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BIDEN IS TRYING TO AMEND TITLE IX TO PROTECT TRANS ATHLETES.
This is currently in its open comment phase and itâs getting bombed by TERFs, surprise surprise.
If you live in the US, you can fight back by leaving your own comment HERE. Donât get cute or make threats, just explain why you think we should protect trans kids. And for fuckâs sake if youâre not actually in the US donât get the idea youâll just use a fake address. This is a government form, doing so can get the entire amendment thrown out.
Spread the word!!!
This isn't just a few crazy Terfs responding to this, it's a heavily coordinated and directed response from right wing organizations with large groups of followers who are all responding with the same copy and pasted message.
If we have any hope of fighting to protect title IX we need everyone to contribute to this! We need to stop these people from dismantling every anti-discrimination law in the country, because they won't stop unless we make them.
Concerning Julietâs age
I find a big stumbling block that comes with teaching Romeo and Juliet is explaining Julietâs age. Juliet is 13 - more precisely, sheâs just on the cusp of turning 14. Though itâs not stated explicitly, Romeo is implied to be a teenager just a few years older than her - perhaps 15 or 16. Most people dismiss Julietâs age by saying âthat was normal back thenâ or âthatâs just how it was.â This is fundamentally untrue, and I will explain why.
In Elizabethan England, girls could legally marry at 12 (boys at 14) but only with their fatherâs permission. However, it was normal for girls to marry after 18 (more commonly in early to mid twenties) and for boys to marry after 21 (more commonly in mid to late twenties). But at 14, a girl could legally marry without papaâs consent. Of course, in doing so she ran the risk of being disowned and left destitute, which is why it was so critical for a young man to obtain the fatherâs goodwill and permission first. Therein lies the reason why we are repeatedly told that Juliet is about to turn 14 in under 2 weeks. This was a critical turning point in her life.
In modern terms, this would be the equivalent of the law in many countries which states children can marry at 16 with their parentsâ permission, or at 18 to whomever they choose - but we see it as pretty weird if someone marries at 16. Theyâre still a kid, we think to ourselves - why would their parents agree to this?
This is exactly the attitude we should take when we look at Romeo and Julietâs clandestine marriage. Today it would be like two 16 year olds marrying in secret. This is NOT normal and would NOT have been received without a raised eyebrow from the audience. Modern audiences AND Elizabethan audiences both look at this and think THEY. ARE. KIDS.
Critically, it is also not normal for fathers to force daughters into marriage at this time. Lord Capulet initially makes a point of telling Julietâs suitor Paris that âmy will to her consent is but a part.â He tells Paris he wants to wait a few years before he lets Juliet marry, and informs him to woo her in the meantime. Obtaining the ladyâs consent was of CRITICAL importance. Itâs why so many of Shakespeareâs plays have such dazzling, well-matched lovers in them, and why men who try to force daughters to marry against their will seldom prosper. You had to let the lady make her own choice. Why?
Put simply, for her health. It was considered a scientific fact that a womanâs health was largely, if not solely, dependant on her womb. Once she reached menarche in her teenage years, it was important to see her fitted with a compatible sexual partner. (For aristocratic girls, who were healthier and enjoyed better diets, menarche generally occurred in the early teens rather than the later teens, as was more normal at the time). The womb was thought to need heat, pleasure, and conception if the woman was to flourish. Catholics might consider virginity a fit state for women, but the reformed English church thought it was borderline unhealthy - sex and marriage was sometimes even prescribed as a medical treatment. A neglected wife or widow could become sick from lack of (pleasurable) sex. Marrying an unfit sexual partner or an older man threatened to put a girlâs health at risk. An unsatisfied woman, made ill by her womb as a result - was a threat to the family unit and the stability of society as a whole. A satisfying sex life with a good husband meant a womb that had the heat it needed to thrive, and by extension a happy and healthy woman.
In Shakespeareâs plays, sexual compatibility between lovers manifests on the stage in wordplay. In Much Ado About Nothing, sparks fly as Benedick and Beatrice quarrel and banter, in comparison to the silence that pervades the relationship between Hero and Claudio, which sours very quickly. Compare to R+J - Lord Capulet tells Paris to woo Juliet, but the two do not communicate. But when Romeo and Juliet meet, their first speech takes the form of a sonnet. They might be young and foolish, but they are in love. Their speech betrays it.
Juliet, on the cusp of 14, would have been recognised as a girl who had reached a legal and biological turning point. Her sexual awakening was upon her, though she cares very little about marriage until she meets the man she loves. They talk, and he wins her wholehearted, unambiguous and enthusiastic consent - all excellent grounds for a relationship, if only she werenât so young.
When Tybalt dies and Romeo is banished, Lord Capulet undergoes a monstrous change from doting father to tyrannical patriarch. Juiletâs consent has to take a back seat to the issue of securing the Capulet house. He needs to win back the princeâs favour and stabilise his family after the murder of his nephew. Julietâs marriage to Paris is the best way to make that happen. Fathers didnât ordinarily throw their daughters around the room to make them marry. Among the nobility, it was sometimes a sad fact that girls were simply expected to agree with their fathersâ choices. They might be coerced with threats of being disowned. But for the VAST majority of people in England - basically everyone non-aristocratic - the idea of forcing a daughter that young to marry would have been received with disgust. And even among the nobility it was only used as a last resort, when the welfare of the family was at stake. Note that aristocratic boys were often in the same position, and would also be coerced into advantageous marriages for the good of the family.
tl;dr:
Q. Was it normal for girls to marry at 13?
A. Hell no!
Q. Was it legal for girls to marry at 13?
A. Not without dadâs consent - Friar Lawrence performs this dodgy ceremony only because he believes it might bring peace between the houses.
