crazycat lady

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“Brothers! Stay on the right path! Don’t be lead astray by temptations like alcohol, drugs, money, fast cars, women…”

Women?? That’s your mother, your sister, your wife. And that’s all you reduced her to. Just another sin.

Being 4B is so easy as a woman because men do not offer much value to women’s lives

Let’s say a heterosexual couple decides to go 50/50. You will inevitably end up adding far more value to his life than you will receive in return.

Women typically end up doing the majority of:

• Domestic labor

• Acting as a therapist + Emotional support

• Managing pregnancy, childbirth, and breastfeeding (which cannot be split 50/50)

Women will inevitably become the default parent while still being expected to look beautiful, maintain an attractive appearance, and keep up with societal standards. So even in a 50/50 financial arrangement, women are not truly experiencing equality.

As a result, you’ll end up performing most of the “traditional feminine” roles while also contributing financially by providing 50% of your income. How do women benefit from this arrangement? While there are some couples who achieve a true 50/50 split, they are the minority. Most women end up doing a “double shift” — working their paid jobs and then handling the majority of household duties due to ingrained stereotypes. Studies show that women perform 70% of household chores even when they pay 50% of the bills.

Now, let’s consider a traditional heterosexual couple where the man is the provider:

• You’ll be expected to handle all the housework, cooking, cleaning, and domestic chores.

• You’ll be responsible for all childcare and emotional support.

• Pregnancy, childbirth, and child-rearing are entirely your responsibility.

• You are expected to be available for sex at all times because you are supposedly “privileged” to have a provider man.

• You must maintain an attractive appearance, staying in shape, and being visually appealing.

Essentially, you’re expected to act as a servant in exchange for what? For a man to “provide.” But what do you actually gain? Aside from room and board, what are you truly receiving in exchange for all the services you provide? If you were to outsource every service that women provide, a man’s salary likely wouldn’t cover the full cost of your labor. Even without this provider man, he would still need to work, earn a living, and maintain a home. So your labor is subsidizing his lifestyle.

Furthermore, there are inherent risks to being around men — even basic safety is a factor. Remember, one woman dies at the hands of a man every 10 minutes. Women are at greater risk of being harmed by their own husbands. There is always a chance the man you are with may be addicted to pornography, video games, or consuming harmful “red pill” propaganda that teaches males to manipulate and mentally abuse you. Men are often not worth the hassle or the investment, especially when they put your psychological well-being & life at risk.

The reality is that most men lack the looks, height, or wealth to even demand half of what they expect from women. Women have historically been forced to perform all these roles without any reciprocal return on investment (ROI). Women are being exploited in relationships with men. Women who still want to be in relationships with men and if they still choose to engage with men, they should demand more, do less, and prioritize themselves. Women are the prize. Men are the ones who struggle to be alone, who crave women’s attention, and who pay for services like webcam interactions and OnlyFans just to experience a connection with women.

Marriage and relationships with men typically decrease women’s quality of life. Men are often parasitic, siphoning women’s energy to build themselves up at the expense of women’s livelihood and well-being. Men live longer when they are with women, benefit financially, experience more success, are happier, and gain stability. The same cannot be said for women. The constant push for marriage and romance is because, without the illusion and intangible experience of “love,” men have little to offer women that is genuinely valuable. Without this idea of love, women have no reason to stay in relationships with men.

The dynamic between men and women is parasitic, when you have men who expect women perform the majority of domestic work, emotional labor, and support for men in relationships, which is actually unnatural when we consider how most species function in nature. Typically, it is males who must prove themselves to females, if they want a chance at reproduction. Patriarchal societies have flipped this natrual system by positioning men as the dominant gender for centuries, by making women dependent on men for survival. Without this dependence, men offer fuck all to women.

. There’s an actual ROI in having a career, being focused on education and money. Being with a man and having children is a 24-hour job. It never stops. ALL RISK, NO REWARD. If men want to be in relationships with women, they must make themselves useful. Most males are a burden and are to obnoxious and entitled to realise they are not worth the risk or hassle of adding all these responsibilities to women’s lives. If you meet a “unicorn” — a genuinely equal and supportive partner — that’s great. But RARE. But for the vast majority of women, males are simply not worth the cost.