Daffodils + Purses

can you imagine wearing a boy’s hoodie…and the smell of his cologne lingering on it…or having a girl sleep in your bed…and her perfume lingering on your sheets…just think about that for a second, bisexuals

i mean, maybe this is my inner “survivor of child abuse” talking, but I am not going to tell abusive parents that they’re bad at bringing up their children without a bullet proof plan with regards to how I could protect my student from the emotional and physical backlash of that meeting.

Important thing to remember about intervening in abuse in general. Any actions taken by others to hold the abuser accountable WILL be taken out on the victim and not the person doing the confronting. Do not confront an abuser about their actions unless you know for absolute certain that you can protect their victim from the fallout.

AN ABBREVIATED GUIDE TO ‘holy shit my friend is in an abusive relationship what do I do’

I will say... child abuse is nothing like an adult relationship. This conversation has been had; that's your opinion. Is it abusive? By 1995 the courts determined, here in Arizona, when you broke up another loving relationship that was not abusive, but you wanted to play SEX and the CITY with people who don't know you, don't want to know you, and have issued YOU the GOOD FRIEND they have never met the DEATH PENALTY UNDER A HATE CRIME FOR YOUR INTERVENTION IN A STRANGERS LIFE.

i mean, maybe this is my inner “survivor of child abuse” talking, but I am not going to tell abusive parents that they’re bad at bringing up their children without a bullet proof plan with regards to how I could protect my student from the emotional and physical backlash of that meeting.

Important thing to remember about intervening in abuse in general. Any actions taken by others to hold the abuser accountable WILL be taken out on the victim and not the person doing the confronting. Do not confront an abuser about their actions unless you know for absolute certain that you can protect their victim from the fallout.

AN ABBREVIATED GUIDE TO ‘holy shit my friend is in an abusive relationship what do I do’