Q. Was it normal for fathers to force girls into marriage?
A. Not at this time in England. In noble families, daughters were expected to conform to their parents wishes, but a girlâs consent was encouraged, and the importance of compatibility was recognised.
Q. How should we explain Julietâs age in modern terms?
A. A modern Juliet would be a 17 year old girl whoâs close to turning 18. We all agree that girls should marry whomever they love, but not at 17, right? Weâd say sheâs still a kid and needs to wait a bit before rushing into this marriage. We acknowledge that sheâd be experiencing her sexual awakening, but marrying at this age is odd - sheâs still a child and legally neither her nor Romeo should be marrying without parental permission.
Q. Would Elizabethans have seen Juliet as a child?
A. YES. The force of this tragedy comes from the youth of the lovers. The Montagues and Capulets have created such a hateful, violent and dangerous world for their kids to grow up in that the pangs of teenage passion are enough to destroy the future of their houses. Something as simple as two kids falling in love is enough to lead to tragedy. That is the crux of the story and it should not be glossed over - Shakespeare made Juliet 13 going on 14 for a reason.Â
Romeo and Juliet is the Elizabethan equivalent of  âwonât someone please think of the childrenâ  itâs a romantic tragedy  not a romance  romantic in that itâs a love story  but not a romance in the sense that it is supposed to be emulated  and is likely a social commentary of something happening at the time  whether it was ongoing religious feuds  which did tear families apart  uprisings across the country  or just general malaise with how the world was going in the 1590s  itâs also worth noting that R+J was based heavily on a poem writen  some 30ish years prior  by Arthur Brooke  known as The Tragical History of Romeus and Juliet  which in turn was based on the work of Matteo Bandello  who supposedly based most of his work on real life events  making his association to Lucrezia Gonzaga  an Italian noblewoman  who was married off at the age of 14  likely to solidify some sort of alliance during turbulent times all the more poignant  Shakespeare was and never has been the reserve of the intellectual and elite  that we are taught his work without historical context  robs us of the true value of his work social commentary  and this social commentary would like to have a few words with your false ideas of âhistorical accuracyâ (via @thebibliosphere)
I saw this in my emails and couldnât see why Iâd been tagged in it (all the while nodding vehemently along) and then I saw my tags and ah. Yep. Still forever mad at how badly Shakespeare is taught in most schools.
Wait but then why does Julietâs mother talk about being already married younger than Juliet currently is?
Likely because her match to Julietâs father was an arranged match to solidify family names and houses in order to avoid conflicts or to establish wealth. (It also serves to denote the tragic undercurrent of the play ie love is secondary to wealth and power.)
It wasnât so uncommon for children of royalty or nobility to be betrothed from birth, or even symbolically married, in order to make alliances. But that doesnât mean they were engaging in the kind of adult relationship we envision when we think of marriage today.
Which isnât to say some people didnât buck the norm and do horrible things Margaret Beaufort is a prime example of this, which the Tudors would likely be aware of. Her first marriage contract actually happened when she was one year old. It was later dissolved and she was remarried at the age of 12, and her second husband, Edmund Tudor, did in fact get her pregnant before dying himself. She was 13 years old when she gave birth, and it caused major health issues for her and nearly killed her. When she survived it was considered miraculous. Which should tell you just how not normal this kind of thing was thought of even back then.
I agree with absolutely everything in this thread of discussion. Even so, my long-standing fascination with both Shakespeare and late medieval / early renaissance history makes it impossible for me to to reblog without throwing in my extra few cents:
I. Margaret Beaufort
In my mind, there are few cases that better demonstrate the tensions between medieval norms and medieval realities than that of Margaret Beaufort. Like many other women of her time, she had only one child surviving to adulthood: Henry Tudor (later Henry VII and the founder of the Tudor dynasty). In that, Margaret wasnât so remarkable: infant mortality made this a common enough outcome, though undoubtedly a tragic one.
Where Margaretâs case was exceptional is that Henry was also her only known pregnancy, without so much as a stillbirth, infant death, or even another pregnancy ever being mentioned in connection to her. In her own time, it was commonly assumed that her experience of childbirth at a very young age was what accounted for her barrenness, and even to us today, it doesnât seem implausible to assume some kind of physical trauma that prevented later pregnancies from taking place, given all the medical knowledge weâve accumulated about the risks of childbirth at either extreme of age.
But there was more to this. The vast Beaufort estate that came with Margaretâs young hand were so valuable that, to 15th/16th century English minds, it perfectly explained Edmund Tudorâs motives for having been so reckless with the health of his wife: having an heir of his own would ensure that her lands would stay with him, in the name of any children they might have together, whereas the lands would pass to someone else if she should die before having a child. Of course, most men in that situation would have waited anyway, as a child whose mother died in childbirth was much less likely to survive anyway, so contemporaries portrayed Edmund Tudorâs actions as short-sighted and foolhardy at best, amoral and cruel and worst. But Fate must have a sense of irony, because Edmund died before his son was even born, while Margaret lived, and as aristocratic women tended to do in those circumstances, she was remarried to Henry Stafford, 1st Duke of Buckingham.
