i’m river (he/him), 26 years, & queer (aromantic, bisexual, trans)! on a trans discourse kick recently. one thing u must understand is that i post things to be proven wrong! i engage in discussion genuinely and would appreciate the same respect in exchange ❤️
also very into project hail mary. occasionally i will draw
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people sure do love equating masculinity/maleness with evil, don’t they. there is nothing innately good, pure, or innocent about being a woman, and there is nothing innately cruel, insensitive, or evil about being a man, especially when you’re talking about transgender men.
most of us were likely raised as women, and have faced misogyny. why, then, is it assumed that the second we relabel ourselves as trans or begin our transition, we forget all about that and become identical to cisgender men in our experiences?
personally, i think i pass rather well, and i recognize the privilege that this grants me. i notice that people let me push a little harder because they recognize me as a man. and I think that no self-respecting trans man should ever take advantage of that, knowing how it feels to be on the opposite side. we have the societal ability to oppress women. that doesn’t mean we forget what it’s like to be an oppressed woman.
this went a little all over the place but tldr, changing your label and gaining a bit of societal privilege doesn’t mean that you’re a deplorable individual who doesn’t care about others. societal position does not equate personhood.
the thing is nobody is saying "transmascs are the literal enemies of humanity and if you're transmasc you either detransition or die in flames as the enemy of everything good forever" unironically.
like privilege does NOOOOOT make you inherently a bad person.
privilege usually does a specific thing:
makes you more ignorant on the axis you're privileged in. you're unaware of the stuggle of the disprivileged group of the same axis, and since this bigotry is something we absorb since early childhood from everywhere and every space and media: you are more likely to also be bigoted about it, it's not a literal guarantee but since your life doesn't depend on it and you won't get aoe blown up by association for standing for, yu're more likely to stand against.
sometimes even when you stand for those who are disprivileged, you can accidentally make a bigoted joke or say something bigoted. this might NOT be a BIG deal for you because it's not something that affects you, not because you're evil, it's not having full understanding of how deeply ingrained it is.
sometimes when you're told what you did was bigoted, you default to thinking you're being accused of being evil. you are not evil, you are privileged.
sometimes when you're told you have relative privilege, you default to thinking you're accused of not being oppressed at ALL. that is unso. being white doesn't absolve you being a lesbian, for example, but a white lesbian can be really violently racist, there's examples!
sometime when you're told you have relative privilege, you think you're being told you have your life good. it's not that. your life might suck because of something you're oppressed for. it just as a rule doesn't suck even MORE because of some privileges you have.
(also no, you can't compare white transfems to transmascs of color, it doesn't work like that, you would compare transfems of color with transmascs of color, etc.)
(also if you think us speaking is annoying, it's probably because you're not used to us speaking, and think about why is that so instead of thinking it's unusual and thus annoying)
"im not saying feminism is for everyone but-" the fuck? well im saying that. feminism is for everyone. yes even cishet men will benefit from feminism and cishet men should be feminists because cishet men are indeed harmed by the patriarchy; nowhere near to the extent that women are, but having a culture that is fully equal and anti-misogynist benefits everyone. have we forgotten that lifting up the disenfranchised people in society helps all of us as a collective? "im not saying that universal and unalienable human rights are for everyone but-" YES THE FUCK THEY ARE LOL
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I don't think cis men commit 90% of violent crimes because they are naturally more violent than cis women. I think cis men commit 90% of violent crimes because they are afforded more opportunity and leeway by society to do so.
I think there's an incredible correlation between insulating cis boys from the consequences of their actions and the prevalence of violent crime.
I think we teach cis boys from a young age that violence will be tolerated from them as long as they perform masculinity to society's standards.
That second part is the salient factor here. Because we also teach them that violence will not be tolerated from them if they defy society's standards of masculinity, even if it's self defense. If they're picked on for defying those standards, it's the violence against them that's validated.
I think cis boys who are performing masculinity to society's standards get in no real trouble for snapping their classmates' bra straps or pulling their hair or whatever else gets written off as "he likes you" & it sets them up for a life of violence.
