welcome to our blog, we're concerto (it/he/clef), a plural collective (more info here!). you can refer to us as headmates, do not call us alters. do not ask which one of us is the "original" headmate. we're bodily a minor, keep that in mind.
we have c-ptsd, autism, depression, and a specific phobia (we will not disclose what it is). we choose to share what mental disorders we have so others with these disorders feel less alone :)
people of all syscourse stances can interact as long as you're respectful. our only dni is conspiracy blogs and nsfw blogs. respectfully, leave.
our stances: pro endo, proship, pro para, pro youthlib, anti harassment, anti contact/abuse
mutuals can ask for headmate sideblogs :D
headmate intros and userboxes below cut!
kay (she/her): i'm a persecutor i guess? iwc. i only hurt my headmates not ppl outside the collective, intentionally at least. i have trouble with controlling my impulses and empathy so make your boundaries clear with me please.
eleven/astro (it/ask): hi!!! i'm an extranthrope. i'm also the host :) i'm genderfluid and i love scenecore!!! i'm a fictive with multiple sources
cadenza (she/her): i love classical music :) please only use feminine terms on me.
rot/doll (it/she/dead/dove): i don't really have a name it's just for convenience you can really call me whatever. i like fanfiction, hence my pronouns. iwc please
spoke/luci :3 (he/him): i'm a fun guy i like having fun. i have very low empathy especially for those outside the collective and i find it difficult to pretend to. keep that in mind. also am impulsive asf
Inky (they/them): I'm Inky, I'm a fictive of an OC of ours :D I don't really know what my role is yet, also I'm around 12
lacey (ix/ixs): tv head thingy, staticgender, dissociation holder
vee (it/they/he/sad): depression holder
Auriel (they/hy/hymn): protector, angel
jam (he/bug): i really like bugs and soft music (i don't really know how to describe it, like alex g and radiohead and cavetown and stuff). also i'm probably some kind of protector
planet (they/he): I like flowers, gardening, and space!!!
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Ok still rambling. Keep in mind that pluralpedia is widely regarded as an unreliable source by (pro)endos. This is partially because of the number of terms added by anti-endos to go OMG look at this weird thing endogenics identify as... when legitimately no one actually identifies with it. Just because it exists on pluralpedia does not mean it was made to genuinely be used or that anyone actually uses it. Examples of people legitimately using terms hold weight, a term existing on pluralpedia does not.
our main issue with it is it also has medical information on mental disorders without appropriate levels of scrutiny. why the FUCK does fucking pluralpedia have an article on PTSD? leave that to wikipedia ngl.
"You could be somebodyâs everything. You could write a book that a 13 year old reads then looks back on with so much joy and fondness for the rest of their life because theyâre so happy you wrote it. You could smile at someone on the worst day of their life, helping them get through it. You could form a friendly connection with a cashier at your grocery store, letting them actually look forward to something at work every week. You could make so many people laugh because you are you.
Just by existing weâre positively impacting those around us, for you what is just being polite to a stranger in public could mean the world to that stranger.
the world is filled with so many people and so many different stories that follow those people.
So many people wish for their story to be known and seen and wish to see the stories of others.
Living is so hard, I know it is, but someone somewhere wants desperately to know your story because you brought them joy, or because you just seemed like a lovely person.
and you deserve to be able to see that person again and tell that story.
you deserve to be remembered not as a statistic but as an individual person, a person who is loved and loved so many people.
even if you donât believe someone out there loves you, and if you canât think of someone then Iâll be that person.
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transmeds can fuck off.
Transandrophobes can fuck off.
Transmisogynists can fuck off.
literally any kind of transphobe can fuck off.
I am done pretending you're different
I am done pretending you guys aren't just different versions of the same thing.
you manifest differently BUT YOU'RE THE SAME FUCKING THING: transphobia.
Stop pretending anyone in the trans community has privilege over another (excluding cases like white trans women holding privilege over trans women of color. obviously other matters intersect with this. I'm saying neither trans women nor trans men hold privilege over each other. stop pretending either of us do.)
and if you genuinely think any of that bullshit: fuck you and fuck off
The research I believe you're referencing also shows that Asian and Pacific Islander LGBTQ+ people have a higher median income than white LGBTQ+ people. Also the confidence interval for trans men is $634-$766 and trans women is $369-$831, which, if I'm interpreting correctly means the report isn't confident that trans men have a higher income than trans women at all. You can read the report below.
