Things get bad a lot quicker than they get better. It doesn't mean better can't happen.
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Things get bad a lot quicker than they get better. It doesn't mean better can't happen.

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Home in Suffolk, UK
Attempted murder by carpentry
Equal access but only because no abled person could use this either
Just finished reading Carmilla, will be on the floor crying if you need me
If a woman has
STARCH MASKS
O N H E R B O D Y
does that mean
she has been pGReNant bef o r e?
DANGEROPS
Pranget sex?
Will it hurt baby top of his head????
Can uu get,,,
𝓹𝓻𝓮𝓰𝓪𝓷𝓽𝓮
38+2 weeks
PREGANANANT
can uu go down a
20 foot waterslide
while uu are
PEGNAT?
For anyone who doesn’t know what this is referencing
this video legit never fails to make me laugh and i’ve seen it god knows how many times
I think the weirdest thing about confronting purity culture trauma for the first time in my life, honestly and completely, to the degree that I have to shake urges to hide in comfortable stagnation out of myself like a wet dog shaking dry, is that I spend a lot of time thinking about how little I really know about my body. I don't really understand much about what my body can do or why my body is the way it is. I went to pelvic floor physical therapy today and learned some things about the way my muscles work that I never previously knew, and I had to honestly say to the physical therapist that I don't have a mind-body connection to my pelvic floor muscles. I tend not to think about them because I was taught to be afraid of my body and my sexual desires and everything that came from those two. The worst thing about being taught that your fleshly desires are sinful and deceitful above all else is that you grow up never knowing how to read your own signs of distress.

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Okay lol
11 years ago today, Leelah Alcorn died and a light went out from the world, and from our little corner of the internet as we knew it. She should've lived, and if she couldn't for any reason, she should've at least been buried in a pretty dress under her real name and not her dead name. She deserved more and better and anything other than what she got from the cruelty of the world and the hatred of Christian love. Rest in power, Leelah. In my house, we remember you.
This includes MAGAs and fascists, btw.
Humans are capable of incredible evil and can cause untold harm onto each other.
We don't get to exclude humans who commit great evil from humanity just because it is convenient and makes us feel better, because the second we do that we do that we lose the ability to be able to discern that we, ourselves, are capable of these things, as well.
In the wrong scenario, in the wrong mindset, with the wrong cultural conditions, we could be the ones committing that evil.
We must always act as a check on ourselves and each other.
Yes this includes Nazis.
Yes this includes Zionists.
Yes this includes billionaires.
Yes this includes Christian nationalists and white supremacists.
Yes this includes ICE agents and imperial militaries.
Yes this includes racists, misogynists, homophobes, transphobes, ablests and any kind of bigot of any and all political affiliation.
This is not approval, it is acknowledging the evil that all of us are capable of.
I felt—and feel— that it was not German Man that I had met, but Man. He happened to be in Germany under certain conditions. He might be here, under certain conditions. He might, under certain conditions, be I.
^ Milton Mayer, a Jewish man talking about the common Nazi in the forward to his book, "They Thought They Were Free".
If you haven't seen the recent film Nuremberg, it's worth many watches many times over because this is the point it strives to make by telling the true story of Dr. Douglas Kelley and his work as a US Army psychiatrist on the Nuremberg trials, specifically with Hermann Goering, who was essentially the head of state of the Nazi Regime after Hitler died.
Dr. Kelley wrote a book about his experiences following the Nuremberg trials wherein he concluded that there was no special psychology that made Nazis and the highest-ranking Nazi officials in particular especially evil. There was nothing that separated the "good guys" from the bad guys in terms of psychological status or mental functioning. Evil couldn't be predicted in the human psyche or diagnosed and treated in the same way as a legitimate mental illness. Being a horrible human doesn't mean there's something wrong or sick about you; it's something everyone is capable of to some degree. But in the post-WWII era especially, this was highly unpopular to say, and Dr. Kelley's book failed, which was a contributing factor to his death by suicide in the 1950s.
In my criminal justice minor in undergraduate school, we learned that perpetrators of mass violence rarely are diagnosed with any pathology or definable illness. People would often ask me, "Don't you think there has to be something wrong with you to want to do that, though?" The answer is no, I don't think that. The truth is that humanity is capable of many depraved and violent acts, just the same as humanity is capable of great warmth and love. The same humans who scream in the streets for better treatment for our unhoused neighbors could one day brick a cop in the face so hard that he dies. It's in pretty much all of us.
The moment we see humans as less human simply because they're violent or evil is the moment we give them a little bit of victory. We have to be a little more nuanced than that, even though it hurts.
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The other day I went to meet someone's court-appointed guardian at his office to get his signature on some paperwork for Medicaid services. He happens to be a partner at a law firm in town. I have my feelings about court-appointed guardianships and about uninvolved lawyers doing that for people, but he seemed like a pleasant enough guy so I didn't complain. And at his office, while I waited, I met Bill, who is a big old Labradoodle doggo, and Bill wanted to help so bad by pushing his face in front of every paper I had so that he could slobber on it and sniffing my ass every time I stood up. I thought so hard about snatching Bill because we're besties now, but I figured a lawyer is probably not an optimal person to snatch a helpful doggo from, so I left it alone.
hey girl awesome pussy. it looks like it was expensive
hey girl awesome pussy. it looks like a shining example of your country's functional healthcare system
[sweating and taking notes] hey girl awesome pussy. it looks nuanced and complicated
Sunday Night Texts My Little Sister Sends Me Vol. 3857362791:
me: “don’t we all have hyperfixations?”
my friend: “no we both just have autism that’s different”
living by my awesome sword #mysword
wait they're telling me theres another cool thing I have to do by the sword now
Are You Fucking Kidding Me.
The reason you shouldn't be an asshole to ex-Trump supporters who are genuinely making an effort to change is the same reason why we all felt like shit when our parents went "look who decided to join us!" when we built up the energy to leave our rooms and overall it made us even more reluctant to join family activities.
You don't punish the behavior you want to see.
Knitting Cult Lady - Capt. Daniella Mestyanek Young - has brought this up a few times recently. When someone begins the process of leaving a cult, they test the waters first. If they're met with hostility, one of three things happen:
they return to the cult, even more entrenched
they join a different cult
they commit suicide
I realize many of these people have hurt and pushed away the ones who love them. I realize many of us have gone no- or minimal contact as a result, deprogamming takes *years* that you may not want to hold their hands through, some (like mine) are in MAGA because of pre-existing beliefs they still hold onto, and only you can gauge the situation you're in if they do tell you they're having second thoughts.
But I would want to know the most likely outcomes if my relatives came back to me under these circumstances, so here you go https://www.youtube.com/@KnittingCultLady/featured
And the worst part of this is that it's not one-and-done. It's a process.
For those of us that experience a lot of the lasting effects of trauma from cults, high-control religion or groups, political agendas, etc., it can be a lot to take on to have to engage with repeated missteps and difficult interactions where things rhyme with previous trauma. It would be ideal if people could swing the pendulum and be completely changed overnight when they leave such a group or movement.
But the reality is that it's a lifelong process. People have to struggle and fight for the rest of their days to undo the programming and the thought control. It means that they'll mess up, sometimes frequently, just like any human will. And they'll keep messing up until they learn better, and many times well after, and they'll mess up many times just like everyone else does, forever until they die. Does it mean that they deserve to be ostracized? That feels a little hypocritical to me. This is the nuanced work of rebuilding healthy community outside of unhealthy, toxic, high-control groups. It hurts and it sucks and it's messy, and if we don't do it, everything just gets worse. Distress tolerance is the best possible skillset to cultivate for this reason precisely.