Since Margaret was Staffordâs first (and only) wife, he would have depended on her to give him any heirs at all, to whom he could pass on the lands he already had, let alone any of Margaretâs own (and it would be logical to assume that the Beaufort inheritance would have been no less tempting to Stafford than it was to Tudor). He must have at least hoped for children from her, and at the time, there wasnât any reason to expect she was totally barren either: there was the traumatic birth to consider, but she was more physically mature when she remarried, and there was room to hope that widowhood had given her time to recover. And yet, despite all this, it seems few people (if any) were surprised that Margaret did not bear any more children. It didnât seem to doom her relationship with her second husband either: on the contrary, Margaret enjoyed a happy relationship with Stafford for well over a decade until his death, so if there was any bitterness on his part over his lack of heirs, he must have managed it well. Even in the contemporary sources (who donât tend to be charitable towards female figures), any blame for her barrenness is laid squarely at the feet of the various men who were her guardians in her early life, who clearly abused their authority over her for their own benefit, rather than to safeguard Margaretâs well-being as guardians are supposed to do (one of them being Edmund Tudor himself⌠he wasnât supposed to even be in the running for her wardship, but Henry VI actually outright broke a promise he had made to Margaretâs father to let Margaretâs mother be her guardian in the event of his death).
This indicates to me even more strongly that late-medieval / Tudor people would have not only been sympathetic towards what Margaret and women like her had suffered, but also understood that neglectful attitudes towards the health and happiness of dependents have consequences. Shakespeareâs own words make this clear, at the beginning of the play:
Paris: Younger than she are happy mothers made. Capulet: And too soon marrâd are those so early made.
Tudor audiences would have understood these lines as the words of a benevolent father protecting his daughter from the advances of an overeager young suitor, invoking what seems to have been a Tudor-era trope that early marriages do not make for happy endings⌠not for the woman, not for her family or husband, and certainly not for the children she might otherwise have borne. Because Capulet came off as the âgood fatherâ in the beginning of the play, it makes it all the more shocking when his attitude changes and he becomes the all-too-familiar figure of the cold, uncaring patriarch who regards his children only as pawns*. I imagine the juxtaposition would have invited Tudor audiences to feel Julietâs sense of betrayal as if it were happening to them.
* Jane Grey, the famed ânine daysâ queenâ was also rumored to be such a victim of her parentsâ ambition: they also saw fit to force her into a marriage that she seriously objected to, and historical records point a fairly consistent picture of their callous disregard towards her wishes and genuine happiness.
II. Consent in Medieval Marriages
Twelve and fourteen are actually also important numbers in their own right, and Shakespeareâs choice to place Juliet between those two ages has an important symbolic meaning. Late medieval Catholic doctrine defined marriage as a sacrament, like the Eucharist (Communion), or Holy Orders. Many of the sacraments require those who receive them to understand what theyâre getting into for the sacrament to have the desired effect. To guarantee understanding (at least from a theological perspective), you would have to be above âthe age of reasonâ, the age at which you were considered to be able to think for yourself. Conservative definitions of the âage of reasonâ sometimes defined it as the age of fifteen or fourteen (or older), but was later fixed at twelve. Since marriage was one of these sacraments, a marriage where both spouses had not fully and knowingly given their consent was no marriage at all.* Therefore, twelve was considered the absolute lower age limit at which a person could marry without compromising the very spiritual foundation of the marriage itself, while fourteen was considered a safer age at which to assume the person had full control of their reasoning capacities.
The other side of the âconsentâ coin when it came to marriage was that consent wasnât just a necessary condition to finalize a marriage, it was also sufficient condition. If a man and a woman had given their knowing consent to marry one another, and if they had intentionally verbalized this promise to one another and consummated their marriage, then no earthly power could invalidate this pact for any reason (outside of a few very specific ones, like incest) without risking damnation. Witnesses were convenient as a way to prove that the marriage had taken place, if a family member or some segment of society disapproved of the match, but they werenât needed in order to make the marriage spiritually valid. Basically, the Catholic Church at this stage somehow ended up putting the idea of consent at the very heart of the idea of what made a marriage valid or not, and this had consequences not only because of the threat of hellfire, but also because Church law was secular law when it came to domestic matters like marriage and divorce. And then it came to pass that the English Reformation left this specific area of the doctrine mostly untouched, so the Tudors would have had similar ideas surrounding the question of consent and marriage as did their late medieval forbears.
This theological point is not only the whole raison dâetre for the most central plot device in the play, but also adds an extra note of pathos to Julietâs situation and an extra layer of moral judgment towards Lord Capuletâs behavior. If she did not insist on keeping her marriage vow, or if she married Paris knowing full well that she had already been married, both of those would be mortal sins for which she would risk damnation. And by extension, because he used duress against Juliet to try to make her comply with his sinful wish, Lord Capulet has also damned himself (albeit unknowingly, but even so, the narrative clearly presents forcing his daughterâs marriage as something he should know better than to do, anyway).
Until this point, Julietâs marriage is characterized as an impulsive decision such as only foolish youth could make, but ironically, in that confrontation with Lord Capulet, this slip of a young girl is now portrayed as conducting herself with far more spiritual maturity and grace than any of the adults around her. Her parents are failing in their duty towards her by putting their dynastic concerns ahead of her health and happiness (when itâs been made clear they already know this is a Bad Idea), and her Nurse, who actually knows about the secret marriage and all the reasons why it cannot be taken back, is actively pleading with her to just forget it and pretend Romeo never was. Julietâs choice here is monumental, because it involves not only disregarding her parents, but also an active decision to completely break with the woman who has been with her for literally everything in her life up to that point, a break so thorough that even Nurse herself doesnât know that itâs happened. This dramatic turning point is a bittersweet portrait of the girl losing her innocence and growing up into an adult, from one angle, and from another angle itâs a paean to the pure-hearted idealism (different from the limpid innocence of childhood in that itâs willful and risk-taking, and fiery in quality) that can only be found in the young. Either way, it does Julietâs character AND Shakespeareâs dramatic talents a massive disservice to portray her situation as something so simplistic or reactionary as lovelorn pining after an absent boyfriend, or rebelling against her parents, or âstaying true to her own heartâ.
