Folly's Daughter

It’s fun to pretend a kink has fully corrupted every aspect of your life, and that it isn’t “just a kink” anymore. But it is just a kink. You can stop and take a break anytime if you want to. If you genuinely feel like it’s not just a kink anymore, you should consider taking a break from kink until the line between fantasy and reality firms up again. Similarly, if it’s (negatively) impacting your grades or work performance, it may be time to take a step back.

It is just a kink. If your dom, play partner(s), etc refuse to step out of the “bit,” as it were, in order to negotiate, talk boundaries and limits, and other basic responsible kink stuff, I personally feel like that’s a bit of a red flag. It’s similar to when doms barge into subs’ inboxes calling them whores and sluts before asking for your name, or when subs start calling doms daddy/mommy without permission first. You should be able to have a normal, human conversation with this person before you do anything kinky.

It is just a kink. Thought crime isn’t real, you aren’t doing anything wrong. Is everyone having fun? Is everyone a consenting adult? Great, you keep doing you.

It is just a kink. With the exception of hypnosis and similar conditioning, no one can change the fundamentals of who you are as a person. Even in the case of hypno, you should have very strong trust with your partner before you do that, and a responsible tist will give you failsafes and escape routes, if you will, so you can still safeword and end a scene if you need to. Anyone trying to change who you are as a person outside of a scene or dynamic should be side-eyed.

It is just a kink. It should be fun. Obviously things happen and we sometimes have not-so-fun experiences in kink, but on average, if you’re not having fun, I think you might doing something wrong. (This isn’t to say you can’t do dark/scary/fucked up things as scenes—but be conscious of if you’re doing it because it’s fun/cathartic/a net positive for you, or if you’re doing it as a form of self harm.)

I’m sure after weeks and weeks in the bare basement without any enrichment (outside of the injuries I’ve gifted you) you must be starving for a task. A job to do. Don’t you want to be useful?

The upstairs needs to be prepped, it’s just not set up to hold a pet like you yet. You do want to live upstairs, don’t you? Where it’s warm and soft and nice? Of course you’d be happy to do the work to get the upstairs ready.

it’s not easy to hold onto a thing like you. So many long heavy screws to fasten the eye plates to the walls, to give me someplace to lock your chain. So many bars and bits and pieces to assemble your cage. The sensors that set off your shocker need to be placed and calibrated. Feet of chain and rope and tape need to be sorted and stored and maintained. My whips, paddles, and crops need to be put away but always close at hand. The leather of your collar should be conditioned and the metal of your cuffs polished.

I’m sure you’d do it well. Of course youd try to be incompetent at first. Why properly screw in a padlock anchor when you’re hoping to unscrew it later? Soon you’ll learn the rewards of a job well done. Soon you’ll realize that I always catch your little attempts at incompetence and react accordingly.