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Back in October (2025), I had the great privilege while in California of visiting the National AIDS Memorial Grove. It was a silent, solemn place hidden in the Golden Gate Park area and well-maintained to honor the deceased. My wife and I sat at the Circle of Friends, a stone memorial bearing names and memories, and reflected on community history. We were both born in 1996 but had parents who were young during the AIDS Crisis in the 1980s, fathers who only knew gay men as people who got sick because they were disgusting and deserved it and only knew lesbians as people who took care of the sick because they were desperate for love. I had only recently seen Matt Bernstein's interview with Peter Staley discussing the early days of ACT UP NYC and the influence of the Catholic Church in the spread of the disease. I remembered seeing an old British PSA years prior where the actors lined up like bowling pins while the narrator intoned that "previously it was only gays and IV drug users" who contracted HIV/AIDS, as if that made them lesser people. It hurt to know that I used to be someone who believed that the disease that cost us a generation of our own was a punishment from God and not a deliberate choice of humanity. It made me feel like a traitor.
Sometimes people ask me why I wear the pink triangle pin on my bag. "You're not a gay man," they tell me, and they're right. "Why does the pink triangle matter to you?"
It matters because in Nazi-occupied regions in the 1940s, gay men and transgender women were disappeared under the pink triangle and given up by their own friends and families because people thought of them as disgusting. It matters because in the 1980s, governments stood by and refused to fund research to stop unnecessary deaths until they saw people who "didn't deserve it" getting infected with HIV. It matters because forgetting any of that means we can't understand why we're here now, in a world where anti-trans rhetoric becomes anti-trans hate crime every day, where LGBTQ people go back into the closet in public and at work to keep themselves and their loved ones safe from violence and discrimination. It matters because December 1 is World AIDS Day, even if people don't want it to be. We will continue to lose lives to violence and prejudice every day that anti-LGBTQ sentiment reigns supreme in this world. World AIDS Day is December 1 every year, even if I'm the only one who lights a candle or says a little word, even if you're the only one who can mourn and remember.