I get why people hold firm to the idea that, to be happy, you have to accept your body instead of trying to change it, and for a lot of things that holds true, but it does not tend to be the case for dysphoria
take HRT. seek the surgeries you need. and if you cannot get these things that's a real and serious problem in the system that needs to be fixed. it's not your fault as an individual for needing gender affirming care. dysphoria is not the same thing as insecurity, it's a different kind of thing entirely