It doesn't guarantee it. But it raises the probability that they will continue to express their desires via violence when they're adults.
identifying as a man doesn’t inherently give you privilege. presenting as one does.
identity is complex, multi-faceted, and unique to each person, and (most of) society doesn’t see it whatsoever. the only thing that (most of) society sees is whether you look more like a man or woman, and how feminine or masculine you are between those two aforementioned identities. if you’re a transgender man who hasn’t taken steps towards transitioning and doesn’t pass (valid), you likely don’t experience male privilege because you aren’t seen as a man.
if you do pass and you aren’t out to anyone, you do experience male privilege. if you pass and people do know you’re trans, you still experience male privilege, though perhaps not to the same extent.
presenting as masculine or feminine within the society-assigned identities of man or woman doesn’t affect whether or not you have privilege, though it does affect how you’re treated. someone seen as a feminine man still experiences male privilege, and someone seen as a masculine privilege does not.
and of course society bulldozing over our identities sucks. of course being constantly put in boxes like this is terrible. our feelings about it don’t mean that we pretend it isn’t something that happens, though. identity, in the end, matters less to the world than one’s public perception.
also! this is all talking about societal issues. oppression and privilege in the law are different issues, of course.
i think i may have missed some points; feel free to add on if there’s something relevant and important i skipped.
okay so the thing is it's not about presentation, it's about perception. and perceptions are formed not only by presentation, but external knowledge as well.
as privilege is socially granted, whether an out but passing trans man, since that's the example we're discussing(why?), will also depend on whether the social group they're in even believes in transitioning.
yup! i did mention perception in the post. this post was made under the assumption that the society we’re talking about is general society, not a queer group or a radfem group or people you’re close with. it’s a pretty heavy assumption, i know; not every group will treat an out trans person the same way, which is why i didn’t go into great detail with that example.
speaking of that example, i wanted to use it to show that male privilege is often an unconscious thing. if someone looks like a man, it’s likely that they’ll subconsciously be treated like one, even if someone else knows that they’re not a cis man.
identifying as a man doesn’t inherently give you privilege. presenting as one does.
identity is complex, multi-faceted, and unique to each person, and (most of) society doesn’t see it whatsoever. the only thing that (most of) society sees is whether you look more like a man or woman, and how feminine or masculine you are between those two aforementioned identities. if you’re a transgender man who hasn’t taken steps towards transitioning and doesn’t pass (valid), you likely don’t experience male privilege because you aren’t seen as a man.
if you do pass and you aren’t out to anyone, you do experience male privilege. if you pass and people do know you’re trans, you still experience male privilege, though perhaps not to the same extent.
presenting as masculine or feminine within the society-assigned identities of man or woman doesn’t affect whether or not you have privilege, though it does affect how you’re treated. someone seen as a feminine man still experiences male privilege, and someone seen as a masculine privilege does not.
and of course society bulldozing over our identities sucks. of course being constantly put in boxes like this is terrible. our feelings about it don’t mean that we pretend it isn’t something that happens, though. identity, in the end, matters less to the world than one’s public perception.
also! this is all talking about societal issues. oppression and privilege in the law are different issues, of course.
i think i may have missed some points; feel free to add on if there’s something relevant and important i skipped.
No one is "infighting", men just don't like being told that women are more hated. men being more valued than women doesn't go away once you put trans in front of the words
and a small sect of trans women tell all “tme”s to kill themselves. an extreme is not representative of a minority, and transgender people are a minority. some may be men, and some may be women, some are neither or both or any combination, but in the eyes of the government, we are all trans and we are all subhuman. a transgender man who passes will lose his “extra value” real damn fast if he gets his rights stripped, which is happening in real time.
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how did we lose the plot so hard with feminism and activism like seriously… are we forgetting that being kind and loving to the men and boys in your life, teaching them as kids if you are a parent to be kind respectful humans, and showing them how to be emotionally vulnerable and making a society in which it is safe to do so was like…. A huge part of feminism, dismantling patriarchal values, and creating a generation of loving men who are held accountable for their actions?