This wasnât just a plot device for the stage: many real-life lovers leaned on this feature of the Churchâs teachings, when faced with the opposition of their families and communities, and in many cases, the Church was indeed forced to side with the couple, however reluctantly. Margery Paston, the daughter of a genteel landowning family in the 15th century, and Richard Calle, the Paston familyâs longtime housekeeper, were one such case of a real-life Romeo and Juliet: they mutually fell in love, and married in secret when they came up against heavy opposition from Margeryâs family. The Pastons responded by separating them, firing Calle from his job and having him sent to London, while Margery remained in Norfolk under house arrest. There, she seems to have been subjected to ongoing and intense pressure to walk back her marriage⌠if the couple had been married formally in church, this would not have been possible, but secret marriages were vulnerable to challenges like this because they were secret. A witness would have helped her and Calleâs case and made it more airtight, but even if the couple had had any, apparently the Pastons had succeeded in intimidating them into silence.
But even though the Pastons seemed to be winning, itâs hard to believe that bystanders wouldnât have objected to at least some of what the Pastons were doing to try and get their way. Otherwise, Calle could not have written Margery in 1469, during their separation, saying âI suppose if you tell them sadly the truth, they will not damn their souls for usâ. Their situation was objectively quite bleak. For the months they were apart, it was made very clear to both Margery and Calle that, if the couple continued to insist on their marriage, the Pastons would disown Margery and throw her out of the house, therefore leaving her with few options for survival, let alone to find her way to Calle over a distance of a hundred miles. He mournfully acknowledges that their gamble might fail, and their worst fears might come true, but there is also defiance in his resignation, as he concludes, âif they will in no wise agree [to respect our marriage], between God, the Devil and them be it.â
Margery, for her part, was no less determined. When Margery was finally brought before the local bishop, he turned out to be sympathetic towards the Paston family, and gave Margery a long speech about the importance of pleasing her family and community (so much for the theological importance of consent, but then, clerical hypocrisy was nothing new to medieval people). But Margery remained steadfast (in fact, I am inclined to think from her next words that the bishopâs words only goaded her to greater resolve) and when she spoke, she not only continued to insist that she had said what she had said, but according to her mother she âboldlyâ added, âif those words made it not sure [âŚ] she would make it surer before she went thence, for she said she thought in her conscience she was bound [in marriage to Calle], whatsoever the words were.â Her wording left absolutely no room for doubt in the mind of even the most flexible theologian. And when Calle was cross-examined and his testimony found to match that of Margeryâs, the bishop of Norfolk had no choice but to rule in the coupleâs favor.
Margeryâs mother did indeed make good on her word: she did both disown Margery and throw her out of the house. She seemed to have done it more to save face, however, than to actually punish her daughter, since she does seem to have made arrangements behind the scenes for Margery to stay with sympathetic neighbors. In the end, Calle was right, the Pastons were not willing to risk their own souls. Margery and Richard Calle got their happy ending, and had at least three children (and we know about them because we know Margeryâs mother left them money in her own will).
* This also meant that Edmund Tudor actually would have been Margaret Beaufortâs first husband, not her second. It was true that she had already been âin a marriageâ before being married later to Tudor, but strictly speaking, it was only a precontract (what we today would think of as an engagement) with signficance limited to the secular realm; there are a lot of reasons this would not have really been considered a marriage at the time, but the most theologically pertinent one is that the brideâs consent could not have been involved, because she was too young to be able to give it. Consequently, this paper marriage was easily dissolved as soon as her guardians thought it more politically expedient to marry her to Edmund Tudor. And for all intents and purposes, Margaret Beaufort herself considered Tudor to be her first husband, not John de la Pole.
tl;dr: the study of Shakespeare cannot be separated from historical and societal understanding of the times he lived in, and frankly, itâs a terrible shame that English classes donât emphasize this more, because then youâre throwing out about 80% of the meaning his works actually hold.
Sorry to keep reblogging this long post but holy shit this is an excellent addition. Thank you for taking the time to write all that up.
I will forever be grateful to my eleventh-grade English teacher, Mrs. Shaw, who taught us that when analyzing literature it is not only wise but absolutely essential to consider not only the authorâs other works, but also the historical context in which it was written.
I was today years old when I learned that I was taught Romeo and Juliet wrong even AFTER being in the play.
@thebibliosphere do you know if itâs common for people to know the age of Juliet solidly and then think that the reason everything was dodgy was because Romeo was like 17/18 years old? Cause likeâŚ
Anyone I asked about Romeoâs age said âheâs like. An adult. A young one but an adult.â So for all my life I assumed Romeo was 18 going on 19 or 17 going on 18 while Juliet was just hardly a teenager.
Oh man, this is an old, old post.
Full disclaimer: Iâm obviously no expertâjust a former Shakespearian theater kid with a love of historyâbut no, Romeo is not eighteen, and nor was he considered an adult.
Thatâs a very modern perspective, and I suspect it comes from people latching onto the idea that if Juliet was considered legally old enough to be married at fourteen, then Romeoâs slight advantage in years must mean he was considered an adult when this is not at all how a Tudor audience would have viewed it.
Also, I donât know where the idea that Romeo is eighteen/fully an adult came from, because Romeoâs age is unspecified in the original text, though the consensus is that heâs between the ages of fifteen at a minimum and seventeen at most. Neither an adult by our terms nor by Tudor ones.
