Cute Discourse

i know the world is harsh. i’ve experienced some of its harshness, so i understand your need for age regression. age regression is perfectly healthy! i even age regress myself.

but cgl is not the way to go.

let me explain. cgl is a kink (even cglre) because it comes from the d/s (dom/sub) part of the bdsm acronym and is a form of ageplay (which promotes pedophilia). no matter how you put it, cgl (and its variants) are a kink.

if you are involved in cgl, i suggest you get out of the community and the lifestyle. it’s unhealthy.

if you’re involved in sexual cgl, take a moment to ask yourself why your partner likes to get off to you acting like a child. why do they associate childlike behavior with sex? do you know what happens if you associate childlike behavior with sex? you become a pedophile.

your dom might love you, that i do not doubt. but controlling what you eat, wear, and who you hang out with? that’s not love. that’s abuse.

if you have any further questions, feel free to send in an ask or dm me! as long as you’re polite, i will be polite as well. i have nothing against you, i have everything against the kink.

“what other communities are there?” you might ask. @teenietots is a great place for age regressors, but you must leave the cgl community first!

Cgl and all its varients, inlcuding Ddlg, are a subset of Dom/sub dynamics. Which is a key part of the BDSM acronym. Meaning that no matter how you practice it, its always a kink. If you are not practicing kink, yet you use terms from a kink, you are telling others you are practicing kink, even though that’ not what you’re doing. Words are used to explain to others what you are doing, using words the majority of people associate with kink, and are used by kink, is literally telling people “I am part of this kink.” If that’s not what you mean, use words that mean what you mean. There’s quite a few, I promise its not hard to find what you mean.

The actual kink Cgl, and other ageplay kinks, do sexualize children, because its based on one or both partners finding pleasure in the other acting as a child. Meaning they find child behaviors sexually attractive. So that kink does sexualize children. If you are claiming to be part of that kink, you are claiming to sexualize children, even if that’s not what you are doing. 

So, yes, you would end up on a blocklist for interacting with me, or any of my community members. Because your blog tells me you are a kinkster. If that’s not what you are, use words that say that instead of trying to change the meaning of words you have no business using. 

You are entitled. You are upset that people who are uncomfortable with the community you place yourself in, voluntarily, don’t want your interaction. You are upset that people do not want to interact with kink. You are upset that people do not consent to kink interaction. Yes, you are entitled. And until you stop interacting with those who do not want your interaction, you will be entitled.

If I remember correctly, the big push to keep it in the DSM came from the pharmaceutical companies who need this diagnosis to exist so that they can market a drug they are currently working on to treat “female sexual interest/arousal disorder”. 

This diagnosis is so fucked up. It not only pathologizes Asexuals, it also pathologizes non-asexual women for having less interest in sex than men. This disorder literally used to be called “Frigidity” and feminist psychologists had to fight like hell to get the DSM to clarify that simply having a lower sex drive than one’s husband was not sufficient for a diagnosis. 

The APA throws in that little disclaimer about being a “self-identified asexual” and the diagnostic criteria of distress, but they did the same thing before they removed homosexuality from the DSM. 

A lot of people think that psychologists stopped considering homosexuality a disorder in the 1970s, but that’s not entirely true. They kept it in the DSM with a slightly changed name and a criteria that the person experience distress about being gay. This was used to justify “reparative therapy” for decades. 

this is a bit outside of my usual posts, but…

ive had a lot of trouble with NSFW blogs following my trauma blog, and i know a lot of other survivors have been having the same issues. so, i figured id make this set in case anyone needed them

This site is 13+

Therefore, 13 year olds are allowed on here 

There are also specific rules that say you shouldn’t bully minors or show them inappropriate content in any way

Stop being assholes to kids 

Stop telling them to grow up or show them inappropriate images with the intention of making them uncomfortable

If you remember being a kid, it was crappy and stressful

So don’t make things worse for them by treating them like shit

If you have a problem with 13 year olds being on this site, talk to Tumblr about it don’t flip out at minors and try and bully them off the site.

Quit

Being

Assholes

to

Minors

like for URLs along the lines of [character]-against-ddlg I’ll draw said character

or if you don’t have a character it can be you/your kin/OC/whatever

as I said anti blogs only

here’s an example for myself (Witt is just fun to draw I guess)

might take a while since school starts soon but I’ll get to everyone, no deadline

http://thinkbeforeyoupink.org/

http://www.somethingawful.com/feature-articles/for-the-cure/

http://thestir.cafemom.com/in_the_news/132728/susan_g_komen_foundation_has

that’s right fracking you know, a process using chemicals known to cause cancer that leech into the water supply

http://www.triplepundit.com/2014/10/baker-hughes-fights-breast-cancer-pink-fracking-drill-bits/

Breast Cancer Research Foundation

Cancer Research Institute

Dana-Farber Cancer Institute

If the only reason you aren’t acting on your impulses is because you will be prosecuted, then you are pro contact.

More anti edits! Please follow @mr-mime-against-cgl where I’m Mod Rose! 

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