Why is it “kill all men yes even the trans ones and if you say otherwise you’re an MRA” and not “let’s maybe create a world that encourages good men.” Did we forget that feminism was supposed to be good for everyone and that the patriarchy harms men and boys as well?
Like maybe we should care about male loneliness and the male suicide rate BECAUSE MAYBE WED HAVE FEWER SOCIETAL PROBLEMS if 100% of the population wasn’t traumatized by gendered expectations and not being taught decent communication skills/how to be emotionally vulnerable. And definitely we would if fucking redpill echo chambers weren’t the places most willing to accept and nurture (groom into hateful ideology) young men.
The problem has never been men, cis or trans, being uniquely capable of evil the problem has always been the fact that cishet patriarchal culture encourages and rewards shitty behavior that makes everyone involved bitter and miserable and calls it masculinity.
oml. i’m so fucking tired of this actually. why are we still arguing about who is more oppressed when trans people are actively being erased and killed. this is such an online issue. put your poorly thought-out theory down and start upholding your fellow trans people, in real life. we are being killed. we are being killed. we are being killed.
trans women are being banned from sports. estrogen is becoming a controlled substance. testosterone is already a controlled substance. teachers, doctors, and therapists in some states might have to out young transgender people to their parents. hrt is becoming more and more difficult to get. we are being ostracized, we are being oppressed, we are being killed.
this. is not. the time. to be fighting each other. your living, breathing, beating heart is in somebody else’s hands and it is not another trans person’s.
I am fucking BEGGING transmascs (and everyone else) to not let the animosity of a VERY SMALL GROUP of very online transfems impact how you interact with transfems or think about transfems.
please, please, please remember that this "hating transmascs" and "kill all TMEs" bullshit is just a few edgy weirdos on the internet who enjoy saying inflammatory things for shock value.
transfems are not your enemy, and YES, you do actually need to unlearn transmisogyny. Not because you're transmasc, but because we live in a transmisogynistic society.
transfems are not a hivemind, there's no broader transfem consensus that transmascs are Evil Privileged Abusers, but the small group of people who think that way WANT you to believe that they are representative of trans women everywhere. they're super not. they really are just a handful of angsty people online looking for someone to pick on.
all trans people have more commonalities than differences. there aren't two distinct species of trans people from two different planets, there are just trans people with a wide diversity of experiences and walks of life. we are all affected by the same systems of oppression.
find community and mutual support with transfems. build solidarity and have conversations about how we can help each other. the only way we all get through this shit is together.
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Transandrophobia is a term used to describe the specific oppression faced by trans men. It is alternately defined as a specific anti-masculine prejudice,i the intersection of transphobia and misogyny,ii or as a general catch-all to describe any transphobia faced by trans men.iii However, the fact that there exist multiple conflicting definitions of the term, combined with the fact that there is no real theoretical basis for the term’s existence, and that most articulations of the term rely on implicitly antifeminist logic, there is in fact no such thing as transandrophobia. Although trans men do face specific struggles, transandrophobia is the wrong framework, and any attempt to frame trans men’s issues through the lens of transandrophobia is antifeminist, and therefore misogynistic.
Transandrophobia exists, in part or in whole, as a response to the term trans-misogyny.iv Trans-misogyny was coined by Julia Serano in 2007 to describe the specific intersection of misogyny and transphobia as experienced by trans women.v This has proved a useful term that has produced a vast body of trans-feminist literature. However, transandrophobia as a counterpart term is nonsensical. The term seems to describe the intersection of transphobia and “androphobia”, or, systemic discrimination against men. This is nonsensical — in the male supremacist world in which we live, there is no systematic discrimination against men. Men may be punished for other traits or characteristics, but never for the mere fact of their being a man. The false parallel between trans-misogyny and transandrophobia becomes more apparent when the term trans-misandry is used. Trans-misandry is sometimes used as a synonym for transandrophobia and has, shockingly, been used in a published academic article.vi The frameworks of transandrophobia and trans-misandry rely on the notion that there exists such a thing as a systematic oppression of men, an inherently antifeminist notion. Thus, the terms are by their very nature misogynistic. To argue that men are just as oppressed as women is to argue that women are not really oppressed.
