingly toward the light that reveals rather than blinds.

Featuring: Base Notes of Dragon's Blood, Amber, Sweet Tobacco, Myrrh, White Musk and Musk Heart Notes of Magnolia, Lotus, White Tea, Jasmine and Fig Top Notes of Bergamot and Ocean Breeze

Apollon Perfume Oil

Apollon Lord of Light and of Oracles, Theoi of Divination and clarity, this perfume blend takes us back to the sacred. Richly invoked, this perfume is a dedication to the Divine current of Apollon’s light and warmth. From coast to laurel tree, from shimmering vessels to the humble hyacinth, we adorn ourselves with the steadfast will of great Apollon.

Featuring: Base Notes of Coffee, Amber, White Musk and Cypress Heart Notes of Bay Laurel and Laurel and Orange Top Notes of Fresh Cut Grass, Jasmine, Lily of the Valley, and Bergamot

The Set Selection! Sacred Scents dedicated to the Ancient Kemetic God Sutekh

Neb-Setesh

Neb-Setesh A sacred and resinous blend, this perfume beholds the sacred. The land of ancient Kemet is ripe with spices, resins and the divine sillage of ancient rituals. This fragrance focuses upon the Lord of the Red Land, Setesh - The Defender of Ra’s Barque. Slayer of Apep. Ripe with dragon’s blood, honey, and myrrh, aloft with the warmth of black pepper, calamus, cassia and frankincense, this is a sacred oil that one would find within the temple to the Red God himself.

Featuring a blend of: Dragons blood, myrrh, frankincense, black pepper, cassia, calamus, cedar wood, juniper, labdanum, and honey.

Lord of Deshret

The Lord of DeshretThe Red Land stretches beyond the horizon beneath an endless sky. Dry winds carry sacred smoke through weathered cedar and dark cypress while cracked earth exhales the warmth of forgotten temples. Sharp spice rides upon the desert air before settling into ancient resins that have endured the passing of kingdoms. Unyielding, watchful, and utterly sovereign—the wilderness has always had its king.

Featuring: Base Notes of Dragon's Blood, Myrrh, Labdanum and Cade Heart Notes of Cedar, Cypress, Calamus and Bay Laurel Top Notes of Ozone, Black Pepper and Cassia

Desert Throne

Desert ThroneGolden incense curls through pillars of carved stone as offerings of honey and fragrant resins rise upon the heat. Rich woods, sacred smoke, and warm spice gather around a throne worn smooth by countless generations of devotion. Majestic without excess, this fragrance embodies the quiet authority of a king whose dominion was never measured by fertile fields, but by the strength to endure what others could not.

Featuring: Base Notes of Myrrh, Frankincense, Labdanum, Benzoin and Ambergris Heart Notes of Dragon's Blood, Sweet Tobacco, Honey and Sandalwood Top Notes of Bay Laurel, Cardamom and Pepper

Ahket-Ra

Akhet-Ra The first light crests the horizon as sacred incense rises with the dawn. Warm resins and polished sandalwood are touched by golden honey and bright spice, echoing the quiet majesty of the sun's eternal journey. Ancient temples awaken beneath the morning sky, where every new day is a promise renewed and every sunrise a triumph over the darkness beyond the horizon.

Featuring: Base Notes of Frankincense, Myrrh, Labdanum, Sandalwood, Amber, Ambergris and White Musk Heart Notes of Benzoin, Honey and Bay Laurel Top Notes of Cinnamon and Cardamom

Restocked!

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