"im with you in the dark"

*smacks this on the sign & returns to the counter*

WE ARE NOT ANSWERING ANY DONATIONS ASKS OF ANY KIND

NO EXCEPTIONS THEY WILL ALL BE DELETED

doing trick or treating for all of october

we aren't a shipper dont bother us on either side of the shipping debates except to ask for trigger tags

notice of blocking reason (tldr under cut*)

if you have been blocked for having proship on your dni and you want to snoop for our definition, here it is

a note on tag games (if what your sending fits nither its probably fine)

post for helping us find an arg based on a (incomplete) description

one of my favorite novels

and a larger list (links to be added)

brackets (mostly inactive exclamania separated) blog at @brackets-gift-anon - ard

#cas's choice games tag

#cas's font rambles

#downloadable fonts

new ask tags

#'nons

#asks's

-hallucinate

-cry over what seems to be small things

-become furiously angry over what seems to be small things

-hit a self destruct button over and over again

-lose all sense of reality

-becoming straight up unable to communicate

-view every situation as life or death

-experience delusions/become vulnerable to irrational worldviews

-perceive hostility where none exists

-become extremely nauseous and/or throw up

-stop engaging in sleeping/eating/basic hygiene

-stop processing sensory input

-process way too much sensory input all at once

-lash out at others/themselves

-and more!

I'm transfeminine. my boyfriend is a trans man. we can just..... both talk about the transphobia we face? we can do both. there's a Lot of overlap!

- we've both been harassed for using public bathrooms

- we've both been excluded from friend groups for looking too masculine to be good nonthreatening queers

- we've both been fetishized for body parts we're dysphoric about

- we both worry about healthcare and explaining our genders to doctors who don't get it

First of all, there is a good archival of some intersex resources here [link] by @interarchive which I am unable to reblog so Ill link it. I dont know how updated it is as it doesnt show me a date either.

These are in no particular order. Disclaimer goes that I am not intersex, I am simply creating this collection by going through various intersex blogs that tag other similar helpful blogs and copy pasting from their bios or pinned posts what I consider to be the core of what their blog is about. The purpose of this post is simply to give people a general knowledge of the intersex/intersexism-related blogs that they can use since last month thisis-intersexism had to close the blog + to spread intersex ran accounts so that they'll reach more people and boost intersex voices active in the community (there are older accounts that havent been active for a while so I tried to find ones currently taking asks).

Oppression focused

@vinterfeminism (bio: A blog dedicated to labelling and calling out intermisogyny and interfeminism!!)

@thisis-intermisogyny (bio: Documenting the intersection of intersexism and misogyny. Intermisogyny is the intersection of intersexism and misogyny. This includes discrimination against intersex people who are fem-aligned, intersex women and adjacent identities. It also covers discrimination that is misdirected or is built on the foundation of misogyny and intersexism, wether directed against a woman or based on the foundations of those forms of bigotry.)

@this-is-internoirism (bio: The this-is-internoirism blog is a place that talks about the intersection between anti-blackness and intersexism. It is also meant to be a safe space for all other intersex POC as well.)

Experience focused

@intersexpolls (bio: Tumblr polls by and about being actually intersex)

@interconfessions (bio: confessions by intersex people, for intersex people. Inbox closed to catch up on submissions.)

@intersexcultureis (bio: first and foremost, this blog is welcoming and accepting of all intersex identities and i try to be a positive voice for all intersex people, as well as support for people who may be questioning if they are intersex. if youre questioning if youre intersex, or just a perisex person wanting to learn more info, youre all welcome to still send in asks.)

@the-intersex-experience (bio: a blog dedicated to all types of intersex experiences!)

@intersex-support (bio: This blog is a safe and supportive resource for any and all intersex people. Feel free to ask questions, vent, submit positivity, or anything else!)

@intersex-bpd-culture-is (bio: For asks and anons involving being intersex with BPD)

Positivity focused

@intersex-joy (bio: this blog is for intersex people, no matter how they're intersex, to speak of their joy)

@intersex-positivity (bio: I reblog and make positive posts for intersex folks and their variations.)

@intersexocs (bio: A showcase of the intersex OCs of tumblr dot com! Either to show off your existing OCs or to get help with writing them, this blog is for you.)