Transandrophobia is positioned as an intersectional feminist term. Intersectional feminist terms are used to describe the experiences of groups that face oppression simultaneously on two or more axes, such as misogynoir (the oppression of Black women, who are oppressed both for their gender and their race), lesbophobia (the oppression of lesbians, who are oppressed both for their gender and their sexuality), or trans-misogyny (the oppression of trans women, who are oppressed for both their gender and their trans status). Transmisogynoir, a term used to describe the specific oppression faced by Black trans women, describe the experiences of a triply-oppressed group. However, trans men are not a doubly oppressed group. They are men who are privileged “but for” their trans status; if they were men who were not trans, they would not be oppressed.vii Trans women, conversely, are not privileged either on the basis of their gender or their trans status — if they were women who were not trans, they would still be oppressed for being women.
That trans men are privileged over trans women is apparent from comparisons between the experiences of the two groups. To quote from a previous essay of mine:
Trans men have an easier time “passing” than trans women.viii Trans women are more likely than trans men to be discriminated against at rape crisis centers after they are targets of sexual violence.ix Trans women are more likely to be excluded from family events, harassed, assaulted on the street, or sexually assaulted than trans men.x Trans women are more likely to be accused of soliciting sex or accused of not disclosing their HIV status than trans menxi — both of these playing on persistent stereotypes that paint [trans women] as “rapists” or “sexual deviants”. Trans men, unlike trans women, are not on the receiving end of a decades-long moral panic painting them as irredeemable sexual predators.xii
Furthermore, trans men on average make more money than trans women,xiii and in over 80% of trans homicides, the victim is a trans woman, usually a Black trans woman.xiv Recent U.S. Supreme Court arguments have suggested that it would be permissible for laws to discriminate only against trans women but not trans men,xv a form of blatant legal discrimination eerily reminiscent of the court cases that prompted Kimberlé Crenshaw to originally coined the term intersectionality.xvi
The reason that transandrophobia is the wrong framework is that it posits some form of structural opposition to maleness or masculinity. This is, simply put, not an existing force. By positing that such a structural oppression of men exists, those who theorize transandrophobia situate themselves firmly within the traditions of men’s rights activist (MRA) movements, movements that attempts to undermine feminism by theorizing that men are just as oppressed as women. Trans men have a long history of articulating such frameworks.xvii Those who argue for extant transandrophobia sometimes argue that LGBT spaces have a bias against masculinity — a patently absurd assertion when the most popular and best-funded queer spaces are run by and for gay men. These spaces are often highly transphobic, but hardly anti-masculine. Transandrophobia, as a framework, exists to do what male anti-feminists have always done: to chastise feminists for being too mean to men. Because, in this case, the men are trans, it is their demographic peers — trans women — who are most directly hurt by the anti-feminism of the transandrophobia framework. Trans women’s experiences can only be adequately understood through a properly feminist lens; the transandrophobia framework rejects this lens entirely. The framework is antifeminist, and “Antifeminism is a direct expression of misogyny; it is the political defense of woman hating.”xviii
Transandrophobia is the wrong framework for understanding trans men’s oppression. It points our analytical compass and entirely the wrong direction, leading us down a dead end path that that can only end in resentment towards trans women. Freed then from the shackles of this dubious framework, let us briefly theorize an understanding of trans men’s oppression.
Two primary forms of sexism structure gender relations: traditional sexism and oppositional sexism. Traditional sexism is the ideology that men are superior to women; oppositional sexism is the ideology that man and woman are mutually exclusive categories with no overlapping traits.xix Oppositional sexism targets people of either gender, beating them into line as gender-conforming men and women — but traditional sexism primarily targets women, privileging men over women. Men may be targeted by traditional sexism insofar as they have proximity to women (such as if they are gay or “effeminate”), but all women are targeted, regardless of gender presentation.