As noted above, the minimum legal age for marriage in the Tudor era was twelve years old for noble girls, but what we did not mention was the legal age for boys, which was fourteen. So if we take the stance that Romeo is intended to be fifteen to sixteen, possibly hovering on the verge of seventeen, in the context of the times, heâs still considered barely old enough to marry, same as Juliet. He still needs the permission of his parents to marry because he is not considered legally old enough to make this decision himself.
His behavior isnât that of a predatory adult pursuing a child (weâll get to that) but that of a young man in the midst of his teens pursuing someone in both a suitable age range and social class for his standing. And from a thematic standpoint: the age and social class where your family might orchestrate a match to solidify alliances or to end a blood war if only they had their shit together.
This becomes very clear when you take into consideration the added context that most commoners didnât marry until their mid-to-late-twenties when theyâd had a chance to become financially established and also become both physically mature and strong enough to survive childbirth. There were, of course, always exceptions to this rule, but weâre speaking in generalities here. Only the rich married their kids off young, and most of the time there would have been clauses in place to prevent the girl from getting pregnant too young and dying in childbirth.
Basically, the entire Tudor audience, both noble and common, would have been watching this tragedy unfold on stage, clutching their pearls and going âOh god theyâre babies. Where are the parents?!â
To which the answer is âembroiled in a blood feud and not paying attention to the things that are happening under their nose until itâs too late.â
Paris, on the other hand, the suitor Julietâs father wants to pair her with, and letâs be clear here, the man making it very clear heâs interested in her sexually, is twenty-five.
That line up above about âhappy motherâs madeâ? Thatâs Paris, a twenty-five-year-old man looking at a fourteen-year-old girl and announcing that he not only wants to bed her but considers it fine for girls even younger than fourteen to become mothers. The man is a one-man parade of red flags, and thatâs also what makes Julietâs father switch so villainous. Heâd rather marry his child off to a full-grown man who doesnât care for her safety in the marital bed than resolve the feud with the Montagues, and the Tudor audience would have been deeply uncomfortable with this narrative, same as us.
So no, Romeo and Juliet isnât a mess because Romeo was an adult. Romeo and Juliet is a mess because both Romeo and Juliet are functionally children trying to act like adults because no one else is. Not their parents, not the priest. And thatâs the root of the tragedy.
Itâs not a moral about problematic age gapsâthough that is highlighted through Parisâitâs a moral about allowing vengeance to cloud your judgment and letting the children, the innocents who donât know any better, try to behave like adults because youâve left a void and would rather seek death than a peaceful resolution.
And I (still) really wish it was taught better in schools.
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The tragic hero is complete. You can call him unhappy (miserable, utterly broken) even before he is dead. For an instant he is something like divine. And then he dies, because thereâs nothing left to do. The center of every tragedy is the image of a human being who has already died but keeps talking, someone whose face is a mask.
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The U.S.P.S. and how Trump wants it dead
Americans, you know we need the Postal Service, right? For a whole lot of reasons. Iâve talked about this before, how the Republican party wants to get rid of it. Right now, they are really threatening to do it. You need to be loud and angry at your reps right now, ESPECIALLY if they are Republican.Â
The Postal Service is the most popular government service. Itâs in the Constitution. Itâs the only service that will deliver (has to deliver) to anywhere in the U.S. Even rural areas. And they do not charge more for it like FedEx, UPS, DHL, etc. They deliver your Amazon packages. They are also the only thing keeping FedEx, UPS, DHL, and the others from charging you *whatever the hell they want* to deliver your packages.Â
They also, and this is not a coincidence, deliver ballots so you can vote by mail. Voting by mail is now a serious issue for both fairness and for allowing Americans to vote while staying safely at home during a pandemic. (More people vote when they can vote by mail and Republicans know this.)Â
You have to go be loud and obnoxious again. Email and fax your reps and tell them to fund the U.S.P.S.Â
Check out this mail carrierâs twitter thread for some excellent reasons why we should be demanding the USPS be funded:
Their so-called âfinancial troubleâ is largely artificial and can be easily corrected
Aforementioned mail-in ballots
âLast mileâ service - everyone in America can get and send mail for the same price
Cheapest way to send a bday card by FedEx to an address not in a city: $15.50. By USPS: fifty cents.
One of the largest employers of veterans and people of color
Highest approval rating of any government agency
If they were privatized all their proprietary data gets to be used for corporate interests (you want a corporate dystopia? Because losing the US Mail is how you get a corporate dystopia)
#SaveThePostOffice
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1df4ukUIm9t82NrsiTNwzoePQnT-XWKQmcpzzTaLFR1I/edit
Hereâs a link to a letter you can send to your Senator/Representative. #SaveTheUSPS

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so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god
okay so i just got my dream job??? a week after applying to it?? and now iâm thinkingâŚ.maybe this is the good luck post
âŚ..not even six hours later i got an offer of a well paying full time long-term job with free room and board in queens in nyc, allowing me independence and a way to escape an abusive situation and an unhealthy environment
likes charge reblogs cast, folks, this is the good luck post
The Royal Signs II:
Aries: The first king. A colossal man with skin like freshly tilled earth and a voice that could calm the old wild things. Colossal, gentle hands. The first shepherd of rocks and clay. Molding the wild into home.Â
Taurus: An exile by birthright, a king by deeds. A tale of honorable revenge and lifelong friendships cut short. A life on horseback that left in its wake an empire, and countless pillars to the dead.Â
Gemini: The ghost of a princess. Ever a lady in waiting, she wanders the halls of an abandoned palace. Hands from the ash. The burning silhouette of a child. All those who seek to defile her home will know flame as she did.Â
Cancer: Identical twin princes. The reigns of empire won by blood now passed to them. To the surprise of a nation, able to share the throne. Ever deliberating, never moving without consensus. Diplomats, delegates, scholars, and magicians. Memories of mother. Each carries one half of the daisho.
