mindless elf indulgence

Just got a commission from @daxeart and I am over the moon. Thank you so much!!! Here's his vgen for anyone who would also like something like this: https://vgen.co/daxe

streaming MY SUMMER CAR MULTIPLAYER MOD with @daxe @gorps and @eggmeowth on daxe's twitch

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-cutting or styling their hair in ways they couldn’t before

-getting piercings and tattoos (especially if they choose to get tattoos over scars)

-deciding if they want to be touched or not

-choosing who they want in their presence and having this choice respected

-asking for their input frequently and showing that its valued 

-showing interest in their hobbies 

-having curiosity and empathy about their experiences and the emotional realities of their situation 

-validating their feelings, especially if they’ve previously been taught that they aren’t something to be valued 

-getting treatment for conditions that they were previously taught were unimportant or something they should have been able to take care of themselves

-advocating for them in front of other people

-being allowed to voice when they’re uncomfortable or upset without being shut down for it

-acknowledging their efforts and skills