How To Celebrate National Bossâs Day
There seems to be a holiday for everything, even when itâs not totally necessary. Take, for instance, National Bossâs Day, which took place on Wednesday. Bossâs Day, inaugurated in 1958, is âa day for employees to thank their bosses for being kind and fair throughout the year.â Kind and fair is good, but what does that really mean? Where is the bar set, and who gets to set it? If your boss is personally very nice to you but neglects to hear you on issues that are important to you or your co-workersâis that good enough? And what if your boss isnât kind or fair?
There are, of course, great bosses out thereâpeople who truly treat the employees who work for them with respect and fairness, and strive to make the workplace healthy and productive for everyone. But I know from this column that there are plenty of workers out there for whom âNational Bossâs Dayâ just adds insult to injury.
Like this man, whose boss has told him to âimproveâ his work but hasnât said what that actually means.
Or this woman, whose boss is condescending to her and insults her with names like âfathead.â
(If you want a quick survey of how bad bosses can really beâcheck out these stories.)
For workers like these, whose ability to make a living is at the mercy of someone who abuses their power, every day is âBossâs Dayâ and not their own.
The good news is that it doesnât have to be this way. You donât have to cross your fingers and hope for a boss to decide to be kind to you. If you work strategically and act together with your co-workers, you can begin to reset the imbalance in the boss-worker power dynamic that too often leads to bad situations. Thereâs some effort involved here, for sure, but thatâs true about anything thatâs worth doing.
Hereâs my challenge to anyone dealing with a bad boss right now:
1. Step back and ask yourself some questions. What would you like to see changed at your workplace or in the way your boss treats you? Who else do you know at work who is feeling the same way as you?
2. Take the Working America âFix My Jobâ challenge. Give yourself a year to experiment with the tools on fixmyjob.com, and see what you can accomplish by working together with your co-workers.
3. Keep us posted. You can do this through fixmyjob.com, where you can keep notes, ask us questions and share your progress privately. Once youâve completed some basic first steps, youâll have an opportunity to request a meeting with an experienced workplace troubleshooter.
I know it can be disheartening if you are dealing with a bad boss right now. Stay strong! Remember to be patient. Meaningful change doesnât happen on its own, and it doesnât happen overnight. But youâtogether with your co-workersâCAN make change happen.
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