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chateauofmymind

have you ever suddenly + involuntarily lost consciousness

yes (fainted)

yes (head trauma)

yes (substance-induced)

yes (lack of oxygen)

yes (blood loss)

yes (multiple)

no

Remaining time: 5 days 15 hours

#yuh #got really bad cold + really bad period lmao #also prev YOU GOT HIT BY A TRAIN??????

prettyboykatsuki-moved

i always mean it when i say i love you btw

prettyboykatsuki-moved

‘but thats a stranger you dont know’ and i love them. i love that they exist and i love that they passed through my life. and i love u too btw

teathattast

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prettyboykatsuki-moved

i always mean it when i say i love you btw

prettyboykatsuki-moved

‘but thats a stranger you dont know’ and i love them. i love that they exist and i love that they passed through my life. and i love u too btw

teathattast

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prettyboykatsuki-moved

i always mean it when i say i love you btw

prettyboykatsuki-moved

‘but thats a stranger you dont know’ and i love them. i love that they exist and i love that they passed through my life. and i love u too btw

teathattast

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prettyboykatsuki-moved

i always mean it when i say i love you btw

prettyboykatsuki-moved

‘but thats a stranger you dont know’ and i love them. i love that they exist and i love that they passed through my life. and i love u too btw

teathattast

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prettyboykatsuki-moved

i always mean it when i say i love you btw

prettyboykatsuki-moved

‘but thats a stranger you dont know’ and i love them. i love that they exist and i love that they passed through my life. and i love u too btw

teathattast

reblog to tell your mutuals you love them for existing

prettyboykatsuki-moved

i always mean it when i say i love you btw

prettyboykatsuki-moved

‘but thats a stranger you dont know’ and i love them. i love that they exist and i love that they passed through my life. and i love u too btw

teathattast

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interestingmistakes

Reblogging this manually. Op doesn't want credit for fear of being terminated.

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hexjulia

wanting to vent a bit/being worried about privacy will have you posting like i'm dealing with issues and problems. situations have happened to me. and there are emotions i'm experiencing about this. or not. gotta keep 'em on their toes.

#misc posts #q

gotylocks

Happy 10th birthday to the best tweet of all time.

#q #misc posts #funnies

angelofthemornings-deactivated2

One thing I really like about Beverly Engel's book It Wasn't Your Fault, which is about PTSD-induced toxic shame, is that quite a bit of it deals with people who haven't broken The Cycle of Abuse (TM) and have gone on to hurt others. That's a really underserved and vulnerable patient population, and statistically, it's also MASSIVE. I don't think I've read a single other self-help type book on PTSD and self-loathing that confronts the possibility that you're exactly as bad as you think you are.

angelofthemornings-deactivated2

I felt better that it so much as mentioned that children can react to abuse with ungovernable rage. Everybody likes the image of PTSD patients as internalizing everything and becoming doormats, which does happen, and often, but it's not the only narrative. Personally I've always hated my abusers and have always wanted everyone who so much as breathed wrong in my direction from ages 0 to 18 to burn eternally in hell. I *never* thought any of it was my fault and ever since I was a toddler I was willing to make it everybody else's problem, and it's really relieving to read a clinical perspective that acknowledges that abuse victims can act that way too.

reasonablywittyatbest

It's wild to me that its such a neglected subset of abuse victims. Its really common. When I still lived with my parents and was still subjected to my father every fucking day I would lash out terribly at my mother, to the point when i went to visit them for years afterwards she was afraid I would lash out again. We've worked it out, I'm a much better person when I'm not regularly subjected to mental and emotional abuse, but like, its just so common.

I think it must be, at least partially, because, people hate the imperfect victim. Its easy for so many people to sympathize with someone who never lashed out. Less so for people to sympathize with people who are angry and lash out. Even though its a perfectly sensible reaction to being hurt over and over. I'm sure most people would like to think they would simply never.

I don't think this is the whole reason, but, I think it plays into it.

sunspotpony

Similarly, there’s a narrative of, you cannot experience grief over having fucked up. That if you are hurting because you caused harm, because you were the cause of harm, that you’re not allowed to grieve, because you “earned your sorrow. You deserve to bottle it up and to hurt for the bad things you have done,”

Which is punitive logic. It’s copthink. Which is bad.

angelofthemornings-deactivated2

important

In fact, you can actually give yourself trauma over fucking up too badly and doing, witnessing, or failing to prevent something evil that goes against your morals; for instance, if you steal your mother's life savings due to drug addiction, kill a civilian during a military operation (please do not join the military), or became abusive because you didn't have the tools and skills yet to handle BPD. In the field of psychology this is called "moral injury" or "perpetrator trauma."

#q #misc posts #not to blorbo post about Serious Topic #but I do think understanding this is an important aspect of writing and understanding characters as a whole #sometimes they will be imperfect victims #anyway *points at Inigo* who's been mistreated by various systems of power with social ostracisation and violence #obviously he's going to think it's fine to be violent back to the people who keep hurting you and hurting people like you

scottishcommune

Statement from the Fire Brigades Union on the transphobic EHRC code of practice 🔥🔥🔥

#misc posts #uk politics

elliespectacular

Happy 24-6-01!

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claudiawolf

SILENT HILL 3 (2003) dev. Team Silent

#q #gifs #silent hill #vg

invisible-goats

Potato Bracket

Ok, here's how we're going to do this

I have 49 potato formats. Some are similar, but I believe they are all different, if sometime only by one ingredient

As such, I will do 7 polls of 7 options each. This gives every option an equal shot at votes. The 32 options with the most votes will be seeded into a bracket

That being said

Pick a spud!

Kartoffelpuffer - shredded potato pancakes

Colcannon - mashed potato with cabbage

Champ - mashed potato with spring onion

Farls/potato cakes - mashed potato pancake

Dauphinoise - sliced in a creamy garlic sauce

Scallop - sliced in a cheesy sauce

Jacket - baked with toppings

Remaining time: 14 hours 46 minutes

#SCALLOP MVP #I LOVE YOU SCALLOPED POTATOES

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