I’m sorry my lovelies but the reason you hate yourself is because you treat you like shit. If you came up to me and then told me I was a fuck up who could never do anything right I'd fucking hate you too.
if you didn't let me go to bed until after midnight because you'd rather watch Netflix than let me rest, and then got mad at me for not being productive the next day I'd be PISSED
You keep calling me a fatass but you tell other overweight people they’re beautiful? Why do you keep shitting on MY weight, then?
Oh? It’s different if it’s me? Wow fuck you too
Love is a verb! Self love isn’t a warm fuzzy feeling, it is compassion and action in support of yourself!
And yes, this includes having compassion for the bully in your head. Unfortunately that part is also you and deserves as much of your understanding as the rest of you.
Seen multiple people I love reblog this saying something like "i'm trying but its so hard..." and I wanna take a moment to hold space for that.
Yes.
It's extremely hard.
It's very possible this will be one of the hardest things you ever do. But you can get there, and every little bit of progress helps. Self-love isn't a switch that happens overnight, its something that adds up over time. And even a fleeting moment of it helps. I'm here for you. I believe in you. This is hard, but you can do this.