I don't personally know of better research on income that separates trans men and trans women since I haven't looked into the matter in depth. If you can cite your sources that would be appreciated :)
Also, income isn't the only way to measure oppression ever. Here's a list of sources on rape in the transgender community, which mostly show higher rates of rape for trans men than trans women. Most of it is self-report data, which I believe is the most accurate way to measure sexual assault. (If you're going to say that trans men over-report rape then you're getting blocked.)
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The 2018 Australian Trans and Gender Diverse Sexual Health Survey fou
Obviously, this isn't to say trans men are more oppressed than trans women. From what I've read personally, different members of the trans community are oppressed in different ways. For example, trans women have to face the most public attacks on their identity. And all this is completely ignoring nonbinary people, who have the highest rates of sexual assault according to the data shown above.
Just to be clear when youâre going to insult people (on either side) at least donât use common xenophobic language and racial slurs. Also this is for when you use turn of phrase too, not just insults. To be clear, I donât think we should insult anyone at all, but if youâre going to say âanti/pro/neu endos are [insult] because ____â letâs make sure itâs not a racial slur or racist language, okay?
SOME OFFENSIVE TERMS BELOW. NOT EXHAUSTIVE. DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH ITâS NOT THAT HARD:
âInvasive speciesâ xenophobic and racist origins
âSubhumanâ racial slur made to target Black people
âAnimalsâ âroachesâ âsnakesâ or any other animal is racial motivated or ethnically targeted against various POC ďżź
âSpirit animalâ racist to Indigenous practices
âWokeâ used as an insult or in a casual âhaha not to be woke butâ is not a knowledgable of the Black coinage of the term
âCrashing outâ âtweakingâ âspill the teaâ âwe been ___â âhighkey/lowkeyâ AAVE appropriated into white online slang so itâs âokâ to say now for white people, so unless youâre Black donât use them for your points
âThrowing shadeâ LGBT+ Black and Latino communities coined this term.
Just some of the ones Iâve seen at least once and weâve barely been on here as an active user. Letâs do better together.
Edit; honorable mention to these misogynistic ones even though the point was racism and homophobia. Still it bothers me
âHoeâ âbitchâ misogynistic slurs in this context because youâre using them to insult someone
Maybe the anti endo community on Tumblr is not as huge as we thought it was. (CW: rare and probably only post we will make about syscourse on this blog, because we genuinely hate it.)
We went on a blocking spree yesterday and took about two to three hours manually blocking anyone who had recently posted anything in the tags "anti endo", "anti endogenic", "endos dni", "endos fuck off" and "endos aren't real" until all of the specific feeds for these tags were empty (because Tumblr would not retrieve older posts this way), which gave us about a six-month buffer (from the beginning of this year on) of nothingness in these tags. The results were... Satisfying enough, weirdly?
Now we are able to browse about any general plural tag we want without seeing posts with anti endo tags, or only very few of them (otherwise, despite having anti endo tags we know of blocked, we would still see that those posts exist and be able to expand and read them, which we don't want to happen).
It's like syscourse does not exist anymore!
If we regularly do this and block the new people who have posted, say, every Saturday, then the rest of the week we'll likely be able to completely forget that anti endo people exist. Which is kinda cool, because they make us feel really bad, as a nondisordered mixed origin system. After all, they are denying the existence of our headmates and thus the reality of the relationships we formed and the emotions we felt -- no one should have to read that about their family or friends, no matter "where" they exist.
The only problem with this strategy is that it does not take into account the fact that people can change. For example, if an "anti-willo" blog announces changing its views and rebrands itself, we still won't be able to see its posts. Moreover, we might have some issues if Tumblr has a limit on the number of blogs we can block (but if it exists, we haven't run into it yet).
Anyways, just wanted to put that out there, in case someone has two hours to spare and wants to protect themselves from syscourse.
We're even thinking of making a Python script that we would run every week and which would block people for us while we nap or something (slowly to not make it look like a poor DoS attack). We'd just have to... Learn and relearn a lot of things, because despite having studied computer science, we did not do things like that back in the days. We'll post this script if we end up writing it and it works.
And if anyone is mad about this... Well, they've got "endos dni" on their posts, blocking them is exactly what they say they are expecting us (a mixed origin system) to do.
an entirely different thing, but if you want to hide filtered posts (i.e. ones with blocked tags "endos fuck off"), xKit Rewritten has that feature. obviously they can still interact with you but I've found it useful. it also has a ton of other features like an adblocker and UI tweaks
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