We all knew this was coming

It takes time to set up. But it's super achievable and you can definitely start with like. Basic mimicry and hypnosis to get your feet wet. Later you start discussing your every boundary and value, nothing kept sacred, full agreement almost always the goal. This isn't exactly SSC but like. Per that other post neither is heavy obedience training. I think that's actually the hard part - society says it's fucked up to spend all your time devoted to someone, and a lot of people don't know how to reconcile wanting that without painting the person they're devoted to as evil and saying it's ok because it's consensual and the fact that it's evil is hot. You do not have to think this is evil. You can just staple your identity and sense of reality to someone and have them do the same back and watch your life get weirder. Make strange paracosms together. Lose track of who did what and whose tongue is whose. Join me in knowing the feeling of "I would answer that but I store that information in my other body."

I NEED YOU TO BE PRESENT

The degree to which 'erotic enjoyment of being the kind of thing that ontologically needs support despite its own interests and beliefs' is a common fantasy yet the adult/child power dynamic is so taboo to fetishize that it gets dressed up in outfits so you can enjoy it without thinking too hard about it.

To be helped by another in countless ways, for the express purpose of taking control from you. To have your attempts at developing agency sabotaged by another who you cannot fight. To be delicately and gently reduced to a non-agentic object by someone else.

To be recognized as a thing deserving of love not because of what you do but because of what you are. For your failures to be expected and understood by someone who simply knows better. To be condescended to as an expression of love.

To be reduced to a state where you can't take care of yourself. Where nothing makes sense and you have nothing you can do but rely on someone else. For this to be seen as affection, seen as a kind of love, for your status as possession to be a gift.