Prior to transition and in the early stages of transition, trans men who are punished for masculine presentation are targeted by oppositional sexism. This oppositional sexism will cease to be a factor when the trans man “passes” as male. In the early stages of transition, many trans men are denied reproductive and bodily autonomy, consistent with traditional sexism, as trans man in this phase are perceived as being “female”. This is structured by race — white trans men are considered “valuable breeders” by the white supremacist patriarchal state, while trans men of color are not.xx Once trans men pass as men, they experience violence primarily to the extent that they are marked as queer or feminine.xxi This violence bears many similarities to forms of homophobic violence against queer men, but violence against trans men carries the additional force of regendering, that is, the attempt to return the trans man to the subjugated position of woman.xxii This has also been theorized as a form of transemasculation, ejection from the category of man.xxiii In addition, so long as a trans man continues to have “female” reproductive organs, he will face the same misogynistic struggles with reproductive autonomy as cissexual women, plus additional struggles — “women’s” healthcare clinics are often not prepared to treat people who visually appear to be men. This is not a permanent state of being; the organs in question can be removed via surgery.
Although the term transandrophobia has existed for a number of years, it has never received extensive study in feminist or academic literature. I have yet to find any writing on the topic longer than a single blog post. The person who coined the term, Tumblr user st-dionysus, has been working on a book for years. To date, only four pages have been released, riddled with typos and dubious analysis. But the fact that transandrophobia has been undertheorized does not mean that there is no writing about trans men — it just means that transandrophobia is the wrong framework. In the interest of pointing the reader towards further reading about the experiences of trans men, I will share some of my favorite passages that analyze trans men through a feminist framework. From Jamison Green,
I think when trans men fail to see how they benefit from male privilege simply by being seen as men, they are living with the kind of blindness that may — in Blake and Kim’s case — be caused by racial sensitivities, which in the United States can be more demanding as a survival issue on a day-to-day basis than gender concerns. Other factors could be at play, too, for any trans man, such as conditioning that keeps him from experiencing his maleness fully because he is always on guard about being discovered and labeled a transsexual. ... All trans men have male privilege even if they aren’t aware of it, and they have opportunities to manage it differently than cisgender men. Their male privilege may be taken away from them along with the recognition as males if their transness is discovered by those people who refuse to acknowledge the veracity of their gender, but male privilege is not what most transsexual men are seeking.xxiv
From Jude Doyle,
Even within trans communities, there’s a tremendous amount of flailing and confusion around trans men’s relationship to misogyny: How can someone be subject to sexism in some ways and benefit from sexism in other ways? How can someone be hurt by misogyny without being a woman, or fail to accrue full benefit from patriarchy despite being a man? (Most men don’t accrue full benefit from patriarchy.) Maybe it’s actually all about capitalism. Maybe there’s some analogy to race. Maybe it wasn’t actually misogyny — maybe it was some different thing, with a different name, that makes it different from what women go through. Maybe we’re just imagining things. Maybe it wasn’t that bad.
From Catharine MacKinnon,
Under male dominance, in transitioning, trans women lose status, trans men gain it. Trans women are doubly intersectionally discriminated against as women and as trans, triply if of color. Trans men, although their gendered social standing is documented to be improved, may be seen as lesser men the ways gay men and racially subordinated men often are. Trans women, as women, become newly sexualized as targets for incursion, abuse, and devaluation; trans men, as men, no longer occupy that social location, except to the extent they may continue to appear to the male gaze as feminine men, marked by femininity for sexual and other violence (especially dangerously if it is “discovered” that they have female genitalia).xxvi
From Viviane Namaste,
FTM who are raped are told, through the act of sexual assault, that they are “really” women, and they will be treated as such. Biology is destiny. The rape of an FTM declares that “women” have no right to be out in public — especially when unaccompanied by a man — and that these individuals have no right to act “as if” they are men. This instance of violence is more than a mere attack on someone perceived to be a gay man; it is fundamentally about policing one’s gender presentation in public sites. The act of rape functions as an aggressive reinscription of the FTM individual’s biological sex and social gender.xxvii
From Talia Bhatt,
… the reason that transfemininity has been more visible across both time and cultures is that the veneration of manhood is highly central to patriarchal modes of organization. The idea that manhood can be failed, an individual can fail to live up to its mantle and be stripped of manhood’s privileges and protections is a useful schema to ensure ideological investment in patriarchal society. The transfeminized serve as examples of what happens to gender traitors. The transmasculine, by contrast, are ignored or treated as little more than delusional, as people who reach above their station and are doomed to never succeed.
