hard to want

guy who missed out on having friends during the time of his life when it was most important for his mental growth: hey can we do petplay but I am an unsocialized dog who you have to very slowly introduce to positive affection and if you move too fast I bite you really hard but you stay anyways?

the core of the fujo fantasy being the externality of the penis

normalise being fulfilled by imperfect sex. sex that's awkward. sex that's clumsy. sex when you're still learning each other, where consent check ins cut in jarringly because safety overrides needing to be smooth or nonchalant. sex that's 90% cuddling and teasing foreplay and 10% grinding, then doesn't lead anywhere else. sex that doesn't end in an orgasm but instead a profound sense of satisfaction that washes over your whole body.

sexually repressed people be like “i have an ancient evil stirring within me. no one can know” and its literally just craving intimacy

normalise being fulfilled by imperfect sex. sex that's awkward. sex that's clumsy. sex when you're still learning each other, where consent check ins cut in jarringly because safety overrides needing to be smooth or nonchalant. sex that's 90% cuddling and teasing foreplay and 10% grinding, then doesn't lead anywhere else. sex that doesn't end in an orgasm but instead a profound sense of satisfaction that washes over your whole body.

Embarrassed to admit that I’m not even a real pervert. I’m a masochist because I’m bored and a sadist because I’m an asshole