Unsafe Discord Servers

Now, the Blossom bot will certainly be on a lot of people’s minds in the coming days as it gets permanently shut down. Those of you who aren’t in the loop might be wondering why and here’s why!

We’d like to preface this with: do not send hate mail, harassing messages, or anything aggressive to the Blossom Devs or the PluralHub Staff (those mentioned and those that have nothing to do with this). This serves more as a collection of what they’ve done wrong to let them and others know their bad actions and intentions should be addressed and not overlooked just because they are big community members. Our intentions are in no way to start a witch-hunt; this post is just meant to be informational so the rest of the community knows what’s up.

be careful if you get invited or come across a discord server called “Flower Pot” that advertises itself as a friendly community for queer folk. the members are fatshaming and ableist and don’t like to be called out on it.

Now, the Blossom bot will certainly be on a lot of people’s minds in the coming days as it gets permanently shut down. Those of you who aren’t in the loop might be wondering why and here’s why!

We’d like to preface this with: do not send hate mail, harassing messages, or anything aggressive to the Blossom Devs or the rest of the Plural Bourgeoise/Plural Elite. This serves more as a collection of what they’ve done wrong to let them and others know their bad actions and intentions should be addressed and not overlooked just because they are big community members. Our intentions are in no way to start a witch-hunt; this post is just meant to be informational so the rest of the community knows what’s up.

I used to follow GS’s blog until it went inactive, and I had no idea how problematic they were. When they shut down their blog, they went on about how sh!tty they are, but I knew nothing about it. I guess that’s what we get by staying in close-knit circles. 

By the way, the staff of Plural Hub reacted to this post, and this is seriously they acted:

This is hilarious in the sense that they can’t accept that they’re being called out for their sh!tty behavior. Like I said, I’ve seen the receipts and they’re legit. They seriously are calling Dodstold’s callout post “harassment.” Not once in the entire post did the Dodstold Package insult, belittle, or “harass” any of these plural elites. They were simply stating the facts and providing the receipts, and they even made it abundantly clear that they’re not trying to witch-hunt or harass these dudes.

You know it’s bad when the people being called out (and have evidence to back it up) can’t admit their mistakes and own up to it. If I get banned on Plural Hub, oh well. Tulpamancy Hub was already delisted for bullsh!t reasons like many servers who were listed on Plural Hub. 

If anyone knows of any server hubs like Plural Hub that aren’t toxic, let us know, please.

using a saved url to this since i don’t want my main attached to this. this will be long but it needs to be done. there is an 18+ public faekin server out there, and i joined and was treated with some of the most disrespect i’ve ever seen.

i will post a screenshot of the info post shortly.

i joined about a week ago. however, i didn’t have any problems until last night and today. there was a discussion about spirit animals, and me, a native american, said they were exclusive to native culture because someone asked if they were. the server owner proceeded to start a fight that lasted all of the night while i was asleep and most of this morning. the owner is a 40 white person, and she bulled and harassed me, a native teenager for two days. why? cause i called them out for their appropriation and racism.

she sent many of the mods to insult and harass me while i was offline and later asleep, but things came to a head in the morning. at 2 in the morning, one of the mods wrote an 8 paragraph message and tagged me. that message was one of the most disrespectful things anyone has ever said to me. unfortunately i wasn’t able to take screnshots before i was kicked.

the mod called me “too sensitive to function” for having triggers and because the convo the night before made me feel uncomfortable and unsafe. they also told me i must have cognitive abnormalities because i disagreed with them.

later, the owner once again started to harass me. she said many racist things to and about me, the most notable being that white people had it harder than native people cause all the bad things that happened to native people in the past (not true as anyone who reads the news knows) and that white irish people’s suffering was greater because they are irish.

this is where the people harassing me devolved into name calling and insults. i was in class at the time, which i said 3 times during the convo. yet i was insulted and harassed for not dropping everything i was doing and catering to the owner’s every whim. she demanded sources about why non native people having spirit animals was racist, and guilt tripped me when i told her again that i was in class and couldn’t do that until i got home.

i went away to go do classwork, and when i came back i had been kicked.

a friend showed me screenshots of what was happening, and i was being insulted even further. the owner still continued to throw a fit about the subject, making it all about white people again.

She’ll argue with you for hours and call you uneducated if your take on any kind of mythology is even a little different than hers, because she’s some kind of authority in her own mind and will shout you down if she doesn’t like your kintype for any reason. Even though most of her information is UPG…she’s just gotta be the final word in everything. Less serious, and more open to interpretation because obviously kintypes aren’t a provable thing, but it’s still disrespectful and shows what a control freak she is.

Honestly between the owner and a few white knights it’s damn near a cult in there. You don’t get to have a different opinion, even if you can back it up with research. You don’t get to voice any kind of dissent or discomfort, because she’s right, and why are you attacking her like this? It’s honestly pretty vile. I am fucking starving for somewhere to talk about otherkin stuff with reasonable adults, but I wouldn’t go back here if it were the last server on Earth, because the reasonable adults are harassed into silence or off the server, and then shit-talked behind their backs, and it’s run by someone who is both paranoid and lacking in normal empathy.

They check an alarming number of boxes on the checklist of cult traits, some of them fully, some of them partially, but a simple Discord server should not be checking off any of these boxes.

This is just gonna be a bit of a callout post.

first off they blantantly hate aro and ace people and literally every “joke” is at the expense of aros and aces.

even when the subject has NOTHING to do with aspecs

and besides that they also get mad when people ask them to tone down their white people hate (and in the second screenshot they call a latino person a fucking bootlicker for not agreeing with them)

and the other day they bullied a disabled person out of the server because;;;; they get disability checks

all around they’re just a shit server run by a bunch of shit people who still care about “whites kinning outside their race” in fucking 2018. they hate aspecs, they harass disabled people for no reason, and they also have called black people white or “white apologists” for not being comfortable with them talking about how much they wanna genocide white people. also they silenced my friend, misgendered them, and yelled at them calling them a racist bitch because they were trying to speak in vc. dm me for that voice recording. its wild.

also fuck it i hate these bitches their tags are as follows:

Yun#1998

ci#4296

ghost#0689

sprklypantsu#0821

Arce#4367