#radfemsafe

feminism “ruins” everything because it makes you think. it stops you from blindly following anything. when i see myself in the mirror and my eyes are distracted by my acne or my crooked teeth or asymmetrical eyes, my brain starts recalling The Beauty Myth or Susan Sontag’s essays on beauty in On Women. with that, i can no longer stare at myself and see genuine imperfections meant to be fixed but rather i am allowed to confront the actual reason i see these imperfections in the first place. when i find myself or others being too quick to judge a woman and ignore the man’s wrongdoings, i think of Woman Hating and acknowledge these judgements. when i habitually refer to everyone as “guys”, i think of Invisible Women and recognize the default male in my language. when i start feeling lost and am tempted to fall back into religion, i think of the excerpts i read from When God Was A Woman and remember everything “Jesus” and “God” stole from us.

1. Women in porn act as a lightning rod for deviant sexuality; they take the hit so that women in the real world don't have to.

2. Masturbating to violence is an acceptable practice, as it helps a man refrain from raping women in reality.

3. Women in porn are not the women whom men rape in real life.

4. Pornography, as a phenomenon, is a tool for the mass management of male sexuality.

The most interesting part is the underlying assumption: that masturbation is a way to "process" rage and serves just as an "eco-friendly outlet" for the desire to rape someone.

This is just a small example of what happens when we let scrotes control the narrative; they change terms, definitions, quietly erase facts, and eventually they slowly rewrite history. These small changes (including within academic work and on websites such as Wikipedia) add up and can ultimately influence or change people's opinion. I HIGHLY encourage radfems on this website to join Wikipedia, learn its policies and guidelines, and start making good faith edits so we can restructure the biased cesspit it currently is.

If you are between 11-18 and consuming violent misogynistic media of women being degraded, choked, beaten, on their knees begging, participating in any “bsdm” /“cnc”, screaming in pain etc. during sex. And you are watching these films in extremely vulnerable moments, and 2+2=4 THEN UOU WILL OBVIOUSLY INTERNALIZE MISOGYNISTIC VIEWS ON WOMEN.