Leo: The high priestess. Ritually sharpened teeth. Rivers of blood washed away by conjured rainstorms. Liaison to the god that sleeps below the great temple. The speaker to the forbidden sun.
Virgo: The Witch Queen. The Wardbreaker. The Mother of Hexes. Armies from the north that could call fire from their hands, wounds healed with the sermons of foreign gods. Captured officers. Secret research in the ancestral necropolis. New magic, gentle and deep as the night.Â
Libra: The mushroom king! The mushroom king! The mushroom king! The mushroom king! The mushroom king! The mushroom king!
Scorpio: The King-of-Five-Crowns. An empire won by respect and might. Retirement. Evenings spent in the summer palace, teaching grandchildren to paint.Â
Ophiuchus: An empress of honey and sun-baked gold. Honored dead bound in white cloth. Eternal servitude to their holy queen. Consul from centuries of royalty now passed.
Sagittarius: The Lady of the Grove. Revelries by moonlight. Distant songs in the mist. Lost children. There is a road through the forest, it has since been omitted by mapmakers.Â
Capricorn: The middle child of a royal bloodline. Exile to a monastery. A lifetime of meditation on divinity and craft. A heart of clockwork. Mummified in the calculus of the world.Â
Aquarius: A penitent queen. Now an adviser to those who overthrew her son. A veil in mourning, but not for him. Deep, terrible understanding of what makes a tyrant.
Pisces: An all-to-young queen. Inheritor to a throne built on war and blood. Ceremonial jewelry that resembles the armament of her knights. A legacy of imperium and bloodshed. A vow to do differently.Â
Resisted Feelings the signs have trouble sitting with
Applicable with Moon signs too
Aries: Helplessness, their autonomy gives the impression of being in control in life when it can be the other way around, more fearful of the humiliation of failing and the âtold you soâ than actually failing
Taurus: Desperation, everything is still -but they are convinced it takes a tiny tremor for everything to sink beneath them, afraid of losing their soundness of mind
Gemini: Loneliness, the mind can keep them preoccupied with itâs relentless activity, like they wear headphones that reduce everybodyâs voice beneath the volume of their thoughts and it shuts them out
Cancer: Frustration that can build into resentment due to the sense of being under-appreciated and taken for advantage, they slowly accumulate ammunition to direct back at you in one brutal eruption
Leo: Control, power is not about enforcing authority, but the certainty they know what is happening, they will find out instantly if circumstances change, and they have a position to direct if it does
Virgo: Jealousy and comparison of body image, lifestyle choices, and achievements with others, envy can a friction or unjustified disliking that confuses the other person
Libra: Internalised reactions and anger slowly builds into long-term resentment, a deep and powerful sensation that shows itself covertly and begins scratching away at the relationship over time
Scorpio: A sense of being 'differentâ and alone that they somewhat indulge in, but Scorpio is made to bond deeply with others, so it can make for a lonely life
Sagittarius: That sense of being unable to stop, pressure to keep running the race after its over, fearing the emotions, reflections, and memories that will come with rest
Capricorn: The armour of autonomy and being unaffected by events can give other people the impression that they donât need support, solace, and comforting during hard times and distress
Aquarius: High intelligence with developing emotional intelligence, they can repeat mistakes - especially in relationships due to the difficulty integrating mind with feelings
Pisces: Powerful and brutal feelings of resentment that swell over a period of time, usually because they continuously lacked the assertion to confront this person with the issue
Cherry
the signs as explanations for the fermi paradox
i.e. âit is highly likely that extraterrestrial life exists, the universe is huge and has existed for ages, and weâve been actively searching for it for some time, so where is everybody?â
explanations from Wikipedia and from here
ARIES: It is the nature of intelligent life to destroy others. TAURUS: Aliens have no desire to leave their home planets. GEMINI: Aliens donât have the time to leave their home planets. CANCER: Aliens are already trying to contact us but we arenât listening to them. LEO: The universe/language/intelligence/tool-making exists for humans and only humans. VIRGO: Aliens would rather explore the universe in virtual reality simulations than in real life. LIBRA: Aliens are already here secretly meddling in human affairs. SCORPIO: It is the nature of intelligent life to destroy itself. SAGITTARIUS: Aliens have no desire to talk to us. CAPRICORN: Aliens donât explore themselves but send out probes to do it for them. AQUARIUS: The universe we know is just a simulated reality, and the aliens are observing us from outside. PISCES: Everyone is listening for potential other lifeforms and no one is actually making the first move to communicate.