In that sense, transmasculinity is subject to regendering. Where transmisogynistic forces marginalize and ostracize the transfeminine from society, rendering us unworthy of any fate outside of being treated like sexual chattel, transemasculative forces deny the transmasculine any possibility of escaping reproductive exploitation and seek to re-gender the transmasculine — viewed as lapsed reproductive assets — back in the confines of womanhood. These forces are complementary and interrelated, but not identical.xxviii
From Jules Gill-Peterson,
While trans-masculine or nonbinary people are occasionally deemed rescuable by people like Shrier if they were to renounce and detransition — a horrifically demeaning genocidal prospect in itself — anti-trans politics has proven itself strident in its goal of eliminating trans womanhood by any means necessary, to the point that when right-wing media targets trans men or trans-masculine people for harassment or misinformation, they often misgender them in a way that implies they are trans women.xxix
The forces of sexism, traditional and oppositional, act upon trans men in distinct ways. Good theorization has been done on this topic, and there is always room for more. I have taken a crack at this theorization myself.xxx But it is always crucial that these theoretical frameworks not steamroll over the specific experiences of trans women — and it is precisely this steamrolling that is transandrophobia‘s wont. Although trans men do face certain specific challenges, and a wide variety of intense forms of oppression, the term transandrophobia is a fundamentally inaccurate and antifeminist framework for conceptualizing trans men’s oppression. To use the term is to reveal oneself to be either ignorant or a reactionary misogynist.
i st-dionysus, “What Is Transandrophobia and Why Is It Called That? By the Guy Who Coined It and Is Kind of Tired of Seeing It Defined in the Opposite of What It’s Meant to Describe.,” Tumblr, June 10, 2024, https://www.tumblr.com/st-dionysus/755668731267629056.
ii Kira Leigh, “Why Don’t Trans Men Have a Word for What We Go Through?,” An Injustice!, October 12, 2021, https://aninjusticemag.com/why-dont-trans-men-have-a-word-for-what-we-go-through-582d75dd20ed.
iii Evan Urquhart, “Elliot Page Is a Grown-Up,” Slate, March 19, 2021, https://slate.com/human-interest/2021/03/elliot-page-trans-men-infantilization.html.
iv Some authors are upfront about the fact that the term response to trans-misogyny. Others deny this fact. It seems difficult to deny when the word’s etymology can be traced through the earlier trans-misandry, a rather obvious response to trans-misogyny. See Leigh, “Why Don’t Trans Men Have a Word for What We Go Through?”; st-dionysus, “None. Transandrophobia Is Not the Opposite or the Mirror of Transmisogyny.,” Tumblr, March 13, 2026, https://www.tumblr.com/st-dionysus.
v Julia Serano, Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity (2007; 2nd ed., Seal Press, 2016).
vi Elías Cosenza Krell, “Is Transmisogyny Killing Trans Women of Color?,” TSQ: Transgender Studies Quarterly 4, no. 2 (2017): 234, https://doi.org/10.1215/23289252-3815033.
vii cf. Kimberle Crenshaw, “Demarginalizing the Intersection of Race and Sex: A Black Feminist Critique of Antidiscrimination Doctrine, Feminist Theory and Antiracist Politics,” sec. 8, University of Chicago Legal Forum 1989, no. 1 (1989): 151, http://chicagounbound.uchicago.edu/uclf/vol1989/iss1/8?utm_source=chicagounbound.uchicago.edu%2Fuclf%2Fvol1989%2Fiss1%2F8&utm_medium=PDF&utm_campaign=PDFCoverPages.
