system affirmations

i can understand being stuck in a spot and you are angry because you are stuck feeling miserable being a system its not fun and you are valid to feel that way but it will never be an excuse to actively harass or hate on someone who is showing being happy as a system someone who is in recovery ect i understand being in that point that you feel angry and being unhappy because someone else is recovering and being happy so why can't i? it will never be an excuse though you shouldn't fakeclaim anyone for showing online that they are comfortable as a system.

not sure if this is the same on tumblr but i have noticed systems putting others down constantly for expressing themselves so i just want to say it is great if you express yourself! you found an outfit that really defines you? wear it own it! you want to draw yourself a lot? thats so cool i bet you art is lovely! you want to buy small things that make you happy? i bet whatever you want will be great! you aren't fake if you want to express yourself and you interests you aren't faking if you dress more feminine or masculine or androgynous than other headmates i hate to see people putting others down for simply wanting to be happy and achieving that goal.

hello i have a question which i need peoples input on because i haven't seen well structured arguments about since they are more offhanded remarks this isn't system related but it is more directed to the transgender community on the stance of a word femboy or rose boy. i have seen many people say that using the term femboy can be considered transphobic because of people calling transgender woman that and that we should change the term to rose boy but i have also seen the otherside that is just saying that femboy only stands for feminine boy and it isn't transphobic unless directed as such i'd just like to hear some opinions about this but i can understand if some people may be uncomfortable by it this post most likely will be taken down in a few days or hours as it isn't system related this is just the only platform where i can get some input edit: thank you all for everyone in the comments willing to talk to me and tell me whats wrong with the term in depth, i now understand.

hey i just want to put it out here as well i am not sure if i have shared our stance on this but. we do not believe in alter race, your alters cannot be a different race from the body, please do not use cultural names that you can't reclaim bodily.