@yourfaveisintersex (bio: I'm an intersex adult who semi-randomly decided to make this blog after getting out of the shower one day, and now make low-effort edits of people's headcanons and of canon or coded intersex characters as a hobby when I have downtime instead of bedrotting on YouTube or Reddit or something. I'm more than happy to talk about my personal intersex experiences on this blog)

Specific variations

@pcos-culture (bio: by a system with PCOS, for those with PCOS, questioning PCOS, professionally diagnosed PCOS, undiagnosed PCOS, and more. active (May 2026))

@cah-culture-is (This blog will be focused on variations under the Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia (CAH) (link) umbrella, often abbreviated as (N)CAH to visibly include both classic & non-classic subtypes)

@hypogonadism-culture-is (bio: This blog is for anyone who falls under the umbrella of intersex variations that are hypogonadal in nature, whether or not they have a named variation that either directly causes or leads to hypogonadism, or only knows/suspects they have a deficiency (or insensitivity!) of some kind of hormone along the HPG axis)

@hypergonadism-culture-is (bio: This blog is open to hearing any and all experiences relating to hypergonadism! This includes hyperestrogenism, hyperandrogenism, hyperprogesteronemia, and more. People with mesoandrogenism, mesoestrogenism, mesoprogesteronemia, and more are also welcome to submit experiences if they believe they fit the description of hypergonadism)

@v-hypospadias, back up @vh-vulvicryptid (bio: i made this blog since there's not a lot out there on vulvar hypospadias and what is, is pretty clinical and often intersexist. i really wished someone had told me more about vulvovaginal variations and that they could fall under the intersex umbrella sooner, so i wanted to provide a candle in the window for anyone else trying to understand their body.)

@ovotestes-culture-is (bio: A place to submit your experience with having ovotestes.)

@gonadaldysgenesis-culture-is (bio: I made this blog for those with confirmed and suspected gonadal dysgenesis! Gonadal dysgenesis refers to under- or absent development of the gonads and is something of an umbrella term that can include Swyer’s, Turner’s, Mixed Gonadal Dysgenesis (note: although many conflate MGD with X0/XY mosaicism, anyone of any karyotype can have it), Partial and Complete Gonadal Dysgenesis, and others.)

@agenital-spectrum-culture-is (bio: I am not gatekeep-y about what agenital spectrum is, so it's difficult for me to include a definition here. If you feel like you fit into the category or you are questioning, you can send the ask. Like, of course, in some cases I know what is a part of the spectrum and what's not, but again, I am not The Gatekeeper Of The Community, so I can't always be sure myself.)

@urethral-variations-culture-is (bio: Urethral variations are very under-researched and not talked much about among intersex people. I don't see many spaces for people with such variations and it's difficult to find information and community. (speaking from personal experience.) If you have a urethra-related variation or you are questioning, feel free to send an ask. Full disclosure for whatever situation may arise: I am not The Gatekeeper Of The Community.)

@dupligenital (bio: This blog is centered around genital duplication and the opt-in "dupligenital" label, prioritizing education and community.)

@cltoral-hypoplasia (bio: If YOU think you might have clitoral hypoplasia, know that you aren’t alone! If you want to reach out, feel free to do so. I hope this sideblog will at least give you comfort.)

Additional

@intersexbookclub (bio: Why we meet: Our goal with the book club is to provide a social opportunity for intersex people, people questioning if they’re intersex, and allies, to meet and explore intersex-oriented literature together.)

@intersexcat-tboy (bio: This blog focuses on raising awareness, sharing personal experiences, and connecting with others in the intersex and ATM theory community.)

Blogs not specifically about intersexism, OR not run by intersex people, that welcome submissions of intersexism and about being intersex

@our-queer-experience (run by a perisex person as far as I know, bio: a blog dedicated to sharing lgbtq+ stories, information, and advice of all kinds.)

@this-is-varsexism-transphobia (run by an ersex system, bio: This blog is dedicated to spreading awareness of the oppressive/negative experiences faced by people who are genderqueer or sexqueer. You can submit your own experiences, or things you have witnessed happening to other people (so long as you are not outing someone.))

@comprehensive-sex-ed (run by a perisex person, bio: sex education without binary enforcement)

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thank you for sharing this because its really important that we start talking about it more. that is the first step to fixing it; we have to be honest.

this is a form of violence. trying to make a nonbinary person binary is a form of violence, whether its cis or trans. it is violating and violent thing to do to others. it is deeply dehumanizing to speak directly to a person and insist you are honoring them (some fantasy version of them that lives in your head) by directly going against their stated wishes and refusing their subjectivity.

ETA2: we do use inches/miles in poetic ways ("he was lost in thought/miles away" or "his lips were a bare inch away").

She's fat and gets the guy and no one bats an eye.

She's fat and the hottest chick in the sorority and that's normal.

She's fat and an actress and she gets good roles.

She's fat and she's funny and she has character depth and growth.

She's fat and the main character and no one mentions her weight once.