viii Viviane K. Namaste, Invisible Lives: The Erasure of Transsexual and Transgendered People (University of Chicago Press, 2000), 145.
ix “SEXUAL VIOLENCE & TRANSGENDER/ NON-BINARY COMMUNITIES,” National Sexual Violence Resource Center, 2019, 1, https://www.nsvrc.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/Transgender_infographic_508_0.pdf.
x Cecilia Chung et al., Positively Trans Report 3: See Us As People (Transgender Law Center, 2016), Table 4.B.
xi Chung et al., Positively Trans Report 3: See Us As People, Fig. 1.
xii Sara Moiseff, Against Tranny Hate: A Radical Transfeminist Manifesto (Self-published, 2026), 9.
xiii The Wage Gap Among LGBTQ+ Workers in the United States (HRC Foundation, n.d.), accessed March 19, 2026, https://www.hrc.org/resources/the-wage-gap-among-lgbtq-workers-in-the-united-states.
xiv Kelley Robinson and Tori Cooper, The Epidemic of Violence Against the Transgender & Gender-Expansive Community in the U.S. (Human Rights Campgain, 2024), https://reports.hrc.org/an-epidemic-of-violence-2024.
xv Amy Howe, “Supreme Court Appears Likely to Uphold Transgender Athlete Bans,” SCOTUSblog, n.d., accessed January 24, 2026, https://www.scotusblog.com/2026/01/supreme-court-appears-likely-to-uphold-transgender-athlete-bans/.
xvi Crenshaw, “Demarginalizing the Intersection of Race and Sex: A Black Feminist Critique of Antidiscrimination Doctrine, Feminist Theory and Antiracist Politics.”
xvii Aaron H. Devor, FTM: Female-to-Male Transsexuals in Society (Indiana University Press, 2016), 541, 546.
xviii Andrea Dworkin, Right-Wing Women, First Picador paperback edition (Picador, 2025), 186.
xix Serano, Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity, 13–14.
xx Jude Doyle, DILF: Did I Leave Feminism? (Melville House, 2025), chap. 3.
xxi Catharine A. MacKinnon, “A Feminist Defense of Transgender Sex Equality Rights,” pt. 88, Yale Journal of Law and Feminism 24, no. 2 (2023): 94.
i can't believe i have to say this in the big 26, but if you are a transgender man,
YOU HAVE MALE PRIVILEGE, AND DO NOT FACE TRANSMISOGYNY.
now, you may have several arguments to this: "but i don't have the privilege cis men do", "i still experience transphobia", "i experienced misogyny before i came out", etc, etc.
this is a fundamental misunderstanding of how privilege works. when looking at privilege, you need to take into account that it works on several axes. there's the axis of race, of religion, of economic class, AND of gender. (and tons of others, but i digress)
to break that last one down further, there's even an axis of cis-ness, if you will. (i.e., cis men do hold privilege over trans men, same thing for cis and trans women.)
what you aren't understanding is while the majority of the population holds privilege over you on the axis of gender, it is NOT because you are a man. it is because you're transgender.
another way to look at this is with myself. i am a white transgender woman. that gives me privilege over people of color because of my race, but i am still subject to misogyny from men of color. at the same time, while i and a transgender woman of color both face transmisogyny, i still have privilege she does not on account of my whiteness.
so what's my point? trans men, you taking on the gender of man gives you male privilege. it does not grant you the same level of privilege a cis man would have, BUT YOU STILL HAVE IT. you are still given a level of privilege that transgender women will never have. this is a fact that you NEED to come to terms with, especially in a time where transmisogyny has never been more prevalent.
in conclusion, love and support your sisters, know that we do recognize your struggles, and use the privilege you have to uplift us. please.
p.s.: i am a woman with very little patience for ignorance and hostility, and i will not allow it to fester in my notes. be respectful or get blocked.
p.p.s.: trans women of color, please feel free to add on to or correct anything i said. i love you, mwah ♡
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