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when i watch old movies iâm constantly surprised by how much acting has improved. not that the acting in the classics is bad, itâs just often kind of artificial? itâs acting-y. itâs like stage acting.
it took some decades for the arts of acting and filmmaking to catch up to the potential that was in movies all along; stuff like microexpressions and silences and eyes, oh man people are SO much better at acting with their eyes than they were in the 40â˛s, or even the 70â˛s.
the performances we take for granted in adventure movies and comedies now wouldâve blown the criticsâ socks off in the days of âcasablancaâ.
thereâs a weird period in film where you can see the transition happening. right around the fifties, I think. the example my prof used when i learned about it was marlon brando in âa streetcar named desireâ - he was using stanislavski acting methods and this new hyper-realistic style and most or all of his costars were still using the old, highly-stylized way of acting. it makes it way more obvious how false it is.
i even noticed it in âthe stingâ, which was 1973. i actually think they used it on purpose to get the viewer fished in by the second layer of the con; the grifters at the bookieâs were acting like they were acting, and the grifters playing the feds were acting for reals. if youâre used to setting your suspension of disbelief at the first setâs level, then the second set are gonna blow right past you.
or possibly the guys playing the grifters playing the feds just happened to be using the realistic style for their own reason, and it coincidentally made the plot twist work better. but i like to think it was deliberate.
i was thinking about this again, and when you know what to look for, itâs really obvious: old movies are stage acting, not movie acting. it just didnât really occur to anyone to make the camera bend to the actors, rather than the other way around. just image search old movie screenshots and clips and gifs, youâll see it. the way people march up to their mark and stand there, the way they deliver their lines rather than inhabiting the character. the way theyâre framed in an unmoving center-stage.
this is a charming little tableau, quirky and unexpected, but itâs a tableau. it lives in a box.
now, i usually watch action movies, and i didnât think it was fair to compare an action movie with what appears to be an indoor sort of story, but i do watch some comedy tv. so i looked for a brooklyn 99 gif with a similar framing, intending to point out that the camera moves, and the characters arenât stuck inside the box. but i couldnât even find the framing. they literally never have all the characters in the same plane, facing the camera, interacting only within the staging area. even when theyâre not traveling, theyâre moving around, and they treat things outside the âstageâ as real and interact with them, even if itâs only to stare in delighted horror.
as for action, it took a while for the movies to figure out what, exactly they wanted to show us, and how to act it. hereâs a comedy punch:
here, also, is a comedy punch:
the first one looks like a stage direction written on a script. the second one looks like your friends horsing around and being jerks to each other. the first one is just not believable. the physics doesnât work. the reaction is fakey. everyoneâs stiff. even the movement of the camera is kind of wooden. the second one looks real right down to the cringe of his shoulder, and the camera feels startled too.
iâm not saying this to dis old movies, iâm just fascinated and impressed by how much the art has advanced!
Iâm going to bed, but I also want to say that I think, without actually bothering to explore it and make sure, that thereâs been a similar shift in comics, probably related to the shift in acting/camera work. And I think you still see remnants of old âstage actingâ comics in the three-panel style set ups (you might still see it in long form comics, but youâd probably call it bad composition)
Now can someone explain why people in old films talked Like That
Yâall, THATâS HOW PEOPLE TALKED.
Seriously, I used to work in a sound studio, and one series of projects required us to listen to LOTS of old audio recordings. Not of anything special - just people talking.
AND THEY TALKED LIKE THAT.
It was so fucking wild to hear just a couple of people being like,
âWELL HI THERE JEANINE, HOW ARE YOU TODAY?â
âOH, NOT TOO BAD, JOE, THOUGH MY HUSBANDâS BEEN AWAY ON BUSINESS FOR A FEW WEEKS AND I MISS HIM SOMETHING TERRIBLE.â
âWELL ITâS A HARD THING, JEANINE, BUT YOUâLL GET THROUGH IT.â
âWELL I SUPPOSE IâVE GOT TO, HAVENâT I JOE?â
All in that piercing, strident, rapid-fire style we associate with the films of the era. If youâve watched lots of old movies you can imagine the above in that speech pattern.
I donât know if people talked like that because it was in movies but I suspect itâs the other way around.
Same goes for the UK - When they made the TV series The Hour, set in the 1950s, they had to tell the very well spoken, privately educated Dominic West to tone down his imitation of a 1950s newsreader because being accurate would have sounded to a 2011 TV audience as if he was doing a parody. When you watch Brief Encounter theyâre not speaking like that because they canât act, theyâre speaking like that because it was the norm on screen. It now sounds unnatural because itâs not the norm any more.
Obviously there were people with regional accents and who didnât speak in a heightened manner, but they didnât get to be on TV or in movies unless they were villains. (And usually the villains were putting it on, like Richard Attenborough in Brighton Rock. Sure, he was Richard Attenborough, but he was brought up in the Midlands, and by the on-screen standards of the time, that was common.)
Even the Queenâs very posh accent has changed over the last 50 years and become âmore common"Â - check out newsreel footage etc for proof - and recordings of her father are almost like someone from a foreign country (well, it is the past).
There is, for many film historians/critics, an actual turning point from mannered, theatrical, or âoverplayedâ acting on screen to naturalistic/American Method realism on screen. It happens in the 1954 movie On the Waterfront, during a traveling shot in which Marlon Brandoâs character and Eva Marie Saintâs character are walking together. Eva Marie Saint accidentally drops her glove in the middle of the scene. Marlon Brando instinctively picks it up as his character, and continues the dialog, all the while playing with the gloveâturning it about, trying it on, etc. Eva Marie Saint stuck with him, never broke, and the director didnât call âcut.âÂ
Before that scene in that movie, if an actor dropped a prop by accident, they would have re-shot the sceneâbecause Brando mostly disappeared out of frame as he bent down to pick up the glove, and (as is explained above) movies were framed to keep the people in the scene in the frame. I
tâs a pretty famous scene in movies because Brandoâs character doesnât give the glove back, but instead uses it to amplify what the two characters are experiencing, naturally and without artifice. It is, for all intents and purposes, the exact moment that screen acting changed.
Okay, but hereâs the thing about television specifically: given the size of TV screens when they first came out? Stage acting was the only thing that could be READ. Watch Star Trek: TOS on a modern screen and it looks absurdly overacted. Film of the same era is not, and yet the TV is.
