Rotating Aqua in my head like a microwave
Like yes you're so incredibly devoted to your friends you love them so much you will literally kill yourself for them...but you also don't trust them at all and I don't think you even fully realize it
She defends Terra's ability to fight the darkness right up until she's actually talking to him and then it's all suspicion and berating him over giving in and she genuinely thinks it's helping! I don't think she even realizes how much harm she's doing to Terra or the fact that she's making it very clear that she has zero faith in him.
And then with Ven she doesn't trust him to help with the situation at all. Even though she herself is kind of doing nothing to help and just hoping from afar that Terra figures this out himself. Ven is ACTIVELY chasing after Terra and trying to do like anything but neither Terra nor Aqua is willing to let him.
RAAAAAA Aqua has empathy issues. She hasn't struggled with the darkness herself so she thinks Terra can get over it himself without help. She's internalized like everything Eraqus has said.
I love Aqua she cares so much but is also such a problem