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You know now what you must do hips

like do you understand how hard it is to find healthy lesbian relationships ANYWHERE in the media

and then saying OH WELL IF WE HAVE LESBIAN COUPLES WE HAVE TO FIND ACE COUPLES AND INTERRACIAL COUPLES AND TRANS COUPLES AND POLY COUPLES is such a crazy and outlandish idea

listen buddy that only proves that you think those relationships are CRAZY to highlight or too outlandish to make a video about and that means that’s a YOU problem

you know

being fucking objectified for their sexuality or having their pain commodified for consumerist pop culture narratives

like, honest to god.

it’s not cute, it’s not romantic, it’s not kink or “sin,” it’s an unhealthy idealization of a severely harmful pattern (or patterns) of behavior. abuser and victim ships normalize these behaviors at best and romanticize them at worst.

these are not cute quirks; woobifying an abuser so that you feel better about their abusive behavior or worse, justifying the abuse itself, is not acceptable. the idealization of abuser and victim ships is a gross misrepresentation of the actual real-life situations that play out every day. it completely ignores the consequences of making these behaviors and this abuse seem normal, expected, or tolerable.

physical abuse, mental abuse, emotional abuse, from subtle manipulations like gaslighting to outright physical violence, is not acceptable in any relationship, familial, platonic, or romantic.