And thatâs not a fault of the actors; they were all very capable of naturalistic film acting (yes, even Shatner) â as the later movies would bear out. Itâs because they were acting for the small screen, not the big one.
Stage acting and stage makeup is what it is because people are far enough away from the stage that you have to cake on the makeup garishly and exaggerate the hell out of your for it to be VISIBLE. And in early television? Yeah, those constraints actually very much applied. You could move the camera, sure, but the quantity of visual information you could send was just damned limited.
The other thing about TOS acting, in particular, is that no one â well, very few people â had experience acting against special effects. These days you can take green screen acting classes, but back then, they were writing the rule books.Â
And it was difficult to tell â even for directors â if someoneâs response to âthe giant space blob weâll put in laterâ was just right, or over the top, or (less commonly) too little.Â
But yeah, early television was not made for enormous, high definition televisions. (I recommend watching monochrome Doctor Who on your iPhone â or, better yet, an iPod if you can find one.) Modern televisions show up things which simply wouldnât have been visible to a contemporary audience.
Putting on my historian and film fan hatsâboth, one on top of the other!âitâs not better acting, itâs just different. Partly that is context. But itâs also that all acting is fake. There is no objectively better or worse acting. Thereâs just shifting fashions in it, like in any art form, and it all requires effort.
The writing of Shakespeare is not ânaturalisticâ dialogue, that doesnât mean itâs bad dialogue. And one can grow sick of a Mamet play.
Thereâs a âgreat manâ theory of acting promoted surrounding Brando in particular, which is⌠not good history. And I donât just say that because he sexually assaulted his 19 year old co-star in Last Tango in Paris.
Also, Iâm sorry, but coming for Casablanca in terms of face acting? Have you seen a quality version of the slow zoom in on Ingrid Bergmanâs face? Which says so much in her silence?
That shit is LIT.
Also I think the restaurant scene in âThe Immigrantâ has some marvelous, deeply humane acting by Chaplin. Itâs silent film acting, so mannered⌠but itâs quite evocative, across languages, across time. The scene from âThe Gold Rushâ where his character delicately eats his own shoe says so much about desperation, human suffering and dignity.
The idea that Brando On The Waterfront is, rather than being also worthwhile art, somehow fundamentally *superior* art rings false to me.
The whole idea that naturalistic is inevitably better and all progress toward it is a progress upward is part of the âGreat Manâ/âWhigâ view of history promoted by actors and acting schools in the second half of the 20th Century.
I got offended on behalf of Pauline Frederick, Ann Harding, Leslie Howard, Conrad Veidt and all the other utterly magnificient actors from old hollywood.Â
âMethod actingâ is just a mode among others, a stylisation of reality, and trying to approach ârealityâ in itself is a stylistic choice. Emotions can be evoked through many devices, not all of them being believable. Thatâs why we can strongly response to media as varied as comics or cinema. And thatâs why silents will blow your mind if you think it rested upon acting in its infancy.
(Source:Â https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5guIdpsclnI)
But even back in the 30s you would find actors who could do more ânaturalisticâ acting nearly as well as current actors, in a time where it wasnât the dominant style. My favourite is Ann Harding, nothing short of a âmissing link between the theatrical style of her own day and the more introspective axting style that followed a generation later, in the wake of Marlon Brando and the Actors Studioâ according to Mick LaSalle, a film critic focused on the 20s and 30s of American cinema.
(Source:Â https://youtu.be/vpN9nScUEYE)
Ignore the image quality, terrible background music and the nun. Focus on the way Ann Harding cuts her sentences, modulates her voice, uses her hands and whole body. The Right To Romance is not a good film, like many of the films she starred in, unfortunately, but her craft in this sequence is evident.
Hereâs what Scott OâBrien had to say about Ann Hardingâs technique in his book Ann Harding:Â Cinemaâs Gallant Lady:
âHer technique was utterly suited to the screen. Her onscreen close-up showed that she was always, always thinking. Old-time actors - that is, the good ones, who bothered to think at all - tended to think throughout a line of dialogue. Todayâs actors tend to think before a line. They pause, they reflect, they find the worlds. Harding was an actress in the modern mode, at least a generation, perhaps two generations, ahead of her time.â
On the language itself, itâs also important to remember that âsophisticationâ was a popular trait in characters and actors at the time: movies sold dreams (have you ever seen the art deco sets Astaire and Rogers were dancing around?). The way rich characters talk, the âMid-Atlantic accentâ, was a marker of wealth and education, taught in drama school and colleges. Like putting sunglasses on someoneâs face indicated immediately just how cool a character is supposed to be.Â
I also would like to point out that often when we talk about acting, we are in fact talking about direction. The focus on a hand, the way a fight is staged, keeping ad-libs (yep, they existed), filming actors like indeed you are just plopping your camera in front of a stage, etc⌠Those are not acting choices, but they certainly influence the way actors will play.
donât get snobby just because you arenât the audience. itâs fine that some older things donât work for you, but they worked incredibly well in the context of their time. they did what art was supposed to do, they engaged the viewer. of course styles are going to change over time, and what audiences want from films change too, and thatâs fine! but i hate the superiority over the past in the first few posts in this thread.Â
watch my girl lillian gish sometime in something like the wind or this famous scene from broken blossoms. no, itâs not how someone would act this scene now, but i defy anyone to tell me it isnât effective. you feel her agony. can you imagine what this scene was like to watch in 19-frikkin-19? and it wasnât because they were primitives who didnât know better. she spoke to the people of her time.
and buster keatonâs deadpan is still hilarious.Â
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